What do you give a man for Valentines Day?

[GoddessOfGuinness]

besides sex, I mean...

[helleborient]

1. This man loves flowers...

And I think the notion that men don't like flowers is very mistaken for many.

[Mistress Quickly]

2. more sex?

dirty sex?

[terrya]

3. I'll send Doug some flowers....

Last year, I sent him two long stem red roses, intertwined, in a vase. With a card telling him even though the roses were pretty, our love was more beautiful.

I'll do the same this year. Doug is bringing out the romantic in me. I like it.

Terry

[elfwitch]

4. sex twice?

Sex while you are wearing lingerie?
Porn?
A good meal and a butt rub?

[EstimatedProphet]

5. I'd go with sex...

It's always a pleaser.
And a good tequila. Like Patron or Don Eduardo.
But...yeah, sex is good.

[Loonman]

6. Steak dinner and sex?

?

[Coventina]

7. This year I'm giving him

a gift certificate to our local Asian market where he buys his green tea, among other things.

They also have cooking classes, we took a sushi class there together once. That was really fun.
With a gift certificate he can decide if he wants another class or goods they sell.

[meegbear]

8. The more expensive the gift

the more perverted the sex act you will be expected to perform later.

[Kamika]

9. You wear the gift he gave you, in bed?

:p

[GoddessOfGuinness]

13. How do you wear a

chainsaw? :7

[LastKnight]

18. very carefully nt

[Kamika]

19. Wow he gave you a chainsaw??

It's the couch for him

[Rabrrrrrr]

25. Maybe it was a really good chainsaw!

Perhaps a Husqvarna!

[lucidmadman]

10. companionship, affection and...

...a choice of destinations (if you know what I mean and I bet you do.)

[Commie Pinko Dirtbag]

11. Sex and a VERY thorough massage (nt)

[TXlib]

12. Make his sexual fantasy come true

[geniph]

14. Salsa dance lessons for us...

(yes, he wants to learn). I'm paying for the class for both of us for Valentine's.

[MissMillie]

15. His favorite home cooked meal complete w/ dessert....

.... served on you, of course.

oh yeah, and flowers.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

22. I always do the meal thing...

It just never seems like it's enough, somehow. (despite the wild sex after-dinner apertif)

Am I wrong, guys out there? Is your favorite meal as special as anything that could be purchased?

[camero]

34. Well, the way to a man's heart

is through his stomach. :)

[VelmaD]

46. I thought the way to a man's heart...

was through his ribcage. :evilgrin:

[ScreamingMeemie]

16. Sending him off to work with lunch and coffee, backrubs at night,

appreciation for all the work he does, clean clothes in his dresser...I do this every day, because every day I love my husband. :hi:

[amazona]

17. well it's about the sex

Sex toys can work. The classic bubble bath and massage by candle light that is followed up by sex. The home-cooked meal (not too heavy) with some champagne that goes to the head and leads to sex. Hell, it's the one holiday I can think of that celebrates sex, so I think we should make the most of it. Be a little experimental. And there are always those silk boxer shorts that then come off and lead to more sex.

[WhoCountsTheVotes]

20. threesome?

just saying...

[GoddessOfGuinness]

21. I'm not good at sharing...

But thanks for the thought. ;-)

[Blue-Jay]

23. OK, besides (including, I mean) sex...

Give him a day of relaxation. Whatever he likes to do that you don't care for.

Poker with the boys? Here's 50 bucks.
Fishing? Here's a ticket for a charter boat.
You like to read? Here's a gift certificate for Borders.
Sex? Here's sex! (whoops)
Beer and a movie? Guinness and a movie where lots of things blow up!

You get the gist. Give him something he used to enjoy before you were a couple. (aside from sleeping with other people, of course) No, don't do it on V-Day. He probably understands that 2/14 is for YOU. Give him something he can enjoy at a later date.

[Rabrrrrrr]

24. Flowers!!!

I love flowers.

And chocolate.

Cigars are nice, too, but a little too expensive. A nice $7 bouquet of flowers, hopefully roses or Orchids, is all I ask for.

And let me cook dinner, or go out to eat.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

27. Hmmm...Maybe a dish garden

of succulents?

[Rabrrrrrr]

28. I'd be happy with it

:-)

[thinkingwoman]

26. handcuffs?

No, wait, sorry. That's a birthday gift.

[camero]

29. When you're starving you need to eat.

So that's why I say sex. :P

[Lostmessage]

35. Poor dude

As cute as you are you should have dozens of girls after you in FL.

[camero]

36. I'm a Yankee at heart.

Maybe that explains it. :) :blush:

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[qwertyMike]

30. The usual

Old Mice

ugggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh

[qwertyMike]

31. You mean Sex is something so special

the poor bastard only gets it on Special Occasions?

[GoddessOfGuinness]

41. Abstinence makes

the font grow harder. ;-)

[peterh]

32. Has anyone mentioned sex yet….

:+

[YellowRubberDuckie]

33. Chocolate.

My man is all about the chocolate. God, I wish we had a big tub, I'd give him a cocoa bath, with chocolate candles and hot cocoa or something.
Duckie

[KFC]

37. Dope

[GoddessOfGuinness]

40. LOL...20 years ago

that would've been a good bet...in a heart-shaped box, of course.

[BurtWorm]

38. A reminder that it's Valentine's Day.

You should give this to him as a Valentine's Eve present, usually.

[WhoCountsTheVotes]

47. exactly Burt!

You hit the nail on the head.

[Fleshdancer]

39. an hour long body massage while wearing sexy lingerie

be sure to buy massage oil and have a lot of candles around. Maybe some light music in the background.

It's intimate, giving, special, and if you're on a tight budget...cheap.

[grannylib]

42. Silk boxers; guitar strings; his favorite meal; a major backrub; cologne;

plants (rather than flowers); picture frames...
just a few of the things my hubby has appreciated in the past...

[GoddessOfGuinness]

45. Ya think if I give him a guitar strap

he'll wear it to bed? :D

[Mobius]

43. Universal remote control?

:shrug:

[GoddessOfGuinness]

44. Sounds like what Bu$h wants...

:7