hey lounge.... need good vibes for tomorrow afternoon.....

[lost-in-nj]

going to the lawyer......

30 years....
not sure what to do...
hope he can help.....

some positive vibes and prayers will help ....

thank you all


:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:



I love that I know you will be here

every step of the way.....
(heavy sigh)

lost

[NightWatcher]

1. dood are you talking 30 years in jail?

if so and things dont look good, run dude. I can give you numbers of people in Holland to go run and hide.

[lost-in-nj]

3. no hon

a 30 year marriage....
coming to an end....
I guess its kinda like jail!!!!

(not really)

:hi:

lost

hey maybe I will go to Holland anyway!!!

[NightWatcher]

5. you didnt strike me as a criminal

A Holland vacation might sound pretty nice too.


Good Vibes~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

[Breeze54]

16. Maybe these will help.....

:hug: &

and give one of these to the ex!

:rofl:

[SPKrazy]

2. you got it lost

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

and vibesvibesvibesvibesvibesvibes

:hug:

[lost-in-nj]

4. Thanks SPK

you understand....

:hug:

lost

[KitchenWitch]

6. Of course!

:hug:

[lost-in-nj]

9. thanks

:hug:

lost

[CaliforniaPeggy]

7. My dear lost...

Lots of good vibes, sweetie...

Remember to breathe, OK?

:loveya: :hug: :loveya:

[lost-in-nj]

10. peggy

always breathing......


new air


thanks

:hug:

lost

[supernova]

8. Been there, done that

got the papers. :P

Write all your questions down as you think of them to be prepared for the appt. Get a really good reputable lawyer. People may bitch and moan, but they are worth every penny.

Think about how you want to divide debts as well as assets.

And he or she who pays for the papers controls that debate. But be prepared to negotiate.

:hug:

[lost-in-nj]

11. Thanks for the tips.....

I have my ?'s....

sucks....
business deal.... my ass

:hug:

lost

[Mike03]

12. Sending you the best vibes I can send....

Wow, I know to some extent where you are, and I truly truly am thinking of you. Take care.

[lost-in-nj]

14. thank you

really

:hug:



lost

[DeposeTheBoyKing]

13. Good vibes coming your way

I'm a budding family lawyer myself - I know how terrible it must be to be going through this. Take care. :hug:

[lost-in-nj]

15. ....

my cousin is a family lawyer

bragging.... she's a partner!!!!



she said she would help me in any way she could
she just didn't want to represent either of us.....
we both were there while she was growing up......
I understood....

:hug:
lost

GOOD LUCK in the career!!!!

[Mike03]

17. Check in with us whenever you can or want to

It's really important to get support during something like this.

Take care, you are in my thoughts, DU friend.

[lost-in-nj]

21. I will ask for help

I am not shy...

thanks

lost

[OzarkDem]

18. So sorry to hear it

30 years is a huge personal investment in a marriage; its no small thing to end it. Best wishes to you. :hug:

[lost-in-nj]

24. Thank you

thank you



lost

[S n o w b a l l]

19. Vibes and prayers, Lost

:hug:

Been there and it was the hardest thing I've ever done. My heart & prayers go out to you.

Wishing you strength, good vibes and the best of luck, Lost.

:hug:

[lost-in-nj]

27. Engi

I know you know....


thank you



:hug: :hug:

thanks

lost

[1gobluedem]

20. Oh, that must be hard

I wish I could say it won't be painful but you know it will be. Many vibes and :hug:

[lost-in-nj]

29. thank you

:hug:

lost

[Shine]

22. best wishes to you, sweetie.

thinking of you.... :hug: hope it goes well.

[lost-in-nj]

30. thanks

thank you

:hug:

lost

[lizziegrace]

23. You've got them

:hug:

Been there, lived to tell the tales. You sill too.

[lost-in-nj]

32. I hope to be

as gracious and kind as you are....
when its all said and done....

your daughter has a wonderful role model.....
so do I.......
even though I am older than you LOL

:hug:

lost

[lizziegrace]

48. Don't be fooled

I get my jabs in. I'm just very covert about it. :evilgrin:

We didn't quite make it to 18 years and next year would be our 25th anniversary.

[BarenakedLady]

25. Big day

I'll be thinking of you.

:hug: :hug:

[lost-in-nj]

33. thank you bnl......

:hug:


lost

[Richard Steele]

26. We're all with you, LiNJ! nm

[lost-in-nj]

34. wow

I know, I know......
thank you....

:hug:
lost

[Gormy Cuss]

28. Vibes for a fair and relatively low stress divorce.

They're never without stress, but at least with positive vibes maybe it'll be a little bit easier.

[lost-in-nj]

36. thank you, thank you

:hug: :hug:
lost

[VenusRising]

31. You got them, sweetie.

Vibes and good thoughts coming your way.

Ask for more than you want. I've learned from my friends.

:hug::loveya::hug:

[lost-in-nj]

38. hey

I have heard that to!!!!!!


peace


:hug:



lost

[Haole Girl]

35. Good luck!

:hug: :hug: :hug:

[lost-in-nj]

39. Thanks KC

:hug:

thats for you......


lost

[NMDemDist2]

37. you'll wonder why you waited so long

:hug:

[lost-in-nj]

40. I hope I question it

although I still love the bastard.....

how friggen horrible is that???? :(

thank you

:hug: :hug:

lost

[lost-in-nj]

41. I'm going to bed

any one... who responds.....


THANK YOU...... THANK YOU....

I am humbled



lost

[Redstone]

42. Thirty effing years? I send you EVERY bit of strength I have to spare, and

even some I can't spare.

All the best to you.

Redstone

[JohnnyLib2]

43. Changes. Tough changes.

Here's hoping for a sensible attorney and eventual peace of mind.

[Der Blaue Engel]

44. More good vibes from the left coast

:hug:

[Zoigal]

45. Yes, lost-in-nj

we'll be with you all the way.
Lots of good thoughts from California. p

[graywarrior]

46. .

:hug:

[From The Ashes]

47. All the vibes I can muster...

...you'll get through this. :hug::hug:

[Inchworm]

49. Tomorrow is today?

Many hugs and may this open so many doors for you it's hard to pick one.

:hug::hug::loveya::hug::hug:

[skygazer]

50. Be strong, lost

Standing by with vibes and hugs. :hug:

[Parche]

51. Vibers

:hug:



:hi:

found vibe

[Pool Hall Ace]

52. Vibes too ya

I've only been married for three years, but I've seen some of the unexpected stuff already. I hope your split is relatively pain-free.

:pals:

[RFKHumphreyObama]

53. Thoughts, prayers, best wishes, positive vibes and whatever else I can extend to you Lost

:hug: