I got my heart broken, sorta...

[From The Ashes]

...the guy I had a crush on at work told me today that he got married Friday. It's not like I had a chance with him, but DAMN! :cry:

[Haole Girl]

1. Oh....

I'm sure that hurt. :hug:

[From The Ashes]

7. It sucks...

:(

[CaliforniaPeggy]

2. My dear From The Ashes...

Aw, sweetie...

You got caught up in a lovely fantasy, only to see it blasted away...

I'm so sorry...

Feel better soon...

Hugs to you!

[From The Ashes]

8. Not only blasted away...

...but I swear I could hear my heart breaking. Sounded kinda like glass shattering. :(

[GreenPartyVoter]

3. I hate when that happens. That is slightly worse than having a crush on some guy from afar only

to finally spend some time with him up close and he turns out to be nothing like you had imagined. :(

[From The Ashes]

9. I imagine...

...That's tough as well. :hug:

[SPKrazy]

4. Hey, I Feel For Ya

I got mine broken too last week.

I'm feeling better and you will too. You are a good person and a sweet and caring one.

:hug:

We will prevail, and our lives will feel more sane someday soon I believe.

:hi:

[From The Ashes]

10. maybe we should start...

...a lonely heart's club. :hug:

[harmonicon]

5. That kind of thing always sucks

When I was in college, there was this girl who would study at the same coffee shop as me, and we'd have little chats some times. I was completely in love with her. Eventually I found out that she had a long term boyfriend, and that's in fact why she even went to that university. I eventually became friends with them as a couple, and then when they broke up a few years later, instead of feeling like it was my chance, I mostly just felt really bad for the guy she'd dumped, and didn't like her as much after that.

[From The Ashes]

11. yes it does suck...

...I'm sure you've since moved on to bigger and better things, but have a hug anyway. :hug:

[harmonicon]

16. oh, no worries here

I've been together with the same beautiful, intelligent, and insanely difficult, woman for years now. I'm a lucky one ;)

[orleans]

6. sorry. n/t

[From The Ashes]

12. Thanks orleans...n/t

[JCMach1]

13. I would never let a little thing like marriage stop me...

please, be more open-minded :)

I did date several women on the marriage/separation/whatever rebound in my younger days. So, you never know what might happen.

[From The Ashes]

14. Nah...

That's not my style. I've had it happen to me, so I'm not willing to be the source of someone else's pain.

[JCMach1]

15. On a moral note, despite the legal status of said

damsels, I never dated someone who was still emotionally IN their old relationship.

However, I had something similar happen when I was 19. I had just finished my Fr. year of college and I promptly go in a horrific car accident. As I was recovering, my old GF (who I still had hopes for) came over to tell me she was getting married within 2 weeks. I was shocked! Upset! And having just had a near-death experience, very depressed.

I feel for you.

[Gormy Cuss]

17. Ah...

Bummer. :hug:

[From The Ashes]

21. Thanks Gormy...

:hug:

[Highway61]

18. I'm sorry

It happens to all of us at sometime on our journey. But look at it this way...the next one could be the real deal. Hang in there.

[From The Ashes]

22. I'm hoping...

...the next is the real deal. Thanks.

[Inchworm]

19. He may be available soon

hehe, statistically speaking of course. :hug:

I just figured I'd say something silly in hopes to get a grin or a slap out of you.

:loveya:

[From The Ashes]

23. Oh you!

:spank: :rofl: :loveya:

[lost-in-nj]

20. I'm sorry

even though it was a nice dream it still hurts when you have to come to the conclusion
that it was just a dream....


:hug:



lost

[From The Ashes]

24. or else...

daydream about and his new wife :eyes: :hug: