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though there are probably resources in the county your parents live in, elderly advocate services, state health and welfare offices, etc. Are your parents/grandma in a biggish city/town, or rural?
Do you think your grandma will be going into assisted living, or a nursing home? Or moving in with your parents? If your grandma has assets, etc., then it might be wise to have your parents obtain a power of attorney for your grandma in case she becomes/is becoming mentally incapacitated. You'll also want to have your parents look into medical powers of attorney (medical is different from financial) so that they can make decisions about her care if she is incapacitated.
It can be daunting at first. Maybe even look to see if there's a Nolo Press book on aging/legal matters. My sisters and I had to help my mom transition into assisted living, and deal with all the financial woes as her assets ran out, get her on Medicaid and Medicare, etc. Your parents will DEFINITELY need to do more than read a book because the rules and regs are so complicated and confusing - books only help with the general guidelines. If they can afford an attorney, that's great. There are also often attorneys or nonprofits who specialize in elder law issues, so you can do some research to find an organization that might be able to help provide forms, etc.
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