So I love my wife.....

[dawgman]

But for some reason I think about all the other women I encounter.....I won't cheat but What is the deal....am I a jerk? I really want serious input...help me out am I Effed up?

[KG]

1. did seeing janets breast tonite bring on this guilt trip?

:)

btw - your not alone i'm sure in those feelings...

[Sapphocrat]

2. Don't you think it's normal to look?

If you didn't look, you'd be dead.

Heck, I look. My lover looks. Even Jimmy Carter lusted in his heart.

Looking fine, touching bad.

Just don't let any fantasies get in the way of real life, and you're not doing anything wrong.

[dawgman]

3. For Christ's sake when does the compulsion end?

It is everywhere I go and I dont' want to brag but I am pretty cute and that makes it difficult. Thanks for telling me though that I aint the only dirt bag

[NightTrain]

4. Just because you're spoken for doesn't mean your eyes have stopped working

It's perfectly OK for you to notice if a woman is attractive. Just don't act on those feelings and things should be fine.

And I've no doubt that your wife can't help but notice when a man is good-looking. It's no big deal!

[Rowdyboy]

5. My partner and I both "look" and share our fantasies

No touch, no harm ehh?

Just one more way gay guys have it better!

[benburch]

6. You are married, not dead!

:)

[POed_Ex_Repub]

7. Just because you can't order the meal

Doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. Seeking out novelty is natural. As long as it's not acted upon you should be fine.

[Seldona]

8. Quite necessary.

She probably has at least as healthy a fantasy life as you do.

In fact, that can really add allot to a marriage.

Not that I would know this from a personal perspective.... ;)

Relax. Have fun. It's all good.