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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 09:40 PM
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I have been chatting with a cute guy in gay.com
Edited on Thu Feb-07-08 09:41 PM by Roon
for three weeks now. He is sweet,kind, funny, cultured, and he has a really cute personality. We never met in person but have exchanged photos and been talking on the phone and online the last three weeks. The other day he got really cold on me. Then, when I finally talked to him, he admitted to me that he is suffering from Traumatic Brain Injury from being fag bashed when he was a kid.He said, because of that, he is in a lot of pain and it hurts to look at screens on the computer and the phone.

He accepted my HIV status,I am going to accept his brain injury. Funny thing is, he thinks being brain damaged is worse then being HIV+. He is 33 and I am 40. Did I mention the he is cute?
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 09:42 PM
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1. So he's my age and cute.
You're a lucky guy.
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:11 PM
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3. I'm not lucky yet
Once he is done with school, furthers his career and still wants to see me..Then I will be lucky.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:14 PM
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5. I don't know-
he sounds lucky to have someone like you willing to wait for him.
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:27 PM
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7. He's so CUTE!!!
How can I not wait for him? I am 40, he is 33, we still have a lot of life between us.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:29 PM
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8. Cute does help.
;)
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 09:44 PM
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2. Hey that is cool Roon
I hope it is something that can work out for you.

How terrible that he was fag bashed when he was a kid, or that anyone is.

:hug: :hug:

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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:13 PM
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4. I just found out last night
Three weeks after meeting him, one week after tell him that i had aids. He is a real sweety. So special.....
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CorpGovActivist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:17 PM
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6. *fingers crossed*
There isn't an emoticon to capture the hopeful grin.

First relationship that started with a chat? A gorgeous, spectacular disaster.

The rebound?

Fourteen years in July. Maybe I'll kick him to the curb. Next year.

My fondest, most heartfelt wishes that you've found the one.

:loveya:

- Dave
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:30 PM
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9. I was with my first lover for 15 years
I was with my second lover for 3 years. I have my fingers crossed too. Jason is so cute,I can't get over it.
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CorpGovActivist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:33 PM
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10. Well, Papa Smurf always says...
... Lead with your Smurf.

To a fun first 9 1/2 Weeks, Smurf style - followed by many, many more!

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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:45 PM
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11. Cute!
I always liked jokey smurf because I pull a lot of pratical jokes on my family and friends...to the point where someone almost got sued!! I had to give it up after that. But I still have my jokey smurf gag for other people that come to my house. They always laugh after they know they have been had.
'
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CorpGovActivist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-07-08 10:48 PM
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12. Kindred spirits. Kindred spirits.
I could Smurf with you 'til the Smurfs came Smurf on adult Smurf jokes.

And don't even Smurfle anything with Safe Smurf off that is related to Smurf and Smurf.

Yikes.

************

Don't you miss when Saturday mornings meant something? *sigh*
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