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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:23 PM Original message |
In your opinion, is marriage a natural arrangement for two people? |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. First of all, marriage is not about love |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:28 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Agreed. (nt) |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:19 PM Response to Reply #1 |
26. But they say it's about love. But you're right. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 11:42 AM Response to Reply #26 |
39. Nonsense |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 09:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
37. Bullshit. |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
45. couldn't agree with you more. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 01:41 PM Response to Reply #1 |
52. Maybe not for you |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 06:23 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Marriage is NOT what the two people decide it is |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:07 PM Response to Reply #1 |
59. Marriage is very much about love. You cannot possibly stay together |
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Broken_Hero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:11 PM Response to Reply #1 |
60. good points, all very valid....n/t |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
3. Depends on the person really |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. But it's that requirement that we "control ourselves" that I'm exploring.. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:45 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. I didn't mean 'controlling ourselves' literally |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:41 PM Response to Reply #3 |
21. Agreed...I never liked being with more |
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insanity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
4. That's a silly question. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:32 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. So you think that humans are naturally monogamous? |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:39 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. No, but what's the difference between screwing one person or six? |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:50 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. This is weird... I didn't see your post until well after I posted mine. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:38 PM Response to Original message |
7. Hmm... this will surprise you: |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. Have you ever been married? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:26 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. seconded. too tired to write a real response. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:50 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. Well, let's all stop complaining. I obviously need education. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 09:15 PM Response to Reply #18 |
33. Thirded. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:42 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. You've never read any of my posts, have you? |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 11:53 AM Response to Reply #22 |
40. I've read hundreds of your posts |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:50 PM Response to Reply #7 |
24. Or maybe it was made because |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
9. I think marriage is a concept we have come to accept |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
10. I don't believe it's a "one size fits all" kind of institution. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
13. Yes |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
15. Deep questions. Here's my take. |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
16. Its useful to certain people at certain times. |
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SKKY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
17. I am married, and have been so for 6 years, happily... |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
19. beats me. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
20. For Mormons, it's a natural arrangment for up to two dozen people |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
23. Love endures in my marriage. |
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x-g.o.p.er (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 09:35 PM Response to Reply #23 |
35. Beautiful reply. |
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JudyM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #23 |
64. Wow, that is so beautiful. You are lucky to appreciate what you have, |
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Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
27. Mammals generally follow one of two mating arrangements: |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:26 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Other males of species, like guppies, fuck every female they can find. |
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Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:36 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. I was talking about mammals, not fish. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:06 PM Response to Reply #30 |
46. All life is linked. (I think bunny rabbits are just as frisky as guppies) |
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Benfea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:39 PM Response to Reply #46 |
63. Rodents are not closely related to us. |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
29. Please... |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:37 PM Response to Original message |
31. Which two people? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
32. Women marry for financial/material reasons. Men marry for sex. |
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JudyM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:45 PM Response to Reply #32 |
65. Oh, please. Lots of us marry for sex too (with love mixed in). |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-05-06 04:00 PM Response to Reply #32 |
66. I didn't marry for financial/material reasons. |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
34. Can't say that I'd call it "natural." |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 01:50 PM Response to Reply #34 |
54. As of this year |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
36. NO! |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-03-06 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
38. marriage is a social construct. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
41. I think it can be for two individuals |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
42. Yes it's for the sake of order |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
43. marriage is every bit as natural as, say |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:29 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. ! |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
44. No. I've changed my mind. If two people are attracted, |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
47. An awful lot of societies have developed something like it |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
48. Most human beings are naturally sexual. |
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kedrys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
50. It's definitely one of those case-by-case things |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
51. No they are not naturally monogamous. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 01:47 PM Response to Original message |
53. I think some form of coupling is "normal" |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
55. People do want life long companions |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
57. I think couple-dom is natural. |
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JackDragna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
58. I don't believe we're monogamous. |
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Broken_Hero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
61. I'm not entirely sure....but... |
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zone (376 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-04-06 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
62. I think manogamy is a learned trait |
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