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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:39 AM Original message |
What would you do if your SO accused you of cheating? |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
1. That's a difficult question. |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:03 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. Thanks, TC. |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
2. Two options. |
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militaryspouse (198 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:53 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. .. |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:07 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. Stayed at my friend's house past midnight. |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:11 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. Then definitely take my second option. |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:05 PM Response to Reply #2 |
13. That's what my friends are saying. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
3. Dunno. The first thing I'd do is get checked for every disease imaginable. |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:17 PM Response to Reply #3 |
21. Thanks, HT. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
5. My spouse accused me of cheating |
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usaftmo (606 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:12 PM Response to Reply #5 |
40. Nearly identical situation here |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:27 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Sorry the hear that. |
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usaftmo (606 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:45 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Thank you. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. No need to feel awkward |
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usaftmo (606 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 04:36 AM Response to Reply #46 |
52. Air Force |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
6. Go straight home |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:57 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. The more I read, |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:01 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Yep. |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:07 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. And it sucks |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:10 PM Response to Reply #6 |
16. He is stressed. |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:16 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. I'm not saying it's right because it is not right |
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Morrisons Ghost (324 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 08:21 AM Response to Reply #16 |
54. Yep |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
7. A couple of observations since you are asking. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
8. My ex used to pull crap like that. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
10. If there is no basis, I would consider splitting up. |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
18. Hell,it was one of the reasons my wife left me and I never did it. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:23 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. Ouch sorry |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
19. My experiences echo many of the other posters here - |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
22. My husband half-jokes about my "boyfriend" from time to time. |
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militaryspouse (198 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:30 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. .. |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:38 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. ... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
24. i'd find out who he was fucking, because he surely is.... |
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liontamer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
26. well, he's probably cheating, or thinking about it |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
27. Talk to him about it in as calm and nonjudgmental manner as you can. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
29. My advice is talk to him, and ignore all of us. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 01:48 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Best post of the discussion. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 01:57 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. jobycom speaks for me |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 04:37 PM Response to Reply #29 |
37. Thanks jobycom. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 01:41 PM Response to Reply #37 |
63. Understandable. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
30. laugh and tell him how good it was |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
31. Whenever I was accused, it was my SO who was actually cheating. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
34. me personally |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Hey, I think I'll change my vote to this one! |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
35. I'd be flattered. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
38. cheat |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
39. I would crack up. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
41. perhaps he has cheated and just assumes that you must be too |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
43. Probably bust out laughing |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
45. I had it happen twice. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
47. I think you two need to talk it through. |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
48. Personally, I'd die laughing |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
49. Well in my situation, I'd be flattered. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
50. I'd ask him to |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-01-07 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
51. I would say... |
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Matsubara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 06:13 AM Response to Original message |
53. First of all, I would be tell the truth. |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
55. laugh |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
56. My ex-wife did similar |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
57. It shows a lack of trust |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 08:37 AM Response to Original message |
58. Has he been cheated on in the past? |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
59. "kicking him out" |
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Ms_Dem_Meanor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
60. 9 times out of 10... |
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DeepBlueC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
61. Dump him |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-02-07 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
62. I would get dressed and send my girlfriend home... |
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