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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:46 AM Original message |
Parents : when do you let your children have their own lives ? |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:49 AM Response to Original message |
1. You are entering the Twilight Zone Codependent Universe |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:58 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Whooaa nelly....you got that right.... |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:51 AM Response to Original message |
2. do your best to bite your lip until he moves out! |
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Dave Reynolds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:54 AM Response to Original message |
3. Just a question, |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:56 AM Response to Original message |
4. how does he feel about his role in this? |
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mykpart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 03:05 AM Response to Original message |
6. How old are these parents? |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 03:07 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. They are around 50 . |
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mykpart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 03:14 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I have some experience with this type of dysfunctional family. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 03:14 AM Response to Original message |
9. "Letting" children have their own lives is easy.. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 03:30 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Thats the thing : He pays for all of his own stuff . |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 08:40 AM Response to Reply #10 |
18. It will never happen if he keeps on living with his parents. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 12:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. Not so.. He's old enough to move out and should. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:30 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. He pays their friggin mortage . |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:33 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. It sounds like you can either deal with it or break up |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:35 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. you already know what you need to do.. |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 04:13 AM Response to Original message |
11. They do this because he lets them |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 04:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Thank you Oeditpus Rex . |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 04:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Keep that perspective. Your B/F is so immersed in this... |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 05:05 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. It's a very sad thing, and it's very hard to do |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 08:07 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. You nailed it! |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
16. Boyfriend has to be willing to put his foot down |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 08:37 AM Response to Original message |
17. He needs to move out and have his own life, that's for sure. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 10:15 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Leeches indeed . |
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MissHoneychurch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
20. I didn't know you had a new bf |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 10:25 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Its very stressy . |
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MissHoneychurch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 10:27 AM Original message |
that is not good |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
24. Yeah I agree with everything that you said . |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
22. Twenty two? That's not normal. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
26. He needs to move out and stop letting them take advantage of |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-18-06 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
28. He may not only have to move out but also move away. |
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