My boyfriend and I broke up last night.

[Mutley]

I know it's probably for the better because we just had too many issues to make it work long term. But it still sucks. :(

[Haole Girl]

1. Sorry you have to go through that

It's tough, too, when there are mixed feelings like that. :hug:

[Mutley]

5. Thanks.

Yeah, it's tough. :hug:

I'll get through it, though.

[RevolutionaryActs]

2. Aww I'm sorry sweetie.

:hug::loveya:

[Mutley]

6. Thanks, hon.

You're the best!

:hug: :loveya:

[WannaBeGrumpy]

3. aww I'm sorry

lots of love and hugs

:loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug::loveya: :hug:

[Mutley]

7. Hehehe, thanks for all the love and hugs.

:hug: :loveya:

[Radical Activist]

4. So...

nice myspace page. ;-)

Breaking up always sucks. Better luck next time.

[Mutley]

8. Heh, thanks.

;)

And, thanks. :hug:

[Radical Activist]

30. Personally, I feel good after a break up.

The argument/discussion of breaking up is never fun, but I enjoy the feeling of freedom I get right after ending a relationship. Maybe its a sign that I'm better off alone or I just haven't found the right person for me. Anyway, enjoy your freedom.

[Mutley]

35. That's a good way to look at it.

That actually helps quite a bit. Thanks.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

9. My dear mutley...

It's never easy to give up a lovely dream, especially when it involved loving someone...

Be gentle with yourself, sweetie...

You will heal, and go on, even if it doesn't feel like it now...

:hug:

[Mutley]

11. Thank you, CP.

You're fantastic.

:hug:

[mnhtnbb]

10. It's tough to give up on loving someone--but don't give up on love.

Someone is out there for you. Someone who will love you the way you deserve and appreciate
what you have to give him.

It's an adventure to find the right man.

Hugs and hope coming your way.

:hug: :hug: :hug:

:hi:

[Mutley]

12. I hope so.

I'm not holding my breath right now, though.

:hug:

[mnhtnbb]

15. I was 33 before I found the man of my dreams. Married at 21 to the wrong man;

divorced at 28 and spent the next five years dating a LOT of guys (and even living with one for a couple of years before deciding he wasn't "it")before I met hubby. We've been
married 23 years. Don't give up hope!

[Mutley]

22. It's good to hear stories like that.

I'm 28, and for a while I thought this was the "it" guy. It's depressing to know I have to start all over again.

[mnhtnbb]

29. It is depressing. I've been there, that's why I shared my history.

It's hard to be alone, which is one reason I went back to the guy I ended up living with for two years.
It's hard to know what issues can be solved, let go, vs. relationship breakers.

Be good to yourself. Treat yourself the way you want the 'it' guy to treat you. He'll appear one of these days--and you will know it the first time you meet. I promise!

[NewEnglandGirl]

13. Most of the time, things happen

for the best. There is probably someone out there who was born just for you. You will find each other. In the meantime, sorry for your pain. :cry: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Mutley]

20. Yeah, hopefully.

Thanks for the hugs. :hug:

[SoDesuKa]

14. You'll Find Someone Else

You'll be skeptical of a new relationship for a while, then you'll open up to the possibility. You'll also be more guarded, but I hope you don't choose loneliness over the risk of getting hurt again. Life's a bitch and then you die.

[Mutley]

21. Heh, ain't that the truth.

Thank you. :)

[My Good Babushka]

16. enjoy the peace and quiet.

It won't be long before you fall assbackwards into trouble again.

[Mutley]

23. Ha. Trouble.

That's the way it always is.

[Guava Jelly]

17. I'm sorry mutley

:hug:

[Mutley]

25. Thanks, GoPsUx.

:yourock:

:hug:

[Robeson]

18. I know it sucks. I'm sorry....

...:grouphug:

[Mutley]

26. Yeah it does. Thanks!

:hug:

[Tuesday Afternoon]

19. yeah, that is suckage.

x(

:hug:

[Mutley]

27. Stupid guys.

They all suck. :hug:









Just kidding, guys. :P

[ccharles000]

24. ...

:hug:

[Mutley]

28. Thanks.

:hug:

[Danger Mouse]

31. sorry to hear that and hope you're doing okay.

:hug:

[Mutley]

33. I'll be fine.

I'm sad, but it'll pass. Thanks.

:hug:

[crim son]

32. I'm very sorry. It's hard even when you know it wouldn't work.

Living through it now. :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Mutley]

34. At least we have DU.

:P

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

36. Sorry about that...

but since you're single now....


:P


:hug:


hope things get better for you!!!

[Mutley]

42. Lol, thanks.

This is why I love DU. All the wise guys. :P

:hug:

[Faygo Kid]

37. Damned insensitive guys. What's your phone number??

JUST KIDDING!

Keep a sense of humor. You'll be OK, and will do better next time.

[Mutley]

43. Yeah, I'm working on it.

And thanks. :)

[IronLionZion]

38. Sorry to hear that

I hope it works out for you.

I'm about to break up with my girlfriend because we're wrong for each other. I know it would be for the best...but it's difficult and I've been reluctant. She's such a wonderful person and I don't want to hurt her. This is my first relationship (I'm a late bloomer) and therefore will be my first breakup.

[Mutley]

41. Well, good luck.

Just be kind to her.

[applegrove]

39. Sorry. Not fun. But you have a winning attitude. You'll some day have

a great relationship. One you deserve.

[Mutley]

44. Thanks.

I hope so. :)

[ThomCat]

40. I'm sorry.

:(

I hope it really is better for you in the long run, but I know that doesn't make it easier to handle in the short term.

I hope you're well.
:hug:

[Mutley]

46. Thom!

How are ya? Haven't seen you around in a while.

:hug:

Yeah, I think it's better in the long run. There's just too much going on and we'd end up hating each other.

[LynneSin]

45. I hope you're doing ok!@! Gonna be down at your end of the state this weekend

we're getting tickets for George Clinton!

[Mutley]

47. Ooo! That'll be fun.

Maybe we can get drinks or something after your show. :)