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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:00 PM Original message |
Open letter to the parents holding that $#@^ing slumber party tonight |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
1. wow |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:09 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Luckily my kid doesn't act like I do. |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #5 |
36. You've got nothing to apologize for |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
34. Oh give me a break |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
2. Wow. That really is incredibly rude of them. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
3. perspective? |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:14 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. Oh yes, she will live. The stupidity just overwhelms me, however. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:16 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. . |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:32 PM Response to Reply #10 |
77. ya know, it might be a good thing to call the parent |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
4. I'm sorry davsand |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
6. A) You are a great and caring Mom |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #6 |
23. I swear, I think girls are brutal to each other. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #23 |
65. Kids are just feeling their way toward the kind of nasty shit we do to each other. |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
7. Same thing happened to me, in a way. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
8. Oh gawd, I can so relate to this bullshit. ShineGirl had this happen last yr |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
9. Same thing sort of happened to me at age ten. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:15 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. IMHO, it's the parents fault that the kid is a little shit |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:16 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Yup, I totally agree. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:18 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. I didn't read where the parents knew the kid passed a note. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:20 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. My point is that the parents needed to have a handle on the |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. The kid apparently thought there was a need |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:36 PM Response to Reply #11 |
78. ah, another reason I like you Midlo! |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:15 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Kids learn good manners from their parents....or not. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Yeah, I know |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #18 |
24. Bottom line: if their kid is having a party, the parents need to track who is coming |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Again, I doubt the parents even know about the note. |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #29 |
52. Even if the parents were unaware of the note - it is their responsibility |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:26 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. And how do the parents know what the kid did? |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:30 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Don't put words in my mouth |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:45 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Calm the H down...gheesh! - I didn't SAY |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #24 |
35. I agree with you, Shine. |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:19 PM Response to Reply #9 |
19. Same thing happened to me and it took years to get over it. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. She might want to call them but |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. She's better off without them? All the other girls in her class? |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #22 |
31. She's better off not going |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
16. OMG that is incredible |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
17. i had a 10th birthday party that nobody came to |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #17 |
26. Oh |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #17 |
30. My dear MrCoffee... |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:31 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. thanks CalPeggy... |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:13 PM Response to Reply #17 |
51. I had a party where only two people showed up. |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:47 PM Response to Reply #51 |
57. i think kids are extremely susceptible to mob mentality |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #17 |
69. Did you stress there was cake there? |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:10 PM Response to Reply #17 |
72. Oh hell. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:11 PM Response to Reply #17 |
73. Oh man *hugs* |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
25. I have a ten year old daughter and I am amazed at the mind games |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. But you, kind sir, would never allow little MinM to |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. A similar thing happened to my daughter as the OP, |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:32 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. I think there are variations on this theme as well. |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
32. Same thing happened to me |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
39. That sucks |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
40. can i ask you something just to clarify? |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:46 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. I have NO idea. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. smart move to wait. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Laura, I don't buy that. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. if thats the case and my kid was the one having the party |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:00 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. Well, my personal experience leads me to think it is deliberate. |
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piesRsquare (960 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 07:11 AM Response to Reply #46 |
98. Agreed. |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
41. you have got to be shitting us. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:46 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. Oh, FFS. |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Yep, people do suck sometimes. I have NO problem pointing it out. |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:42 PM Response to Reply #41 |
64. It feels like the end of the world when you are that kid. |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:34 PM Response to Reply #64 |
82. ... |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #64 |
85. Exactly. She' a KID, dammit!! nt |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:12 PM Response to Reply #41 |
74. Wait for the day when it's your kid crying in your arms |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:44 PM Response to Reply #41 |
84. It must be a rule on DU or something. |
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Fran Kubelik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 07:31 PM Response to Reply #84 |
86. This is a wonderful post. |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 07:48 AM Response to Reply #84 |
100. Thank you! |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 08:06 PM Response to Reply #41 |
87. I think it must be terrible to watch your kid be hurt |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
47. I have a 10 year old daughter too. |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:04 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. I have little doubt about that! |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
55. Study: Mean Girls Start As Tots |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:50 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Edit, sorry. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 03:57 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Both articles have good info., imho. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:05 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. I read an article about the woman who wrote the Queen Bee book |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:29 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Agreed and I also |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. Kevsand says let it go. Don't call the parents. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:40 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Ugh. That's tough. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
75. Don't call. That's my gut feeling on this.*hugs* |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 08:19 PM Response to Reply #62 |
89. I agree with Kevsand and your daughter |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 11:41 PM Response to Reply #62 |
91. Sometimes when you call the parents in a |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
66. I've read this entire thread and I agree with you 100% |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
67. Very painful and cruel. Take your daughter out for something extra special. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
68. That stuff can really mess with a kid |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
70. This happens a lot, apparently. I haven't been through it w/ my kids but I know |
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AnneD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
71. I have had 2 slumber parties for my daughter.... |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
76. You need this book |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
79. That's downright shitty behavior, but I don't agree with the "everyone or no one" mentality. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 12:45 AM Response to Reply #79 |
95. I agree with this. Especially at age ten, |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 06:23 AM Response to Reply #95 |
96. Exactly. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
80. I am with you on this one. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
81. Oh, Davsand, I'm so sorry. |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
83. Do you still have the note? |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 08:09 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. I kind of think so as well |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
90. OK, My two cents.....If the kid is such a snotty little |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 11:43 PM Response to Original message |
92. Davsand, I love your sig file. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-16-07 11:53 PM Response to Reply #92 |
93. Why? The parents didn't pass the note! |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 12:23 AM Response to Reply #92 |
94. Thank you, and I am still pissed too. |
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meegbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 06:29 AM Response to Original message |
97. I know the feeling ... |
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CabalPowered (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
99. Buy a 12-pack of Charmin and paint the house white |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #99 |
104. We talked about TPing the house. |
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murielm99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
101. Don't call the parents yet. |
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Gonzo Gardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
102. If that party is tonight... |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
103. Please call the parent |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
105. Bummer. |
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