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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:34 PM
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Poll question: Older Woman has sex with 15 year old!!!! She's a waitress, he's horny!
Should we...
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mzteris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:38 PM
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1. Arrest her for
statutory rape and put her in jail.
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:39 PM
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2. If you do that, you're really going to dissapoint the kid...
:toast:
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Left Below Donating Member (171 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:40 PM
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3. I am tired of this false outrage
If a young man gets an erection, he is ready.

End of story.

And don't give me any "responsibility" bullshit - we are all primates at heart.
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:41 PM
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4. But... but..... That would mean guys are different from girls?
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:47 PM
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9. So if a man has sex with a boy
and the boy has an erection he was ready for it?
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tuvor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:10 PM
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18. BINGO!
Thanks, dsc.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:15 PM
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21. Oh well that's different...
:sarcasm:
It's also different when the victim is a girl, and she's sexually aroused.
:sarcasm:

Thanks for your post...Even though none of the guys who "wish they were the kid" will likely respond to it seriously. :toast:
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:20 PM
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:46 PM
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30. No, we don't need to procreate at age 15.
We have evolved into creatures with a lifespan almost 3 times what it was when we needed to procreate at that early age in order to assure the survival of mankind.

Furthermore, since our population has exploded well beyond a need for concern about our survival, since there is no form of birth control that is 100% effective, and today's 15 year olds are not well known for their stellar parenting skills; it's exceptionally unwise to have a sexual relationship so young.

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Left Below Donating Member (171 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:33 PM
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24. I see how this works now -
The votes pile up for my side but they find it futile to argue with you.

Sorry, I am fairly new.

And I am an anthropologist. I find morality "relative" to culture.

And I am a true liberal.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:56 PM
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33. Your poll hardly offers an unbiased option for those who disagree with you
Edited on Wed Apr-05-06 08:58 PM by GoddessOfGuinness
The argument has also been played out ad-nauseum here on DU. If people aren't responding, it's because it's pointless to try to discuss the subject with those whose brains are hopelessly entangled in their flies.

As to morality being relative to culture, I won't argue with you; but I fully support any culture which opposes child rape.

And, by the way, why not respond to dsc's post?
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Left Below Donating Member (171 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 09:13 PM
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36. this could be fun since you are not a fundie (it appears)
Edited on Wed Apr-05-06 09:15 PM by Left Below
"child rape", in actuality, is repulsive.

But don't conflate consensual sex with child abuse.

And if one is gay (per DSC) then I say go ahead.

But if a young teen male is text-messaging his pals about his "conquest" then he is not a "victim" in my view.


The status of "victim" is self defined and the onus is on the younger participant to support such a claim. If he/she justifies it, then I am for prosecution.


It's a tough call for either side - that's why I oppose mandatory sentences.
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:37 PM
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27. We're talking hetero here....
Not to say if the sexuality was different, the rules hould be different.

15 year old males are most often hormone enhanced and ready to go.
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:12 PM
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20. Babies get erections
Let's base all societal standards on our most hedonistic human desires. That'll be fun. :eyes:
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:41 PM
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29. just curious... how old are you?
?
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liontamer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 10:48 PM
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40. babies can get erections does that mean they're fair game?
other primates can control themselves, why can't humans?
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Junkdrawer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:43 PM
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5. Get her a management job at the Department of Homeland Security...
She'd fit right in...
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:44 PM
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6. Hmmmm. So far, most wish we were the kid.
Nice thing anout blind polls.
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Berserker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:44 PM
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7. It's all fun and games
except when the tables are turned.
Older Man has sex with 15 year old!!!! He's a waitress, She's horny!
Double standard USA.
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:47 PM
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10. If you are a guy, you would have cleared a forrest to have sex
with the waitress of your dreams if you were a typical hetero.

It's not double standards, it is the socio-political reafirmation (reassessment) of sexuality in PC terms.
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Faygo Kid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:46 PM
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8. Why can't she be an investment banker? A cheerleader? A French maid?
Wait a minute, I am getting carried away back to being 15 again. Apologies!

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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:49 PM
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12. Mine is all of those..... mmmmm......
:rofl:
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:48 PM
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11. OMG! Even the poll is gettin horny!
:rofl:
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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:50 PM
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13. shrug
:shrug:


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HysteryDiagnosis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 07:58 PM
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14. Did he get fries with that??
Edited on Wed Apr-05-06 07:59 PM by 4MoronicYears
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:02 PM
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15. It is against the law for any adult to have sex with a child.





15 is too young.




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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:30 PM
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23. How old were you the first time?
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:57 PM
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34. How old were you the first time?

I was 14.

Why did you ask how old I was the first time?

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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:03 PM
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Get a third
opinion? :D
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:50 PM
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31. Okay.... And a third?
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:03 PM
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16. Other--not enough info
police would probably be less likely to make an arrest if the woman were say, 16 instead of 36, and there are plenty of other variable here that i won't speculate on...

Having participated in these threads, I know there are many DUers that get hot and bothered at the prospect of the pubescent teen virgin boy getting it on with the pretty, caring, but secretly slutty science teacher, because as i've been told over and over, ANY red-blooded american male mature enough to tie his own shoelaces can NEVER be the victim of sexual abuse by a woman, since it's all we ever think about...:sarcasm: :rant:
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:06 PM
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17. She gets pregnant, he's a dad!
lots of fun to be had all around, huh?
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:11 PM
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19. If she is "older" as in older than 18, we arrest her and prosecute her
for statutory rape.
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:33 PM
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25. The problem with these threads
Is that too many people seem to confuse porn with real life.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:55 PM
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32. The problem with life is that too many people seem to
confuse porn with real life.

You have a good point indeed.

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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 09:19 PM
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37. It's troubling.
I mean, I'm sex-positive and don't see anything inherently wrong with porn. People just need to realize that it's fantasy and has little if anything to do with real life.

That's where most of the problems come from, I think.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:34 PM
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26. Arrest Her
no other comments
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 08:40 PM
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28. As a parent of a son....I would kick the shit out of that bitch
let my son discover his sexuality the usual way. This would not include adult women who can't fucking control themselves and go after boys. She's breaking the law and I've got to wonder why she can't find a man of legal age to satisfy her need to get laid.


I'm sure a lot of dad's would have a problem with this too. At least they ones that have outgrown their adolescent attitudes towards sex.


:grr:
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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 09:33 PM
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38. From a dad who remembers his own youth....
I wouldn;t be that worried about it.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 09:05 PM
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35. Charge her with statutory rape..
... same as if the genders roles were reversed. It can be no other way.
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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 10:45 PM
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39. When I was 12, I had a HUGE crush on Harrison Ford
Who was in his 50s at the time. I thought he was the hottest man EVER. Fantasized about him. You could definitely say I was horny.

If 55 year old Harrison Ford had had sex with my 12 year old self, would it have been okay, since I was horny and "wanted it"?
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liontamer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 10:53 PM
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41. of course!
so long as you were a boy. Boys are very mature and in touch with their sexuality, so anyone who wants to sleep with one is really doing the kid a favor. I wish when I was young and learning about my body, all the adults in my life who couldn't have age appropriate sexual relations took the time to use me sexually and really put my confusing feelings to good use.
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LSdemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 10:54 PM
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42. Why is it more troubling if a 15 y/o has sex with someone older?
Is another 15 year old any less capable of making someone/getting pregnant? If you believe that having sex at 15 is too young, why don't we prosecute (in the juvenile system, of course) 15 year olds who have sex with 15 year olds? Isn't it kind of silly saying you can have sex, but only with people your own age?
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 11:07 PM
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43. Where were these women when I was 15??? n/t
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BigMcLargehuge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-05-06 11:40 PM
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44. Locked
A sex thread? On Mod switch night?

WHO WANTS TO LIVE FOREVER??

DOWNNNNNN!!!!!


Big McLargehuge
DU Moderator (and prince of The Floating City)
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