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Edited on Sun Jul-27-03 12:24 AM by Alexander
Last night my friends had a party and brought some people over, without informing me of this until today. When asked, they "just didn't think to ask me over", or something. I found it kind of odd that they wouldn't think to, since they have remarked on several occasions that I practically lived there at one point (although I bought them groceries to pay them back for their hospitality), and they have told me on several occasions that I am indeed quite entertaining at parties, especially when drinking is involved.
A friend of mine in CT (I live in Arizona, but my avatar is CT because it's my home) said "maybe they wanted the girls for themselves" (the girls being the guests). That didn't make sense, since one of them is gay and they're just friends with these girls anyway.
But lately my paranoia regarding my friends here in Arizona has been growing - I have these recurring thoughts that they're just using me for their convenience and they'll forget about me at some point when I'm no longer useful to them.
On a recent trip we all took to Seattle and Vancouver, these thoughts manifested themselves in the form of dreams, and they bothered me one night in Seattle. This was worsened by a trip to an Italian restaurant, where my order was forgotten about, and when I went to talk to the waiter, he treated me with contempt until he actually looked at the slip with my name on it for the order. He apologized and I was polite, but the damage was done. It caused me to brood the entire night about how people might be trying to get rid of me.
After the trip, I felt better, until a few days ago, when I started to get cabin fever from staying in my house all the time and went out with one of my friends to a hookah bar. He basically acted like a total prick, almost demanding that I drive and pay for the entire bill, and he kept trying to prove that he knew more than I did on various subjects.
And yesterday afternoon I talked to this same guy online and asked if he would like to do something today, and he said "perhaps, I'll think about it." And then he gets drunk with these people that same night without even mentioning it to me.
My shrink, whom I've stopped seeing, is basically a refueling station - he just gives me drugs to take that get my hopes up, cost me money I don't have, and don't work anyway. And I don't feel like spending time and money to get another one that could be just as bad.
For those of you who have seen my earlier posts, you'll know that I had a difficult time making friends here in Arizona in the first place, and I was starting to feel better once I met these folks. I fear that if I decide they're dickheads, that I'll be back to square one, since the other people I hang out with are out-of-state and hang around with these guys as well.
I honestly don't know if they're really being mean people or if I'm just paranoid here. Regardless, I feel lonely as hell right now. The fact that no one's on AIM right now doesn't help. So, I'd very much appreciate any responses.
Thanks. :-)
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