What character flaw upsets you the most?

[ohiosmith]

Dishonesty. I hate liars.

[LostinVA]

1. That would be my number one, too

That covers alot of stuff, including cheating. I expect monogamy in a committed relationship.

[JackBeck]

2. I agree. Liars make my blood boil. n/t

[raccoon]

3. Same here. I was going to say, not listening, but dishonesty

trumps that.

[mainegreen]

4. I would post what character flaw upsets me the most, but it would start a flame war...

and no it has *nothing* to do with sexual orientation.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

5. cruelty.

[Fleshdancer]

7. I second that

liars are annoying but cruel people are just so...low.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

10. also some lies are necessary, anyone who says they live without lying

is lying.

i for instance need to lie for my job all the time. its a job requirement.

i lie to my father to spare him a lot of pain (he is bipolar and i dont like pushing him over the edge)

etc

[Fleshdancer]

11. you make a good point

as for the hurtful lies that aren't neccessary, I would categorize that in the cruel category anyway. You're right though, lying is something we have all done.

[idgiehkt]

6. amen to that.

fo sho.

[azmouse]

8. Greed and selfishness.

[SteppingRazor]

9. hypocrisy

I've got a million character flaws, but I freely admit all of them, which allows me to avoid the one I hate the most.

[crim son]

14. That is mine too.

If you're a liar, you're a liar. If you're an asshole, you're an asshole. So be it; just don't try to tell me otherwise because then you are the lowest of the low.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

17. me too.

[DixieBlue]

12. Numero uno for me as well ... lying.

[Hosnon]

13. Extreme and unwavering Machiavellianism in EVERYTHING.

I know some people who make you feel that just by interacting with them, you are somehow losing something.

Nothing turns me off from someone more than that.

[idgiehkt]

56. "just by interacting with them, you are losing something"

nicely put.

[wildhorses]

15. if you think about it all character flaws are lies just in

different form:shrug:

[LaraMN]

16. A habit of engaging in acts of flagrant public masturbation.

:P

[ohiosmith]

18. As of when did my hobby become a character flaw?

[LaraMN]

19. Well, the sport socks just kind of ruin

what would otherwise be a sight of great beauty.
:rofl:

[ohiosmith]

21. Are you some kind of anarchist? I can hardly wear my sandals without sport socks.

[mentalsolstice]

20. Snottiness & cruelty

I hate it when people act like they're better than others. Guess what folks, at the base we're all equal. Yes, some of us may make more money, are better educated, etc., but none of those things make you any better than anyone else.

[jpgray]

22. A lack of empathy

Everthing else is wholly forgivable, but that would be hard to live with.

[Nikia]

54. I agree

That one really bothers me.

[Burma Jones]

23. Intellectual Laziness or Willful Ignorance

[jobycom]

24. Liars, and smug, stupid assholes who think they are smarter than everyone else.

Bush, or otherwise.

[jpgray]

25. I'd expect that answer from your type

:eyes:

[jobycom]

27. What, Times Roman 12 point? nt

[jpgray]

28. Not exactly a font of wisdom in our hands

:P

[jobycom]

30. ,

That was good. ;rofl:

[Evoman]

31. How about smug assholes who think they are smarter than everyone else...but actually are?

:evilgrin:

[jobycom]

32. They are worse!

[Evoman]

26. Hyper-emotionality AND people who spew about their problems at innappropriate times.

Honestly, it bothers me when people can't control their emotions, and literally fall apart, get angry, or start crying, at little things that others would shrug off. It also bothers me when people I don't know start telling me all their feelings about everything.


Also drama queen performances.

[jobycom]

47. So, you're saying

all of us who have posted in this thread?

[HEyHEY]

29. Liars... thieves

[Evoman]

33. We prefer the term Rogues, thank you very much.

[jpgray]

34. Picture of Evoman: @

[Evoman]

35. *smug grin* your jus' jealous that I'm smarter than you.

Lol..just kidding.

[ohiosmith]

36. Gypsies eh? Or was that tramps and thieves?

[Nicholas D Wolfwood]

37. Liars and zealots (nt)

[Susang]

38. Character flaws are what make us human

While I dislike many of them, I find it difficult to hate anyone because of their particular deficiency. I just don't believe I'm qualified to judge.

[El Fuego]

39. And hating people with character flaws is a character flaw that makes us human.

:crazy:

[Parche]

40. character

Phony people..........

[Courtesy Flush]

41. There's an old saying

If you'll lie, you'll cheat
If you'll cheat, you'll steal
If you'll steal, you'll kill

Lying destroys the foundation of character.

[ohiosmith]

42. Preemptive execution of liars. Now there is a concept.

[Lyric]

45. See, I'm with that up until it gets to the

"If you'll steal, you'll kill" part. That's just too much of a jump for me to buy it. I've never known a single person in my life who didn't steal something at one time or another. Does that make us all murderers-in-waiting? :shrug:

[ohiosmith]

46. In a word.....yes.

[Blue-Jay]

49. In a word.....bullshit.

It's akin to saying that weed is a "gateway drug".

If you'll smoke weed, you'll smoke crack.

Dishonesty != Murderer.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

50. seconded. everybody lies. very few commit murder.

[Blue-Jay]

51. "No, honey, those pants look *good* on you....

however, I'm likely to stab you to death tomorrow."

Makes perfect sense to me.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

52. lol!

:rofl:

next morning you steal her pants

third morning you murder her.

[Starbucks Anarchist]

57. And then you lie to the cops about who did it.

:P

[Courtesy Flush]

55. Chill. It's just an old saying

It really is. I was at a training once, and the African American presenter was talking about values in the AA community. He talked about the lessons parents teach their kids. When he started to quote this saying, other African Americans in the audience were finishing his sentence for him. At least in this part of the country, it's what parents say to their kids.

[rug]

43. Egotism

[Lyric]

44. Self-righteousness and greed

People like that infuriate me.

[Shine]

48. Infidelity.

which is, I guess, connected with yours in a way.

[applegrove]

53. I agree. n/t