Are you a true liberal gentleman or a so-called one? Can app to chicks too

[redqueen]

I’ve always been sexually open and very accepting and understanding about others’ sexual proclivities, but before I was married and dating so-called “liberal” men they would always piss and moan about how I was a “slut” and they didn’t want to be seen dating me.

Bitch about women’s rights all week, but then get all patriarchal and owny once they got a taste.

My guess was that in case another man they knew saw them around town with me that they wanted to look like they’re dating a good, obedient, male superiority-lovin’ “wife” type.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

1. i swear i am ok with slutty girls!

my friends both male and female use it as an honorific not an insult!


greatest copy cat evah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[redqueen]

3. Sounds like a great bunch of friends.

:loveya:

And thank you!

[LeftyMom]

2. That's one of the nicer things about having a kid

The guys who are insecure enough to want a woman with no real sexual history or a willingness to hide that history are scared off by walking, talking evidence that I'm not a virgin.

Cool with me, who wants somebody that insecure anyhow?

[redqueen]

5. Exactly.

Rooted in insecurity, it is.

[Crazy Dave]

4. "they didn’t want to be seen dating me"

I'd say that they weren't privileged enough to be seen dating you with attitudes like that. Be glad you're rid of them and that they made it easy for you to be :hi:

[redqueen]

6. hehehe

:hi:

[plcdude]

7. True Liberal

men believe and act as though each individual male or female is his/her own person to live their lives as they see fit. It is not the role of an open mind to judge the motivations or behaviors of others. So the true liberal man should not care what other's will think and if they are attracted to the women then they should see where it goes from there. Be yourself.

[redqueen]

8. Aww

thanks for the reply... this is just a copycat, although I did want it to be thought-provoking.

[Niccolo_Macchiavelli]

9. i focus on the positive

with some persons this is easy with some it's more consuming. single most hard with myself.

I'm the weird guy from around who is funneling stuff from a party that doesn't want it to one that does. Or cause a communication vacuum that "drains" the words out of the other. But gentleman? No. As i fault myself hard i don't judge others and as long they don't ask my opinion i can overlook much.

When asked i will help, when obvious i offer to do so but no...i'm too negative too consider myself a gentleman. Eremite fits more. Not missing, not missed.

[WCGreen]

10. I'd rather date a slut that a prude any day....

Sluttiness is a healthy outlet for sexual energy that would only just get bottled up and blow out the top of the panty hose...

So yea, to avoid all that stuff from just bursting out all over the place, I think the trend toward sluttiness is healthy, right and gosh darn it... All American....

[xmas74]

11. I'm proud of my slutty behavior.

Maybe I'm not getting any action to back up the talk anymore but I have some old stories...

Anyway, I have a problem getting dates anymore. My discussions about sex are straightforward and frank, which seem to scare men off. I don't beat around the bush. I know what I like and I say it. And I'm no blushing teen. I tell them upfront that condoms are mandatory.

If the talk doesn't scare them off then the pictures of my five year old does. To those men I'd like to give you my middle finger as a sign of how I feel.

[mongo]

12. LOL!

I hope there's at least a couple of sentences between the condom talk and the kid pics, otherwise, I can see where that might be awkward...

But more power to ya for being straightforward and frank. Wish there was more of that these days.

[xmas74]

15. There usually are.

I'm very upfront about being a single mother. Most of the time I am wearing a locket w/ my daughter's picture in it and am many times wearing some sort of t shirt that cues someone in (ie. "Soccer Mom-I'm the coach!" "T-Ball Mom-I'm the coach!" Yep, I'm usually the coach for all the sports).

And condoms are the rule, not the exception. It's not just my life I'm taking into consideration-it's my daughter's. Why run her the risk of not having a mom just for one night of fun, if I'm lucky. Not worth it, IMO.

[MrScorpio]

13. Redqueen, don't let the hypocrites get you down

You're ALWAYS alright in my book.

And you know where I'm coming from!

[mongo]

14. LOL!

Nice copycat. Food for thought in here too.