Anybody up? Dumped again & though it's nothing new, I'm celebrating with whisky.

[crim son]

I had a thought this afternoon, before the latest dump (which is, of course, a joke): I hate my own fucking asshole self. I'm not sure I'm revealing anything astonishing. Thoughts?

[flvegan]

1. Hey!!

You just back the Hell up, K?

You got dumped? Good. Saved you the time of finding out what kind of asshole that guy was, okay?

Now, then. I love saying that. Now , then. Doesn't even make f'ing sense. ANYway.

You hate your own fucking asshole self, huh? Well, I can understand being unkind to oneself, and even causing hate for oneself.

What I CAN'T see, is how this beautiful woman got past the radar in question. I've seen you, crim son...

[crim son]

3. Ah, you've seen me and been charitable.

Thank you, flvegan.

[flvegan]

6. I hope you peep response #5 on this one.

For real. Charity? I'm feeling a little...you know....

[SeattleGirl]

2. What flvegan said.

Don't go hatin' on yourself.

[crim son]

4. I think this must be the normal reaction

given that I am entirely average. Oddly, it only struck me earlier this evening. Before that, everybody else was grossly at fault. They still are, but I suddenly recognize that it doesn't matter, none of it.

Time to sleep. Thanks for responding, SeattleGirl :pals:

[flvegan]

5. You know, I was going to say something in regards to just

how "average" you are, previously.

crim son...I do flirt a bit, but I'm no liar.

You are NOT average. You, you are a VERY attractive young woman. One that, given the opportunity, I'd be totally a PERV in regards to.

So there. Yeah, time to sleep, indeed. Or time to...uh...what?

[crim son]

7. Time to be grateful.

Seriously. I am so low, and you help.

[Maine-ah]

19. ya know flvegan

I have to agree with you on that.

Crim,

If I swung that way, hey....

alas, it will be in my next life. :evilgrin:

anyway, he was a republican. right?

[IndianaJones]

8. keep it real. nt.

[MrScorpio]

9. Somebody needs a hug

:hug:

[Ghost in the Machine]

10. Hiya beautiful!

:hug:

[Pushed To The Left]

11. I'm sorry to hear you're feeling down, crim son

:hug: I think everybody here will agree that you are better off without him.

[Guava Jelly]

12. oh sweetie

:hug:

[BarenakedLady]

13. ...

:hug:

[Tyler Durden]

14. I am very sorry you got dumped...but I know you're strong, so....

From "The Ghost and The Darkness"

Charles Remington: "We have an expression in prize fighting: 'Everyone has a plan until they've been hit.' Well my friend, you've just been hit. The getting up is up to you."

I know you can get up.

[Pierre.Suave]

15. What kind of Whiskey?

It better be good, Nothing less than Johnny Walker Black.

Anyway, shit happens, move on.

A thought though, you just got out of a very long and stressful relationship with your ex husband, maybe take some time to spend some time with yourself before looking for anything more than a one night stand...:evilgrin:

edit: you are beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you different.

[From The Ashes]

16. Crim son...

here, have a couple of hugs...:hug::hug::hug:

[Rhiannon12866]

17. I am so sorry...

I feel your pain...:hug: Hang in there, since you sure know that you have a whole lot of friends and support here, no matter what the hour...:grouphug:

[MissMillie]

18. Let me get this straight

you're going to let the way this asshole treats you be what validates you?

Darlin' you are way smarter than that.

[In_The_Wind]

20. Welcome back.

There is nothing wrong with you!
You just need to date someone who loves you as much as your lounge friends do. :loveya::yourock:

[Crabby Appleton]

21. ....

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

22. Well, okay

sounds severe

:hug:

:hug:


hope you feel better today!

:hi:

[Deja Q]

23. . . .

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[bluethruandthru]

24. Don't be mad at yourself.

All you can be is who you are. If he doesn't want that...what can you do?

:hug:

Besides...he was a republican :puke: