http://christiandomesticdiscipline.com/Home.htmlSome excerpts from the "blog" link:
The following OTK (0ver the knee) position for disciplining wives is adapted from a method used and recommended by a registered nurse to paddle high school and college aged daughters. It is suggested in this forum because, as experienced husbands and fathers are aware, there is not much difference in paddling a rebellious teenager or her difficult mother. The preliminaries, procedures and product can be quite similar.
A common problem is finding a suitable alternative to lap positioning with taller females. When compared to over the lap - which older women often despise because, unless the woman is petite, it can be anything from awkward to precarious - the original OTK is safe and comfortable.
Over the lap positioning, with the husband seated on a couch or bed, attempts to duplicate the original OTK for the wife's torso, but fails to resolve the difficulty of what to do with about the legs. For reasons explained below - i.e., wedged positioning and leg pinning if necessary - the original OTK does away with distracting concerns over *making* the wife stay in *position*.Erm, okay then. Let's read more:
Over time, generally one of two things will happen to a girl with loose morals. She will either become rock hard and stone cold, or she will become overwhelmed with guilt and desperately seek relief.
Hardened hearts are for God; man can handle a woman's guilt. It is one of the reasons why women are still attracted to men they know will spank.
Among its other uses, *hitting* a female on presented and bared buttocks hard enough to *make her cry* is the most common purging technique used by mankind to separate a woman from her guilt. Although often embarrassing for younger women - usually because they told by politically correct ideology that they are *too old to spank* - it is, nonetheless, so effective as to be known as *expelling the demons*!
Like sex - what used to be known as *love and marriage* - spanking the product of a familial framework. Consequently, as with sex, it is best practiced within that context.And from a woman's point of view:
However, as everyone knows, just being a Christian does not make us perfect. Wanting to do well does not always cause us to do well. A spanking for punishment is unpleasant both for the wife receiving the pain as well as the husband who is forced to give it. It should be avoided if at all possible without compromising the integrity of the marriage. One of the ways we've found to do this is through play.
Those three little swats immediately put my heart in the right place. It reminded me I was lying next to a man who can and will take up the rod if he is forced to it. It reminded me of his authority and his right to rule in our home. And to be transparently honest with you, it greatly increased my sexual awareness of him as a man.
It is a win-win situation for us. It improves our relationship both in and out of the bedroom, and it avoids an unpleasant situation that could lead to a punishment session that is painful for us both (only in different ways). I highly recommend it.
May God bless you and have a great day!
LeahSo basically, we've got two different kinds of people here: abusive men and abused women, or people with a spanking fetish. I feel terrible about the first group, but the second group is awesome. They've managed to convince themselves that their spanking kink is FOR JESUS.
Listen, if spanking is your thing, spank away. Spank each other until your asses are numb. But don't attempt to tell me you're DOING THE LORD'S WORK. :eyes: :rofl:
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