I heard from an old friend today

[Rising Phoenix]

wierd thing is I was just thinking about this person....missed her.....but I''m angry..I don't know if I"m just holding a grudge....

[malta blue]

1. hmmmm

depends on the damage done IMHO.

I miss my aunt - but the damage was soooo terrible - I cannot forgive. :cry:

[Rising Phoenix]

2. she wasn't there for me during the hardest time of my life

and now she is showing up......years later.....contacting me at every possible on line way of finding people.....don't know what I will do....just follow my gut I guess

[malta blue]

3. tread softly friend. and remember we are here for you.

:hug:

[Rising Phoenix]

5. thank you

I can always count on you guys to be there

[marzipanni]

4. Maybe she was having a hard time of her life

and couldn't handle it? Or didn't feel capable of being any help. :shrug:

[Rising Phoenix]

6. I know she was

and I know she was torn, a very difficult time for her, and it coudnt have been easy for her to reach out to me.....

[Sanity Claws]

7. Mercury retrograde

Mercury is in retrograde. It is not unusual to go over old ground or run into old friends during this time period.
I will now don my asbestos suit to protect myself against the ensuing flames caused by this astrology reference.
Carry on, Rising Phoenix.

[NJmaverick]

8. Funny thing about anger, it's like a backward rifle

it hurts the person giving the anger, rather than the one it's directed at.


Let the anger go, for your own sake.