Ok, 2 year anniversary of my husband's death. Need vibes.

[SillyGoose]

Its taken me 1 1/2 years to get my sea legs. Today hurts.

DU has been my port. Thank you. And sorry to all that I offended along the way.

:hug:

[DeposeTheBoyKing]

1. I'm very sorry

Hang in there. :grouphug:

[SillyGoose]

7. Thank you.

[SillyGoose]

16. Thank you.

[SeattleGirl]

2. I hope you get through today all right.

Anniversaries are hard, especially when someone's death is so recent. Take extra care of yourself today.

[SillyGoose]

25. I'm trying my best, babe

[SeattleGirl]

27. I know it's hard, Goose

And I'm glad you know we are here for you. :hug:

[MrScorpio]

3. I'm sorry for your loss

Here's a hug, baby

:hug:

Stay strong!

[SillyGoose]

17. Thank you and here's a hug for you....

:hug:

[AirmensMom]

4. Sending vibes, SillyGoose.

To help you get through your day. I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

5. My dear SillyGoose.......

I'm sure today hurts like hell......

And no apologies are needed.......you are hurting, and we can help you with that......

Please take care of yourself, OK?

We've got your back......

:grouphug:

[SillyGoose]

12. Thank you, California Peggy. Hugs to you and yours.

[miss_american_pie]

6. I'm so very sorry

:hug:

[In_The_Wind]

8. I'm very sorry for your loss SillyGoose.

[SillyGoose]

19. Thank you, Joan Alpern, I like your open arms.

room for me, a new widow?

[In_The_Wind]

23. SillyGoose there's room for you in my heart as well as in my arms.

I'm usually around. If you don't see me posting then send me a PM.

The very special man I once call my rock called me his silly goose. I'll always see your post when you're here.

[EstimatedProphet]

9. I am sorry

I hope that things are looking up.

[ET Awful]

10. My condoelences SillyGoose

Multiple :hug: :hug: :hug: for you.

[SillyGoose]

20. Thank you

[Benfea]

11. HUGS

I can't possibly fathom your loss, but I hope you get through this with a reasonable minimum of suffering. :hug:

[SillyGoose]

22. Thank you.

[tinfoilinfor2005]

13. I have a hubby who doesn't take very good care of himself

and refuses to be nagged about it. (sixty two, overweight, smokes, etc.) I can't help but wonder how I would feel in your situation. Lonely and scary comes to mind.

Hugs to you and hope your pain is softened by good memories. :hug:

[SillyGoose]

24. PM me. I can talk to you,

[LaurenG]

14. Oh SillyGoose, I'm sorry

:hug:

[WritingIsMyReligion]

15. Oooh damn....

I'm very sorry.

:hug:

[cally]

18. I'm sorry, SG

I'm sending healing vibes your way. Today must be extra hard. :hug:

[mdmc]

21. sorry for your loss and I'm glad that you are not alone

DU is here for you!

[flamingyouth]

26. You've got them.

These things are hard. I know. :hug:

[lizziegrace]

28. ...

:grouphug:

[Fleshdancer]

29. For All Who Mourn

That he was near to you
so many a year
But darkens you distress.
Would you he were
less worthy and less dear
That you might grieve the less?

He was a golden font
that freely poured
What goldenly endures,
And though that font be gone,
its bounty stored
and treasured,
Still is yours.

The past is deathless.
Souls are wells too deep
To spend their purest gains.
All that he gave to you
is yours to keep
While memory remains.
Who never had and lost
forlorn are they
Far more that you and I
Who had and have
Judge not the price we pay
For love that cannot die.

by Arthur Guiterman

_____________________________________

I wish there was something I could say to make this day a little easier for you. I would love to hear about your husband if you wouldn't mind sharing a few of your stories with us this evening. It's obvious he was well loved by you which leads me to the conclusion that he was a good guy.

:hug:

[Jade Fox]

30. Grief sucks....

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it takes a LONG time to....whatever. You don't really "get over" losing someone close. I'm glad DU has been a help, and I wish you buckets of everything wonderful. :pals:

[EFerrari]

31. Here, SillyGoose

:hug:
:grouphug:

[LynzM]

32. So sorry for your loss, SG

:hug: I cannot imagine that kind of pain. I'm glad that DU has been here as a source for help and comfort, in whatever way we can.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

33. I'm so sorry...

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
Let it hurt. We're here to help you through...

[applegrove]

34. Sorry.

[Throckmorton]

35. It will be two years since April's Death on March 14.

We were married for 12 1/2 years. I am doing remarkably well now actually. Have to elementary aged children has given me focus. I am dating again, and I do see a future, that is on a whole not unpleasant.

But I do know what you mean, I came across an unfinished needlepoint last week that she had stored in a strange place, and it did make me melancholy all day.

Love,
Throckmorton

[murielm99]

36. Oh dear. Oh my.

SillyGoose and Throckmorton. I am so sorry. Hugs to you both.

It does hurt. Sometimes it actually hurts physically. And the loneliness! The fact that they are just GONE is so overwhelming. It took me so long to get my head around that.

My grief is an old one. I was married for 6 years and he died. I remarried and raised a family. We have been together for 27 years.

You will get better. You will be forever changed.

[Robeson]

37. Wow SillyGoose. There's really nothing I can say other than...

...to hopefully let you know I'm supporting you, and giving you real hugs. I'm so sorry. We are all giving you good vibes....:grouphug:

[RFKHumphreyObama]

38. My thoughts, prayers, condolences and sympathies SillyGoose

You are in my prayers and thoughts :hug:

[turtlelowe]

39. Thoughts for strenth and peace coming your way

I will send all that I can. Tonight when I burn cedar for our family I will think on hope for you for a brighter and easier tomorrow.

[arwalden]

40. I Can Only Begin To Imagine How Difficult It's Been For You...

... I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm glad to see that you've made it this far. I hope that as time goes on, the pain and sadness will be gently replaced with smiles and memories of happier times. Take care of yourself.

:hug:

~Allen