My Gay Hairstylist said he'd do me..I was so!!!!!!!

[Guava Jelly]

Flattered..I mean Wow! what an ultimate compliment.
I don't get why people get so weirded out by it or even angry.
Gay men can be very critical and picky so to know I could make the cut sort of made my face turn red.
Now I in no way want to have sex with another man period..End of story
But a compliment is a compliment and that is exactly how I took it.
And that is how everyone should..:rant:
Carry on :D

[lost-in-nj]

1. That is a nice compliment

how did your haircut come out???
hope you didn't cut to much off

:hi:

lost

[Guava Jelly]

2. I took a picture yesterday

it is the shortest it has been since 1987

[lost-in-nj]

3. yeah

but thats not to short.....


looks good!


lost

[Guava Jelly]

4. Its ok

I never like my hair.
But at 41 I still have it all so at least there is that.
Thank you

[BarenakedLady]

14. Oh, I like it!

:thumbsup:

Very nice.

[Guava Jelly]

16. Thank you BNL

You are a total sweetie :loveya:

[Maine-ah]

18. If I wasn't happlily married with a kid....

hubba hubba....

:9

[Guava Jelly]

19. ..

If only...sigh
Thank you :hug:
BTW..I am glad you are happy :)

[SarahB]

5. One of the best compliments a guy can get.

My husband often gets hit on by men (he's strait too), but it's just because he's such a freakin' cutie. :D

p.s. Good haircut. :thumbsup:

[Guava Jelly]

6. Why thank you!!

And your hubby IS a handsome fellow and you are a very attractive lady.
Hubby has a good head on his shoulders it would seem..Hell he got you.
:)

[SarahB]

7. And he has good hair!

:7

[Droopy]

8. I thought only movie stars had gay hair stylists

:D

I'm a total untilitarian when it comes to hair. "Number 2 on the clipper and mow it all down." $9 a month. People have told me that I should get myself a set of clippers and do it myself since it is such an easy hair cut, but I like going to the barber shop and socializing as much as I like getting a hair cut. If you want to get your finger on the pulse of a small town, then just pay a visit to the local barber.

[Guava Jelly]

9. It cost me 40 bucks including tip

And He gives me a discount.

[Droopy]

10. Good deal

I thought about growing my hair out again before my last visit to the barber. Then I thought about actually having to use a brush and said fuck it. :)

[cuke]

11. I don't know about that picky thing

A certain group of gay men seem to find me attractive, and I am defintely not good looking

But yeah, I find it flattering, except when the guy is scary about it. Then I know what it's like to be a pretty girl in a crowded bar.

[Guava Jelly]

12. People can be assholes regaurdless of sexual preference

The Stylist that told me this I have known for a few years and is a good looking guy.
He could get any woman he wanted if he was in to that

[cuke]

13. Exactly

I used to go to a gay bar, that was mostly lesbians. It's the bar that Saturday Night Fever was based on. Me and my friends had a little routine. When I'd be talking to someone I had just met (usually a friend of a friend) eventually, they would say something that assumed I was gay, at which point one of my friends would let them know I wasn't. It was interesting to see how different people dealt with it.

The world's a carnival, and we're all clowns

[CaliforniaPeggy]

15. My dear GoPsUx!

I think people get weirded out if they think their sexuality is being threatened...

You're a confident (and good-looking) male!

And it was meant as a compliment, so you done good, sweetie!

And I love your pic with the new haircut!

:hug:

[Guava Jelly]

17. Thank you Cal peg

:blush:
:hi:

[cordelia]

20. Your stylist has good taste,

and you have great hair.

[Guava Jelly]

21. blush

Thank you.
:)

[lame54]

22. this is how we all should feel

hope this makes you smile.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=9ucqDoP2FZw
patty lame's smiling wife

[woo me with science]

23. "Gay men can be very critical and picky..."

hmm.

[Lil Missy]

25. Oh, c'mon. That's true. And I am gay also.

I think it's actually a complement.

Would you prefer he said that gay men will screw anything that has a pecker? I don't think so.

[woo me with science]

27. Well then blacks are snappy dressers.

That was positive, wasn't it?

[Lil Missy]

29. Oh, puh-leeeze. Lighten up! Go to GD if you are looking to pick a fight

I happen to love a lot of gay men. And my only point is that they are particular and discriminating when it comes to choosing a lover. They are not at all promiscuous and do not wish to screw every man in sight. Being selective is a good thing, is it not?

Take your race card somewhere else. I'm not going to go there or play that game with you.

Have a nice day, and thank you for shopping at democratic underground.

[woo me with science]

30. I'm perfectly light.

In fact, I'm smiling over here. I just find comments like this amusing from progressives.

[Guava Jelly]

33. Well the few I know can be

Sorry if my post offended you.

[woo me with science]

39. And I'm sorry for picking on your thread.

I was gonna respond that I get where you are coming from: the five or six Jews I know are really good at business. But that definitely would be overkill. O8)

I'm not offended, or indignant, or shaking my finger at you in anger. Just interested and playing with the rules...

[From The Ashes]

24. definitely a compliment...

...for the record, I'd do ya too. :blush:

[IndianaJones]

26. that would kind of creep me out. nt.

[Zookeeper]

28. A compliment, but I hope he didn't actually say "I'd DO you."

Maybe it's just me, but that's a really unpleasant expression.

However, I'm glad you were flattered instead of freaked. :)

[Guava Jelly]

34. He actually said

I'd f_c_ ya but i sort of P.G.'d it up a little

[Skittles]

31. please don't get like my bf

bragging about how both sexes find him attractive - he is SO flattered when gay men hit on him - yes :o

[Withywindle]

32. My SO's kind of like that too.

He tends to set off people's gaydar, so it happens fairly often. He used to manage the classical department of a large record store and there were a lot of older gay guys who would come in and flirt with him, as well as co-workers who fit that description too.

He's very very vaguely theoretically bi-curious, so I think he finds it just a teeeny bit exciting too, even if he'll never act on it.

[cuke]

35. I used to mock anger with my ex-gf

"And to think, if it wasn't for you, I could have been with Bob!"

Grace, is that you?

[Guava Jelly]

42. Both sexes would be nice

:D
Hell I'll take adornment anywhere I can get it
:D

[meegbear]

36. He just wanted to get a bigger tip from you

[Guava Jelly]

43. thats probably true

lol

[tjwmason]

37. He's not alone.

;)

I also find compliments flattering, whether from gay or straight, man or woman.

[Guava Jelly]

44. why thank you

And a compliment is a compliment.

[NewJeffCT]

38. It's happened to me a few times

Not in recent years now that I'm over the hill - but, when I was younger...

I had one gay guy pass me his phone number once when I was working in a restaurant as a 2nd job. And, other times I've had other gay men express interest.

[racaulk]

40. I wish all straight men had your attitude.

You're mature enough to take a compliment as intended without considering it an affront to your masculinity. There are a whole lot of straight guys out there that could follow your example. Thank you!

:yourock:

[Guava Jelly]

45. I work with a few like that

Guys who would get angry and even violent over it.
When I was a lot younger I probably would have been pretty weirded out by it.
But i have matured

[KitchenWitch]

41. You, a man, go to a hairstylist???? Slippery slope there d00d!

:rofl:

[Guava Jelly]

46. I have for years

I also use Product :hide: