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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:09 PM Original message |
I need somehow to stop this craziness . . . |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
1. What purpose does it serve you to spend time with her or talk to her? |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:17 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. i really am beginning to wonder . . . |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 06:30 PM Response to Reply #3 |
17. All I can really say is... |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 10:30 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. sadly true . . . |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 10:52 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. I don't see anything changing unless you change what you do. Not just what you say, |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:00 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. boy, don't think that thought doesn't go around and around and around . . . |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:08 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Fine... but if simply telling her that doesn't work, you will have to SHOW her you mean it. |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:12 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. indeed - 'Tough Love' for friends . . . |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:20 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Yes, I have ended friendships because of this. |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:26 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. i know you are right . . . |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
2. Pushing 60?! |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:19 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. fortunately - she has an hmo plan - kaiser - and she does see a . . . |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:21 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. hmm... yeah, just re-read that |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
4. It might sound mean, but sometimes the best thing you can do |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:27 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Actually - I've said some things in the past couple of years that I think sounded *mean* . . . |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
8. She sounds very much like my late sister |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:53 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. You're right . . . |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:57 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Well, my suggestion would be not to dump anything on her |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 04:59 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. I am going to tell her how I feel - that she is definitely wearing on our |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 10:42 PM Response to Reply #11 |
20. You could try that tack without mentioning her quirks. |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 10:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Well, gormy - as it just so happened . . . |
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VenusRising (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
12. I am going through the exact same thing right now. |
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JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
13. I had a friend like that |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
14. 1. Get a nice bottle of wine |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 05:18 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. LOL . . . |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
16. stop trying to control her and make her do anything |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 09:08 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. you could be right . . . |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-30-07 03:25 AM Response to Reply #18 |
30. if she's stuck |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
25. Maybe there's an over 60 league? |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-29-07 11:16 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. that's what i asked her today . . . |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-30-07 07:41 AM Response to Original message |
31. for some people drama is like breathing, and sympathy the oxygen |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-30-07 03:33 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. yes - you've validated what i've been thinking . . . |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-30-07 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
33. I've known people like that my whole life. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-30-07 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
34. Your last paragraph - you should go with that. That would be encouraging. |
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