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Background: About 5 years ago, I finally crashed completely and was made aware of the fact that life (for most people) isn't a constant state of blah. (dysthymic disorder). I was going through yet another episode of major depression on top of the dysthymia, and was in bad shape. A psychiatrist at college put me on meds, but then I returned home and needed some follow-up. . .
So, I went to a highly recommended psychopharmacologist. I got to like him, largely because he treated me as an intelligent person. IMHO- many p-docs are condescending, and/or disengaged. He was extremely expensive, but totally worth it, at least I thought. My parents would have spent the world to make me feel better, and I knew that, and I know that now. My parents started to hate the psychopharmacologist, feeling that he was both over-billing them and putting me through hell as various med combos were tried. I tried to explain that this wasn't an exact science, and they bought it... Until I landed in the hospital with an extremely rare adverse effect from Wellbutrin. That night, the doctor acted extremely unprofessionally, not returning repeated calls from the ER, or so my parents tell me. I know that he rarely carried his beeper, and wasn't great about returning calls. I was poked and prodded, and drugged up so that I wouldn't "try to leave the ER against medical advice." I knew my rights. When I tried to leave, they told my mother that they would arrest her if she tried to help me flee. My father later told me that I was never again to see the original doctor, and they wouldn't pay for appointments with the guy due to what he 'did to me.'
The outcome: My parents realized that he knew what he was doing, and he had gotten some good results for me... but he was not a nice man. I never really respected him again as a person, but he managed to get me on the right combination of medicines to allow me to enjoy life. My long-winded conclusion to this post: If you trust the skills of the doctor, the personality isn't really as important, especially if you're also including a psychologist in the team... The MD-type is there to write the prescriptions that allow the professional person with apt interpersonal skills to interact with the patient.
Sorry about the ramble...Just wanted to let you know that you are DEFINITELY not alone!
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