I often wonder what I'd do if I ran into the Slug. I often drive by his home town (where I'm pretty sure he is living) on my way to meetings, and think about stopping to say Hi. But I never have.
We get kinda testy from time to time and have boundaries issues, plus all the lovely stuff that has always plagued us, but operating on the life's-too-short principle really helps minimize problems.
I've only spoken to him once. He called me on my birthday a few years ago. We talked as though we had never been apart. Once the old feelings go away, it's alot easier to talk to your ex.
When I broke up with both of them, I insisted that we stayed friends. I know, I am a hard guy to live with. Doesn't mean we have to hate each other because we decide we can't be together anymore.
mainly 'cuz we have kiddos together. But then I turned his abusive freakin' mouth back on him so he hasn't talked to me in months. I keep trying because I miss him very much but I stood up to him so I am now history.
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