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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:15 AM Original message |
How do you deal with queerhaters? |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
1. Did you intend for this to be such flamebait? n/t |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Is someone here |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:25 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I thought "queer" was derogatory. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:26 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. not when used by someone who is actually queer |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:28 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Thanks. n/t |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:31 AM Response to Reply #8 |
15. I'd say not even when used by someone who's straight, if they use it |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:43 AM Response to Reply #15 |
21. That seems reasonable. n/t |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #8 |
25. like when african americans call each other "nigga?" |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:38 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. yup. exactly like that. only slightly different, because as far as i know |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:42 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. yet we latinos are stuck only with homey, vato, and guey as in group honorifics |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. my favorite is when there are gd threads that claim its unfair |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:47 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. i usually call most people asshole |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:48 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. but you love me, right? |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:49 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. ur teh best!!!!111 |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:54 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. why, thank you! |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 01:53 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. As it should be. |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 07:08 PM Response to Reply #29 |
43. Hey, esse |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 07:09 PM Response to Reply #8 |
44. How about African Americans who use the N-word to describe themselves? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. are you african american? if not how dare you presume to know how they should |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:00 AM Response to Reply #44 |
60. I agree. The word is ugly and should be eliminated. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:32 AM Response to Reply #6 |
17. I know for a fact |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
3. not very well. why? |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:22 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Because they're trying to destroy one of the best friendships I've ever had. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
5. I'm usually pretty damned hostile with them. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:30 AM Response to Reply #5 |
13. Oh... |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
7. Fortunately I haven't had to deal with them much. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:27 AM Response to Original message |
9. I can't say I really know anyone who just bashes on gay people. |
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southpaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
10. I explain to them |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:37 AM Response to Reply #10 |
19. I can't say that to them. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
12. I don't. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
14. By tearing them a new one. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:34 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. ... |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:41 AM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Do you run over them with your minIVAN BOXWINE BOXWINE |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. It has SIRIUS SATELLITE RADIO!!!!! |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:44 PM Response to Reply #20 |
30. !! |
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Tektonik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 01:56 PM Response to Reply #20 |
39. corn flakes |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 02:13 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. ! |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #20 |
46. Dood, teh series hugh |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:01 PM Response to Reply #20 |
51. Deleted message. |
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SacredCow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
16. It really depends on the individual.... |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
22. Ostracism. |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
23. I hit on them.... |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
26. Skullfucking them |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
28. I don't. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
36. I mastered this... |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
37. Be a good example |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
40. Constant mockery for their stupid fucking prejudices and bigotry. |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
41. I may not always be confrontational about it, but I try to always at least put my foot down firmly. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
47. I call him on it. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
48. Sexual harassment, usually. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
49. Different ways, depending... |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
50. How can anyone hate Queer? |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
52. Well...the only homophobe I've ever been close to is my ex-girlfriend... |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
53. Run the other way and get help. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
54. I do not care what color they are, I don't care what sexual identities they persue... |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:19 AM Response to Original message |
55. I've never run across anyone brave enough to confront me in a hateful manner to my face. |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:32 AM Response to Original message |
56. I talk about all the fun they're missing out on at Faerie gatherings. |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
57. I let them "put their foot in it" for a minute... then i step on it |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
58. My usual tactic is to allow people enough time to decide whether they like me or not, before |
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TheBaldyMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
59. Point out that they're latent homos , |
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