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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:25 AM Original message |
So, if your buddy dumps a girl after a three month relationship - is she fair game? |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
1. It is if you're smart. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:27 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Yeah, I knew the answer without even having to ask it.... |
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billyoc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:37 AM Response to Original message |
3. Of course she is. |
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some guy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:00 AM Response to Original message |
4. I'd say |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
5. Yep, unless he dumped her because she's got a really mean boy/girlfriend. -n/t |
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MazeRat7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:11 AM Response to Original message |
6. No she is not fair game. Honor your friendship.... |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:18 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. As Michael Scott says, "Bros before Hos!" |
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zonkers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:16 AM Response to Original message |
7. Hit it. |
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Jimbo S (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
9. What's the "Man Law" on this? |
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skyblue (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:43 AM Response to Reply #9 |
16. A lot of guys will f anything that moves. good to see that some have standards. |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
10. Go for it! |
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SouthoftheBorderPaul (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
11. I'd give it a couple of weeks to let things cool down. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
12. What was the split like? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:09 AM Response to Reply #12 |
25. He dumped her |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 04:48 PM Response to Reply #25 |
73. then hit it. he dumped her. she's on the rebound. hit it. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:27 PM Response to Reply #73 |
79. Amen, but make sure you manipulate her into thinking she's getting revenge sex |
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ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:40 AM Response to Original message |
13. Damn right she's fair game. I never lost a true friend because one or the other hit an ex. |
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skyblue (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
14. I'm leaning towards your friendship first, but find out why he dumped her first and gauge it |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
15. Never date a friend's ex. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
27. several of my women friends are now married to exes of mine! |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:03 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Wait...were you in Fleetwood Mac? |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:11 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. no - wrong era |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
17. ask your bud |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
18. How about talking to your buddy first? |
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KG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
19. i'd hit it! |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
20. Yes she is; but give it some time |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
21. Three months isn't that long. |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
22. Yeah, she's fair game. Go ahead and call Bob Novak and tell him she works for the CIA. |
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bikebloke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
23. Find out if she's loopie first. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:06 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Well, I'm not looking for a lasting relationship |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:15 PM Response to Reply #24 |
46. You are foolish to believe you can tell that she isn't looking for a LTR |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
26. The constant in this equation is the girl... |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
28. The code stipulates she's off limits... |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
30. Ask him! n/t |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
32. If I were her I'd be nervous that the 2 of you would compare notes |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:53 PM Response to Reply #32 |
42. yup, the last guy I dated was friends with a guy I dated a year ago |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:17 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. I would totally compare notes. I'd want tips for how to deal with the shit that's coming up |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. I did eventually ask that #2 not discuss our sex life with #1 |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. How about "Don't tell #2 how to win arguments with me" |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
33. That's up to her. |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:26 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. Yes, Hello!? |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:38 PM Response to Reply #33 |
40. I know, right? |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:58 PM Response to Reply #33 |
43. I don't look at it that way at all |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #33 |
48. It's not about him not wanting people to date her, it's about him being... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. I think that depends on how the breakup went. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:31 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. " it's really unfair and childish to ask your friends to take sides" |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:41 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. Huh? I don't get that at all. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:42 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. Well fine, then you've made your choice |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:45 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. I don't even know you! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. No way. A curse upon exes! A curse upon every generation of their house! |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:56 PM Response to Reply #61 |
68. Exactly. If you've seen me naked and we're not together anymore, |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:23 PM Response to Reply #56 |
77. See, no matter how the breakup went, there's always emotion involved |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #48 |
60. Decide not to hate her stinking guts. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:48 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Yes, I do. n/t |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:54 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. So your tastes are a matter of choice rather than a natural like or dislike? |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 03:00 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. Tastes? I said I can decide not to hate someone. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:20 PM Response to Reply #33 |
76. Dude, it IS up to her, but it's ALSO up to my friend if he wants to speak to me after. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:57 PM Response to Reply #76 |
82. Godfather, you understand everything |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:13 PM Response to Original message |
34. Circumstances. Circumstances. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
35. If she wants to go for it, I'd say a guarded 'yes.' |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #35 |
50. His dumping doesn't change anything |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:36 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. I disagree - it changes EVERYTHING. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:38 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. Dumping someone is often a distant second to droping a nuke on them |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. Sounds like we both have issues. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
36. I would think so. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
37. Is it that hot Japanese girl you mentioned the other day? |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:25 PM Response to Reply #37 |
78. I wish. Her BF is in Japan and I don't know him |
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Throd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
39. Think with your big head, not the little one. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
41. I'm married to my friends ex. |
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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
44. Ask yourself, "what's the worst that can happen?" |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
45. Ask your buddy's blessing and treasure his wisdom. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
62. Good God, man! Don't shoot her! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:49 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. Hammer, don't hurt him! |
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texas1928 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
67. One word of caution... |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
70. Why wait till they dump 'em? |
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skyblue (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:55 PM Response to Reply #70 |
81. cause you might get your ass kicked i suppose. |
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Bennyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
71. Bros not Hos....... bro..... |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 04:44 PM Response to Original message |
72. Dude, run, don't walk away from this one. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
74. Nope. nt |
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midlife_mo_Jo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
75. He dumped her after a three month relationship |
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Wcross (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
80. Does your buddy scream when he takes a leak? |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 02:41 AM Response to Original message |
83. No, but her mom is. |
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Recovered Repug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 04:09 AM Response to Original message |
84. This may help |
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