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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:33 PM Original message |
so all those experienced with Divorce...tell me how |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
1. I haven't done it, but my gut feeling is find the lawyer first. You might get some |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
2. If there are kids, a home, or a serious division in income...you need a lawyer. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
3. I don't have kids, so both divorces started with |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
4. If it's amicable, divorce is one of the only legal issues you can DIY |
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Raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
5. I don't know if you're a Mom or a Dad but, stay in the home. Don't leave |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
6. I would talk to a lawyer |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
7. 1) You decide it's time. |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
8. Re: kids |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
9. Do you have an Employee Assistance program at work? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
10. You need a lawyer, and a good one |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. We already have seperate accounts...(we are on each others account for emergencies) |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:57 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. If you're on each other's accounts, then you do NOT have a separate account. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:58 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. I did something similar |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Bah. Were you married to my ex? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
21. You too? |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:04 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. Yup. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:20 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Ha, mine was very surprised too |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 09:05 AM Response to Reply #21 |
35. Me three. /nt |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
11. Since there are kids involved, a lawyer is an ABSOLUTE Must. |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
12. Ask others for names of good lawyers. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Get a lawyer |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Sorry, I meant to reply to the OP. nt |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:01 PM Response to Reply #12 |
23. I want to second PeaceNikki's advice about |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 08:48 PM Response to Reply #12 |
31. Oh yeah, for sure stop posting this shit here........ |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
16. our state, Colorado, has a no-fault divorce law |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
20. frankly, it depends on how amicable things are liable to be IMO.... |
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madrchsod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
22. nothing to add but everyone who`s posted has the right ideas |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
24. All I know is from other people. If you are sure it will be amicable... |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
27. If really considering divorce...Step One |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
28. There's sound advice above |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
29. Online divorce. |
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Sock Puppet (624 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 07:08 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. wow. thanks for the rec. do you have kids? |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 07:59 AM Response to Reply #32 |
34. You're welcome :) |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-27-08 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
30. As one who is only a step ahead |
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Tektonik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
33. As a child of a recent divorce |
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Sweet Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
36. Warning about the online divorce |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
37. greenbriar. i am so sorry. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-28-08 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
38. My ex was too lazy to deal with all that... |
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