Hey Lounge! Let's Be GRATEFUL

[lildreamer316]

(goddammit!)
Sorrow?
Negativity?
Infighting? (which this woman FIRMLY believes has mostly been caused by a bunch of trolls..)
Screw that!
We WON the HOUSE and the SENATE!
Most, if not all of us, are ok, in survivable health, have someone that loves us and/or someone to love (furbabies and all); and we have
COMPASSION
and care about each other.

Oh.
And we're not MORANS!!

Nor are we completely screwn.

Love ya.
:grouphug: :puke:

[wildhorses]

1. every time i leave for a couple of days

i come back to find that all hell has broken loose--

sometimes i think i am the glue that holds this place together (ha ha)

but, really what the hell have you kids been up to while the teacher was out of the room??

[lildreamer316]

5. Elephant Rino

= hell if I know.
All I see are the goodbye threads.
?????????

[mdmc]

2. peace

low stress

[MissMillie]

3. and let's post kitten pics

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=105&topic_id=5836412&mesg_id=5836412

[LostinVA]

4. "We WON the HOUSE and the SENATE!"

Right you are!

[crim son]

6. Speak for yourself! I am completely screwn.

Really, I am. :(

[lildreamer316]

7. I'm sorry dear..

I hope things start looking up for you.
I do think that in the long run you WILL be better off; but I know that's hard to see, or feel, now.
We love ya, though.:hug:

[crim son]

8. Thanks for the hug.

Thinking things over right now is all. The man who dumped me did so for a woman who, over a period of a year, he described in the most nasty, pejorative terms possible, right down to making fun of her physical shape, her voice, her feelings. It just struck me this morning... if he prefers her, then I must be the meanest, ugliest, droopiest most fucked up troll in the universe. It has me feeling rather depressed. Ah well. What's new.

[lildreamer316]

9. No..

that is a statement that he feels he deserves someone that....Ugly (I don't like to call anyone ugly, but you know what I mean). I would take it as a statement attesting to his low self esteem that he feels he must be with her. You were on a level he felt he didn't deserve. Hope that makes sense....

You are a beautiful expression of Spirit in a human body made of energy. His actions & words are expressions of himself, ONLY. He is not a more intelligent or higher level entity than you. He has no right to make that kind of judgement about anyone except himself. Don't give him that power in your mind.

:hug:

[crim son]

10. It makes perfect sense. He told me more than once

that he thought he wasn't "worthy" of me. I tried so hard to make him believe that he was but... he couldn't.

You are a wise woman, lildreamer316. Thank you.

[lildreamer316]

11. You know that

old saying "you teach best what you most need to learn"?
SO true with me!
Thanks.;)