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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 04:09 PM Original message |
Need advice on handling a former psycho friend |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
1. Take a wait and see attitude |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:17 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I just find the whole thing so bizarre.... |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:23 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Sounds like... |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:29 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. that is what my husband said... |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:33 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. There is definitely a "dance" |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:46 PM Response to Reply #14 |
30. Oh yeah, they definitely deserve each other, if that's the case... |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
2. just delete them, don't even write back; have ZERO contact |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. that is what I have been doing so I will continue to do that |
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creeker (146 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:24 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. I have a bipolar daughter(23) who refuses help |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. God bless you and keep you strong. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:33 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Indeed |
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creeker (146 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-30-05 09:49 PM Response to Reply #18 |
39. thank you and may the gods smile apon you |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #10 |
22. I meant to add that is not at all unusual, that help is refused |
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creeker (146 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-30-05 09:46 PM Response to Reply #22 |
38. thanks for the support----so many of the things described here hit home |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-30-05 09:53 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Welcome to DU, creeker! |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #2 |
13. don't diss the bipolar |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:31 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I am not dissing at all; problem is you NEVER know when they |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. So cross the street |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:36 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. No Ellen, that is not the way I am thinking about it |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Thank you |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
4. I dated a bipolar...walk away. Trust me. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:17 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. yes, you give, give, give and they take, take, take |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:19 PM Response to Original message |
7. if she's bipolar, she needed some meds more than counseling |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:24 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. meds don't always work for bipolar |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:35 PM Response to Reply #11 |
23. if she were really facing up to her troubles, yeah i agree |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
9. delete, ignore, block, do not get in contact w. this person again |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
12. It's like avoiding eye contact with a creepy guy at the bar: |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
15. Is the bipolar-bashing strictly necessary? |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. I do not mean to bash bi-polar people.... |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:36 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. Yes she will |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:41 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. I begged her to get help. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 07:29 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. It's clear-cut...don't |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. i didn't think you did, but i think alot of the responders are |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 06:00 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. You're not bashing bi-polar people... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:38 PM Response to Reply #15 |
28. don't mean to bash and i apologize |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 07:25 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. thank you pitohui |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
31. I am no psychiatrist but this is why I think my friend may be bi-polar |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 07:30 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. Sounds pretty classic |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
36. A grammar note |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-29-05 08:56 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. you are correct...I type fast and think later... |
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masshole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-30-05 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
41. no contact for three years? |
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Metta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-30-05 11:53 PM Response to Original message |
42. All of your concerns would make a perfect conversation. |
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