How old were you when you lost your virginity?

[Whoa_Nelly]

(will this thread get locked?....DON'T YOU DARE!!!!)

[KitchenWitch]

1. I perform asexual reproduction!

:rofl:

[Whoa_Nelly]

3. And future generations are safer because of it!

:rofl:

[ZombieNixon]

2. 18!

:D

It was legal! Who said it wasn't?! Gonna kick their asses! It was her 18th birthday! :hide:

[Whoa_Nelly]

5. 16...and so was he!

and my first crush! How lucky can a girl get! :rofl:

[ZombieNixon]

8. Ya coulda had me!

I'm good! :evilgrin:

[Whoa_Nelly]

20. Hmmmmm

Maybe I can still yet!

(come find me big boy!)

[ZombieNixon]

21. Send me pics and we'll talk!

:evilgrin:

[Whoa_Nelly]

26. Am WAAAAY too experienced for you, sweetcakes

Check my journal for pic (slide on over to the right to see it with my profile...) :rofl:

[libnnc]

4. 19

[Strong Atheist]

81. Also. nt.

[Droopy]

6. 17

I wish I had her now 16 years later. I hear she is now single after an ugly divorce. Hey, you never know.

[Whoa_Nelly]

7. Holy Condoms, Batman!

What's with all the teen replies????


Sick, I tell ya...just SICK! :rofl:

[Arkansas Granny]

86. Can't speak for everyone here, but back in my day, a lot of us,

girls especially, were married in their teens. I was married at 19 and a lot of the girls I graduated with had been married for 2-3 years already. Just the way it was.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

9. No teenager here!

I was 21.....

It wasn't very much fun.....x(

Well, until some time later.......:evilgrin:





Edited to fix typo.....

[KitchenWitch]

10. I was 18

[Wapsie B]

11. 22 for me.

And it wasn't one of those beautiful first love things at all. It just was. That's all it was.

[Kali]

12. Hey everybody started early where I went to school

but I don't mention the exact age anymore (can't decide which smiley to use)

[Whoa_Nelly]

14. Aw, c'mon, Kali!

Use'em all!

[sundog]

13. 16

[Robeson]

15. Other: I don't remember.....

...that's what happens when you get old. You tend to forget things....:-)

[Crazy Guggenheim]

16. 18.

:popcorn:

[Heidi]

19. .

:hug:

:pals:

:popcorn:

[Crazy Guggenheim]

32. Thanks Heidi. Have you seen this? Yodel odel a-e-oooo.

http://www.democraticwarrior.com/Forum/viewtopic.php?t=553

[Heidi]

33. Right on!

http://www.democraticwarrior.com/Forum/viewtopic.php?p=3478#3478

[hfojvt]

17. the SAV answer is kinda vague

since we could be in our teens, twenties, thirties, forties, etc.

[liberaltrucker]

18. NYFB

:toast:

:rofl:

[Whoa_Nelly]

22. Thanks for sharin', LT!

:rofl:

[mondo joe]

23. At 17, to a society jeweler. His toupee came off in my hand.

You'd think it would have turned me off to sex forever, but I'm resilient!

[Whoa_Nelly]

24. OMG!

Too funny! :rofl:

[_testify_]

27. whoa!

No offense, but I think you just turned ME off forever! LOL!

[mondo joe]

28. It nicely set the ground for not taking sex TOO seriously. :-)

[FuzzySlippers]

25. 19, but I think it's been found again.

It's been so long, I'm pretty sure my hymen has grown back.

[Whoa_Nelly]

29. Would number the years since last...(sigh...too embarrassing!)

But, am sure am a virgin once again, too :rofl:

[LSK]

30. with or without a partner?

:D

[Whoa_Nelly]

31. Now THAT'S an interesting premise!

[ZombieNixon]

34. Oh, in that case, it was 12.

:evilgrin:

[Whoa_Nelly]

35. **Wow**

Me, too! and it was such a *******

[ZombieNixon]

36. It was such a herk!

:hide:

3...2...1...

[khashka]

37. 17.

I was molested as a child but that doesn't quite count, since it wasn't my choice

17.... me and five guys. I can't explain what this meant to me. Everyone thinks it was terrible..... it wasn't. I always knew I was gay but that proved to me it could be good. A little extreme maybe, but it was what I needed.


Khash.

[6000eliot]

38. What virginity?

[DanCa]

39. I think my virginity is starting to grow back.

*sigh* It's been so long that I have priests laughing at me.

[Ariana Celeste]

40. ....

14.


I'm 20, so at that point most of my girlfriend's had lost theirs and I was considered late x(

[RoyGBiv]

41. I never "lost" my virginity ...

I gained sexual experience. :-)

Seriously, though, I hate that way of referring to having sex for the first time. It simply reinforcing the idea that sex is bad.

[nonconformist]

42. I was 17 nt

[TheMightyFavog]

43. 22

End of Line.

[mykpart]

44. I was 20, and by that time

I was doing laundry three times a week just so I could lean against the washing machine when it hit the spin cycle.

[sarge43]

45. Didn't lose it exactly; just can't remember where I left it last n/t

[Guava Jelly]

46. 16 when i lost mine

Seams there was allways a girl next door (same age as me at the time of course) who liked to play dirty card games :O)
like per say strip slapjack.Hide and get it.
oh the fun i had

[Wetzelbill]

47. 19

I was drunk at a party at my house. Sleeping. She crawled in bed with me, cuddled up..... it happened. I didn't even know her name at the time. Not exactly a romantic story. However, I didn't have to do any work beforehand. No smooth talking or anything. Hell, I was passed at and she jumped in the sack with me ready to roll. Psh, like any man is going to turn that down. :)

I do wish I had a better first experience though. Like somebody I had something with and genuinely cared for. My first gf would have been ideal. Never ever slept with her or anything, but she was someone I liked, respected, had a great friendship with and truly cared for. Other than that, I guess at some point pretty much everybody has their first time, so it has to be done. No matter how awkward, or how much of a mistake it might be. :)

[bridgit]

48. you don't really want to know; the date or the circumstance...

if half the people with the truer answers to these various, seemingly innocuous little 'lounge' threads actually answered them? the entire freaking lounge would be locked down

here's to violent pre-teen sex with the horny step-brothers of the fucking world :beer:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

49. Still a virgin.

You baby boomers....fucking as teens.... Sheesh.

:P :P :P :P :P :P :P

Edited to Add: I'm 14, so don't get so excited. I'm ATTEMPTING to treat this issue with maturity....

:rofl:

[NJ Democrats]

93. Same here.

I'm still a Still a virgin, but I'm only 14.

[Laelth]

50. 17

At her house. Her parents were at work all day. It was Summer, and we were out of school. We had fooled around before, but we decided to go all the way. Five times that day, if I remember correctly. One of the better days of my life.

:bounce: :evilgrin:

-Laelth

[kwassa]

51. At church camp when I was 16

Of course, it was a Unitarian church camp, so what do you expect?

[scarlet_owl]

52. Way too young.

I was thirteen.

[WritingIsMyReligion]

53. Wow.

:wow:

That's YOUNG.

:wow:

[Shine]

54. 22.

I waited til the right one came along. Although I'd had plenty of opportunities, I didn't want to have sex casually. First time was INCREDIBLE. We were together for about 2 yrs and then broke up, due to his alcoholism.

Onward and upward.... :hi:

[TheBaldyMan]

55. still a virgin, it doesn't count as sex if your nuts don't touch

or

Still a virgin because I'm Kathleen Harris' boyfriend.

[kedrys]

56. 18

My 18th birthday, to be exact. Wow. Looking back on it, it was a tad too casual, and of course there was no emotional involvement for either party, but the actual encounter was *really* good.

[Gormy Cuss]

57. It's not lost. I just can't remember where I left it.

:+

[In_The_Wind]

59. I remember exactly where and when I gave mine away.

Nope, they weren't lost. :evilgrin:

[yvr girl]

58. I am SHOCKED that all you single people

have lost your virginity. SHOCKED.

[NNadir]

62. I try to keep the lines of communication with my sons open on this subject

Some kids start very young. I was sixteen, my girlfriend at the time was younger than I.

When I think of what trouble we could have gotten in - abortion was illegal then - my head spins. Fortunately I had access to condoms through some friends and was educated enough to use them.

My oldest son is eleven. He doesn't really want to discuss sex, but he knows what it is, and we have made sure to tell him he is always free to discuss the question, with no fear of criticism.

[yvr girl]

63. You know I'm not really shocked, right?

[NNadir]

64. I meant to frame my answer as a response to the original post.

I happened to have yours open when I wrote it, a mistake I'm sure all of us do from time to time.

I do know you're not schocked.

Now that I am an adult though, I am schocked to think of what I was doing at 16. Those raging hormones are dangerous.

[JohnKleeb]

60. I plead the fifth amendment your honor

[Hoooweee]

61. 14

w00t. Holy crap, that was ten years ago...

[beyurslf]

65. 18

[supernova]

66. I was 23

and it was with the guy I would marry a 18 months later. It was OK, not great, but OK. Mostly because the room was too cold. :scared: I went to visit him over New Year's and his roomate was away.

In retrospect, I wish I'd waited for someone who cared about me better. It was what it was. :shrug:

But I've had LOT better sex and great sex since then. :evilgrin: Can't wait for my next lover. Whoever turns it turns out to be. He's going to be the recipient of a lot of pent up energy! :rofl: :evilgrin: :rofl: :evilgrin:

[Dervill Crow]

67. I was 19 and married. n/t

[Maine-ah]

68. I know exactly where I left my virginity, and I don't want it back.

[long_green]

69. I was 20 and in school (for the first time)

bit of a late bloomer, I saw myself. Thank God for older women.

[LeftyMom]

70. 16. I fear at 24 it grew back.

:cry:

[xchrom]

71. 13 -- i seduced a boy in his twenties.

no one was more happy not to be a virgin than me.

[TimeChaser]

72. My 19th birthday

:)

[nothingshocksmeanymore]

73. 12

but I was 16 before I used another person

[DerekG]

74. 23 and still a virgin

I would only surrender it to the woman whom I'd call wife. Suffice to say, I find 19th century poetic eroticism immensely appealing.

[miss_american_pie]

79. ...

:spray:

Good for you. :hi:

[arwalden]

75. Depends On What You Mean By "Virginity".

Are we talking traditional penetration, or just having "sexual relations" with another willing human being?

[Odin2005]

76. 16

my GF was 15.

[RevolutionaryActs]

77. Still a virgin.

:)

[ZombieNixon]

78. This thread is not locked yet.

Despite all my efforts. Something is seriesly wrong here. :freak:

[Fox Mulder]

80. I think I may end up being the new 40 year old virgin.

Of course, I won't hit 40 for another 16 years...but with the way things are going, I may not get laid until then. :evilfrown:

To answer the question, I was 19 when I lost my virginity...and that was also the last time I've had sex...

[usedtobesick]

82. I did not loose mine either, I gave it away like unwanted baggage

don't know why I was in such a hurry to get rid of it, I was 14 and it was my best friends sister and my babysitter at the time, she was only 16... and it was her first time as well. We're still friends so I guess it was ok... reading this thread is like the Readers Digest condensed version of Penthouse letters without the "good parts"

[xmas74]

83. I was in my teens,

still in high school.

Pot was involved and I got bored midway through. Yep, I was the b*tch who found the late, late show to be more interesting and I watched it during "the act", hoping he'd finish up.

[jukes]

84. 14

w/ my 13 YO "cousin". NOT a blood relation, she was cousin to my brother-in-law. she WASN'T a virgin, but neither one of us did a very good job.

EDIT: glad i beat the lock!!!

[dr.strangelove]

85. I was 15, during a break from a summer school class, in a Dunkin Donuts

LynnAnne, wherever you are, I will never forget you.

[khashka]

87. Depends how you define it....

Does choice matter? Does gender matter?

I lost it to:


At four a family member - child molesting. But that wasn't my choice.

At 16 - me and a member of my (ex) Bible study class. She was beautiful - think Liv Ullman with red hair. We made love with kittens crawling on my back. It was amazing.

17 - me and five guys who gang banged me. That was even more amazing. And that was totally my choice.


So who does one lose one's virginity? How does one define it?


Khash.


P.S. TMI

[Fleshdancer]

88. I think choice should be the main requirement

But that's just my opinion. :shrug: Out of curiosity, do you consider your virginity lost at 4 or at 16? Not that its any of my business, just curious.

[khashka]

89. To answer your curiosity....

17 - the first time I had sex with another man. I'm gay, that was the one that mattered.

16 - She was amazing and I cherish the memory. I enjoyed it, but it wasn't what I really wanted.

The earlier stuff against my choice - fuck 'em!


Khash

[Redstone]

90. 13. She was 16.

Redstone

[tibbir]

91. It could have been 18

but I really think it was 19.

[Whoa_Nelly]

92. ROFL Can't BELIEVE this thread came back!

I started it...and will have to hide it if it keeps resurfacing, keeps crawling to the top....just like the kudzu thread :rofl:

[Guy Fawkes]

94. Actualy... that poll seems pretty normal.

with 34% of young women getting pregnant before 20 and all...

[Ekirh]

95. 23 and still one N/T

[bertha katzenengel]

96. Eighteen. In a dorm room on a Baptist campus. And unfortunately

it was to an evil woman, but I was in love. :eyes: Oh, how painfully we learn.

[RockaFowler]

97. 17

And I thought this would be the typical one - Prom Night. Worst Hotel Room Ever!