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But I am currently housing an 18 year old fresh out of rehab. I don't know how long I'm in for, but it's not going to be quick. She has no job, no license, and she just went to court on Monday and was sentenced to a year probation (time served, no jail time) for 2 misdemeanors and a felony.
I want to leave the state, but my desires and wishes are on hold until she gets her stuff worked out. She wants to try and transfer her probation to CA where her boyfriend (until recently a coworker of mine) is - but who knows how long that will take, or if they'll transfer her.
I'm supporting her totally at the moment - which will include her court fines and probation fees for awhile. I'm not at work right now because I took the day off to get her to her first meeting w/ the probation officer - in a town 45 minutes away in GOOD weather, longer because it's knarly outside right now.
My situation is also a little different in that I offered for her to stay here, I wasn't asked. I didn't exactly know what I was getting into, but I knew it may not be a simple matter of just giving her a place to crash for a month. And it certainly hasn't turned out that way. She really has no where else to go though - her mother's husband molested her for most of her childhood, and the mother turned on HER instead of the husband. The girl has lived her life being blamed for his year in jail and for him not being allowed to live in the house with them - he moved back in immediately after Jen left the house. She has no life skills, doesn't know how to take care of herself, and doesn't trust herself with anything more than $15 due to her addiction.
Right now we're focused on trying to get her license (who knows how long that will take), get her a job - where I'll control all of her money and help teach her to budget (by her request) - and trying to get her major screwing by the court system straightened out.
Whew.
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