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momophile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:41 PM
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how often, if ever, have you googled an ex?
Edited on Mon Dec-31-07 01:41 PM by momophile
seems like I google my high school sweetheart every couple of months or so. I'd love to find a picture of him and know if he is happily married.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:42 PM
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1. A couple of times
one time I thought I found the guy who gave me my first kiss. I emailed him. But it was another guy by the same name :(
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momophile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:46 PM
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4. how funny. you're braver than I am.
I've found a phone number, but I won't call.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:48 PM
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6. That was years ago
I wouldn't be able to search for him now. I forgot his last name. His first name was Jeremiah .... sigh .....
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:43 PM
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2. Thanks for reminding me.
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momophile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:45 PM
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3. get on it, girl!
do I have to send out reminders every few months?
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:48 PM
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7. Yes.
Then I wouldn't feel guilty. It would seem more like a duty.
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AllegroRondo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:47 PM
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5. only to see if she's in prison again
maybe once a year.
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PeaceNikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:50 PM
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8. Heh, yeah, I have an ex like that.
I can almost always find his current address through the public case search in the state. He always has some new charge I can look up and remind myself why exactly I'm far better off without him.

He's in jail awaiting trial as I type.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 01:50 PM
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9. I looked one up on myspace once, but I've never googled any of them.
And with that one we were fairly amicable the last time we talked, we just kinda drifted off in seperate directions and lost track of each other.
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Ivan Sputnik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:01 PM
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10. Once
several years ago. It didn't turn up much that was interesting. I would probably try it again, but I can't remember her married name. She could find me easily on the web, but I haven't heard from her, so...meh...
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:03 PM
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11. My ex boyfriend / fiance from Germany did that to me recently ...
he did some serious stalking ... he found my blogspot blog and e-mailed me via the e-mail address that I have on that site. I thought he was dead. I have'nt seen him in 3 years. I have a different life now and I have moved on ... he beat me up and stuff - too deep to explain but I don't hate him. I am just a different person now. He e-mailed me and told me he still loved me. I can't take time to stop and turn around because it would'nt be fair to the one I care about now. So that is life ...
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:08 PM
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12. sure, my first high school boyfriend is a software rich guy!
he sure doesn't look like he did when we were in high school though.

:rofl:
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:12 PM
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13. Yeah, usually a few times a year.
It makes me feel a lot better to see how badly he's aging. :D
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Der Blaue Engel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:37 PM
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14. I google "the one that got away" regularly and still can't find her
I had a friend in college that I didn't realize I had feelings for until we had a stupid fight and I moved out of state without saying good-bye. At the time, we both thought we were straight, so our "inexplicably" deep bond was confusing to us both.

I don't know whether she identifies differently now, but I keep looking her up every so often. I've gotten close to finding her, but she keeps slipping away. :(
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:42 PM
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15. Tried it
For a former boyfriend. Problem is he shares a name with a character in a soap opera. I wasn't willing to sift through a million hits to find the real human being. Very smart guy. I was expecting to find him arguing before the Supreme Court or something.
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:42 PM
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16. Two or three times, but we were both single and we'd had a few drinks
Oops, sorry -- you said "google". Nevermind.

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MorningGlow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:45 PM
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17. About once a year or so
Not that I'm proud of it. :blush:

Just one ex. I don't want to contact him or anything--I guess I'm curious about how he "turned out". I also googled a guy I had a crush on in college (although we never went out) and although I thought I'd find him plastered all over the Web, he's nowhere to be found. :shrug:
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catmandu57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 02:49 PM
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18. A couple of times
but it just feels too much like stalking and I'm not comfortable with that, but, curiosity got the better of me.
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CBHagman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 04:18 PM
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19. Just once.
At least I think it's my ex, still in Ohio when I've moved about a half dozen times since then.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-31-07 04:33 PM
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20. I've tried once
But he shares a name with a famous person, so it's impossible.
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