9/29 PM Stacey Update: Happy Anniversary Honey.

[OPERATIONMINDCRIME]

I got home not too long ago. I spent the whole day with her today and I figured for one night, it was ok to have the kids put to bed without me. I'm not going to go into details about her condition today. I don't care today. I wish there was something encouraging or otherwise to say but I don't have it. She's just still hanging in there. But I didn't really ask about numbers today. I didn't need to know them. All I needed today, was to be by her side, touching her, being with her, feeling her, loving her, consoling her, and quietly relaxing with her as much as I could. She gave me the ability to do that today, on our 5th anniversary. All I know is it broke my heart like words can't describe. But she was still there. I know she heard me. I know she wanted to cry out I love you too. I didn't need to hear it. I knew it. And I knew she felt how much I love her as well. I just sat there much of the time. Just sat there rubbing her arm telling her everything would be ok, and how much I love her. One of her nurses, Andrew, brought in a meditation type cd for her a few days ago and it was quite beautiful. I had it playing for hours as I just lay beside her, stroking her, loving her, and feeling her beautiful spirit. The music was perfect.

That's really all I have to say tonight. Tomorrow brings another day. For today, all I know is I love her with all my heart, and it tears me up inside that she's there. But she gave me our 5th anniversary, and she kept herself medically stable for the most part the entire time. That's good enough for me.

Happy 5th anniversary honey. I love you with all my heart.

[Debi]

1. OMC

:hug:

[The Straight Story]

2. Kick and prayers for you my friend

I hope all gets better soon.

[coffeenap]

3. OMC, we are all here with you.

[lligrd]

4. We Are Just Starting Another Visualization For Her nt

[CaliforniaPeggy]

5. My dear OMC...

So good to have this update from you...

I'm wishing you both a Happy Anniversary...

I continue to hold the good thoughts for her as long as they are needed...

Blessings on you both...

:grouphug:

[SeattleGirl]

6. OMC, what a beautiful post.

I'm glad you could spend the whole day with Stacey, and that she was stable today.

Happy anniversary to you and Stacey.

Continued prayers and love for the two of you.

May things turn around soon.

:grouphug:

[uppityperson]

7. best to you OMC, and to Stacey.

[Crunchy Frog]

8. Happy anniversary to both of you.

I'm glad you were able to have this time with her, and I hope for many more, and many happier ones in the future.:hug:

[Lucinda]

9. Happy anniversary

We're keeping your family in our prayers.

[Hekate]

10. OMC, you sleep peacefully tonight. Peace be upon you, and tomorrow will take care of itself.

:hug:

Hekate

[Evoman]

11. Beauty and the Beast

;)

Don't give up on her. Best wishes, OMC.

[txwhitedove]

12. OMC, you gave your sweetheart, Stacey, exactly what she needed most...

especially today, your anniversary.

[cal04]

13. Happy Anniversary

You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts
:hug:

[nickyt]

14. Darling, darling, we are with you both...

[Critters2]

15. Happy Anniversary, OMC

I hope you have good news soon. Thanks for the update.

Still prayin',

Critters

[Haole Girl]

16. What a gorgeous photo of the two of you!!

I'm so glad you could be there for her

for your 5th anniversary.

And, you are so right... you two didn't need words.

Please try to get some sleep if you can.

We are all sending our most positive energies, prayers, and vibes.

Hugs for Stacey, you, your family, and friends.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[AZBlue]

17. What a beautiful picture.

She loves you very much too - but you already knew that. :hug:

Hang in there Stacey, we know you can beat this honey!

[OzarkDem]

18. Happy Anniversary to you both

and may you look back on this day 5 years from now and be glad its behind you. :hug:

[Ellen Forradalom]

19. She's such a beauty

My love to you both.

[JohnnyLib2]

20. What a wonderful, moving day and post.

Side by side, come what may....

[flamingyouth]

21. What a lovely post.

We've sure been thinking of you today. :grouphug:

[ljm2002]

22. She is so beautiful!

Still hoping and praying that the time she is given when she is stable, will allow her body to strengthen and pull through.

[ancient_nomad]

23. Happy Anniversary OMC and Stacey!

What a beautiful post. It touched my heart.

May today bring you the beginning of the miracle you seek. My thoughts
and prayers, as always, for two very special people.

Thank you for sharing the beautiful pictures with all of us.

God Bless you both!


:hug:

[Kajsa]

24. Happy Anniversary, OMC.

That is a very beautiful picture of you both.

Please get some rest.

My candle is still burning for all of you.

A big hug to you, Stacey and the boys.

:hug: :grouphug:

[Quakerfriend]

25. Dear OMC, thank you for checking in.

Our thoughts are with you and your whole family.

Happy anniversary to you and Stacey. The pics you've posted have been so helpful.

We are all rooting for her!! ...Seeing her just as radiant and beautiful as she was on your wedding day.

:hug:

[Frustratedlady]

26. What a lovely photo of you both. Happy Anniversary...

and thank you for spending such precious time together. I know she was aware of you and of your milestone. You have been on my mind all day. Thank you for posting. Sleep well!

[Cass]

27. Happy Anniversary, OMC.

I have been praying for Stacey and will continue to hold you both in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.

:hug:

[flyarm]

28. for your anniversary i give you my prayers..I pray for Stacy your beautiful bride.

I wish there was more i could give ..but i will continue to pray for Stacy and for you..for you to have the strength to continue to help her heal..It is very tough to see one we love, as you are seeing the love of your life...But she knows you are there..she hears you..keep talking to Stacy..


When my dad was very ill in intensive care a lady was in the room next to my dad..in a coma..she was in a coma 3 months..and only had one daughter who had to work ..so i told her i would watch out for her mom..when my dad was sleeping i would go in and sing to this lady ( with my lousey voice)..well when the lady came out of the coma i was outside her room and i spoke to her daughter..she wrote on a pad.."that is the angels voice"...and every time she heard my voice she wrote..that is the angels voice..she could not speak for a while and had to write what she wanted to say..

I did not want to disrupt her family with her when she came out of the coma..so i stayed away ..
for her privacy, when she came out of the coma ..i stopped going in her room..didn't want to scare her..but one day her daughter asked me to come into her room and meet her..and when i did ..and i said hello..she wrote on the pad.."you are the angel"..the angel that sang to me..she smiled at me and stared at me..and asked me to come to her..and she wrote..you are the angel i heard singing..she then kissed me..and she said she knew every song i sang.

we became very close friends...in fact she bought me an angel pin..when she got well enough to leave the hospital and go to a store....and she would have her daughter call me on the phone..and when she was better ..she would call and sing to me and ask me to sing to her on the phone.

SO OMC..keep talking to Stacy..and keep touching her..she can hear you..i know that in my heart and i know that from experience.

Keep touching her..wash her face or hands..rub her feet...put lotion on her feet..or hands or both....just keep talking to her and touching her.


and maybe even sing to her..she won't care if you sing good..but she will hear you.


I will continue lighting a candle for your love..and saying prayers for Stacy as well.

sending healing thoughts and prayers..

fly

[OzarkDem]

32. That's such a great story!

:hug:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

29. That is a glorious picture.

Strength to you both and your boys.

:pals:

[hedgehog]

30. Oh, you both are way too young to have to face this.

My prayers are with you.

[renie408]

31. Happy Anniversary. Still holding you both in my thoughts. n/t

[lavenderdiva]

33. the words you share with us paint a beautiful picture

of how much you love Stacey. I know she feels your touch and hears your words. You both continue to be in my thoughts and prayers for a full recovery for Stacey. Hugs to you both... :hug: :grouphug: :hug:

[devilgrrl]

34. Happy Anniversary! I will continue to send good thoughts.

:hug:

[Deja Q]

35. Best, best wishes things will get better.

:hug:

[BlooInBloo]

36. Happy Anniversary!

[Marlie]

37. May your sixth wedding anniversary be glorious

You did exactly the right thing today for both you and Stacey. Hopefully a year from today she'll
be able to tell you a million times just how much she loves you too. She's so beautiful, your
just a beautiful couple and I'm praying the same time next year will be a joyous celebration. Please take care and never give up hope.

[Pushed To The Left]

38. Happy Anniversary Stacey and OMC

We will continue to pray for a full recovery. :hug: :grouphug:

[Irishonly]

39. Happy Anniversary

The candles are still lit and I am holding all of you close to my heart and in my prayers. Keep singing and talking to her. I am a breast cancer survivor who wasn't supposed to survive and I am still here. I have told my breast buddy group about Stacy so there are more healing candles lit. The more candles and prayers can only help. God love you, Stacy, your children and all of those who love you. Please take care of yourself also.

[Rhythm]

40. Happy Anniversary, OMC & Stacey

:hug: :grouphug: :hug:

[JI7]

41. happy anniversary to both of you

i hope she gets through this and there are many more that you both will share together.

thanks for the pic. you two look so great together and she is so beautiful.

[BlueIris]

42. That is a beautiful photo. You two are so adorable.

Continued best of luck.

[Danger Mouse]

43. ....

:cry:

[Beausoir]

44. I see love.

[ribrepin]

45. She is such a beauty

I sent vibes her way last night @ 8:00. God bless you both.

[Drum]

46. Hang in there, bro...

we are pulling for you....

:grouphug:

[GenDem]

47. Happy Anniversary...

....to a beautiful couple.

[Withywindle]

48. Happy Anniversary OMC and Stacey!

I think you have exactly the right attitude now. Ultimately, in the long run, whether there are other worlds beyond this one or not (I believe there are) love is always the most important thing.

I pray that you will both see your grandchildren toasting your 50th.

[Blue_In_AK]

49. OMC, your love will last forever.

You two continue to be in my thoughts.

[In_The_Wind]

50. Happy Anniversary

[DemReadingDU]

51. Happy Anniversay, a lovely photo

Thank you for sharing. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

[NewJeffCT]

52. Happy Anniversary

I hope you can enjoy many more together.

[DemExpat]

53. You both are so lovely - congratulations on your Anniversary.

Love to you both and to your children.

:hug: :grouphug:

DemEx

[Blue Diadem]

54. I'm so glad you were able to spend your anniversary together.

:hug:

Continuing prayers for our dear Stacey.

[Lefta Dissenter]

55. OMC & Stacey

Once you have been through this together, you certainly will know that you can take on any challenge. The trials and tribulations that the two of you face in the years to come will be put into perspective - because you'll know that Love brought you through the worst that life could throw at you, and you endured.

OMC, take care of that Love, just as you take care of Stacey and your children. Nurture it and protect it. That is the greatest gift that you can give to Stacey and to yourself. :hug:

[gademocrat7]

56. What a beautiful picture.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[sarge43]

57. Happy Anniversary and many more to celebrate.

You two are beautiful - such joy and love.

[Coyote_Bandit]

58. I see the two of you

happily growing old together. May it be so.

Sending prayers for strength, healing and light your way.

:hug:

[Dystopian]

59. You are both beautiful....

You did exactly what each of you needed yesterday....
A quiet and spiritual celebration of love...
Blessings to you and your family...
Still praying.....


peace~

[blondeatlast]

60. Our hearts are with you all. Happy anniversary. nt

[Phentex]

61. Happy Anniversary! I'm thinking of you both!

I wish you well. :hug:

[FloridaJudy]

62. What a great photo

I can see the love and joy there.

Hang in there. We're praying for more anniversaries, and happier ones.

[NC_Nurse]

63. You two are so beautiful. I've been visualizing her healing

every day and last night I woke up at 2am and focused on her. I pray things turn around soon and she comes back home to you.
:hug:

[BrklynLiberal]

64. So much love and beauty shines thru that picture....Happy Anniversary.

Fervently hoping that you two will have many more years together to celebrate your love for each other...
Sending more white light and positive energy.

[mmonk]

65. Wonderful post and great picture OMC.

Thanks for sharing.

[abq e streeter]

66. More prayers for you

from me; from all of us...

[AAARRRGGGHHH]

67. Your situation just seems so

terribly unfair. Please accept my thoughts, prayers and tears. I will continue to pray for a speedy and complete recovery, and for you and your family to find comfort in this awful, awful time.

:hug:

[spoony]

68. Thank you for keeping us updated

Your cyber family here appreciates it :grouphug:

[crispini]

69. With good wishes.....

:grouphug:

[Lefta Dissenter]

70. .

just stopping by for another :hug:

[ChazII]

71. Saying prayers

that you willl have the strenght and peace you need. Happy anniversary to the both of you.

[Eurobabe]

72. Hugs to both of you, very moving post.

:hug:

[RFKHumphreyObama]

73. Happy Anniversary OMC and Stacey

My thoughts, prayers, positive vibes, best wishes and any healing energy I can extend remains with Stacey and also with you and your family. Your profound love and devotion for your wife really does come through in your posts OMC:hug: :hug: And you look very handsome and your wife very beautiful in that wedding picture

[myrna minx]

74. What a beautiful bride. You are such a loving husband, who

gave all that you could on your anniversary. My throughts and prayers are with you both. :hug: