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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 07:55 AM
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1 In 10 Men Has Paid For Sex
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ONE British man in 11 has paid for sex, according to a study that appears today in Sexually Transmitted Infections, a specialist journal.

The findings are based on two national surveys on sexual habits, conducted among 6000 British men aged 16-44 in 1990 and among 4700 in 2000.

In 1990, 5.6 per cent of the men said they had paid for sex at some point during their lives, with 2 per cent saying they had done this within the previous five years, and 0.5 per cent within the previous year.

A decade later, the comparable figures were nearly double.

In 2000, almost 9 per cent of men said they had paid for sex, while 4.2 per cent said they had done so in the past five years, and 1.3 per cent in the previous year.

Those who in 2000 said they had paid for sex within the previous five years were typically aged between 25 and 34, were single and living in London.

"A significant proportion of men in Britain pay women for sex, and ... this proportion is increasing," say the authors, led by Helen Ward, an epidemiologist at Imperial College London.
The 2000 survey also found that a third of respondents had had 10 or more sexual partners within the previous five years. But only 15 per cent said they had had a test for the AIDS virus.

http://www.news.com.au/story/0,10117,17424361-13762,00.html
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Lochloosa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 08:01 AM
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1. Every man has paid for sex....and paid...and paid....and paid...
Edited on Thu Dec-01-05 08:01 AM by Lochloosa
:sarcasm: (please notice the sarcasm...please)
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PowerToThePeople Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 08:08 AM
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2. No need for sarcasm.
All men have paid, but imo the lesser of the painful ways of paying is cash. A lot easier on a person to empty a pocket-book than empty a heart.
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ForrestGump Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 09:53 AM
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3. Only one in ten men ever get married?
I would have thought the percentage higher than that.

I, personally, paid the price tenfold during my marriage, so perhaps people like me skew the stats.
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Tari Donating Member (215 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 10:53 AM
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4. The study also concluded that only 1 in 10 women have been paid
for sex. The other 9 got screwed.
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Yavin4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 11:05 AM
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5. The Other 9 Are Lying Their Asses Off
All men pay for sex. All men do.
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 11:06 AM
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6. do you have change for a $50?
:rofl:
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 11:07 AM
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7. I just borrow it.
For a little while.

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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 11:26 AM
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8. It said one in eleven...
I guess they other ten know how to make a hormone.

Who do you make a hormone?

Don't pay her!
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chrisau214 Donating Member (205 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:40 PM
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9. Wrong!
You pay her an exta twenty.


Chris
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:42 PM
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10. I've paid for lap dances...
does that count?
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:47 PM
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11. Nope
Lap dances can be very sexy, but they're not sex.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:52 PM
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12. depends on the lap dance...
one of my husband's coworkers went to some famous strip club in Atlanta for a party during a convention. He was with all the "executives"...turns out one of the fellows paid for a lap dance that was far more than a lap dance.

Want to know the "funny" part? The fellow was so upset after the lap dance because only after it was done did he notice that he had had...unprotected sex with the woman....and he spent the rest of the convention worrying about whether he had caught the clap...

...my husband told me this story and told me that he didn't believe that fellow didn't know what was happening....(my husband did not attend the convention but was told the story as a result of some problems at the office due to the hanky panky at the convention)....
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:58 PM
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13. He didn't notice?
:wow:
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 01:24 PM
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16. I don't believe that for an instant and neither did my husband
but that was this guy's claim...

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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 01:27 PM
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17. As if by magic, my pants got undone
and suddenly :wow: there it was!

And then he woke up. :eyes:
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 03:10 PM
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22. I don't believe that one, either
I noticed every little brush of the hair, skin & more with each lap dance. of course, I was going through a divorce at the time, so it might have heightened my awareness.
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MsAnthropy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:59 PM
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14. That's in Britain. Here it's probably 9 in 10.
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 04:08 PM
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26. Well, I'm The Other One, Then.
It would never occur to me to do that, and it never has.
The Professor
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 12:59 PM
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15. Next survey: How many men have been paid to have sex?
That one sounds more interesting.
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AntiCoup2K4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 03:52 PM
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25. Maybe you should post that question on GannonGuckert's blog?
or more specifically "How many men (whose names we would know) have paid him for sex?"
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 01:29 PM
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18. Dude, ~Everyone~ pays for sex.
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baby_mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 02:51 PM
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19. *I * Haven't! Oh, wiat, I see what you mean...

ProfOUND, dude.
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Loonman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 03:00 PM
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20. You don't pay for the sex
You pay for the prostitute to leave when it's done.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 03:02 PM
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21. That....
Is prophetic.....
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Loonman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 04:16 PM
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27. Well, women like to talk and cuddle and .........
Sometimes you just want to get some sleep, or watch Letterman.
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Nicholas D Wolfwood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 03:48 PM
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23. Yoda? Is that you?
Edited on Thu Dec-01-05 03:48 PM by Vash the Stampede
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 03:51 PM
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24. Why doesn't this surprise me
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 04:18 PM
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28. Do I have to do my whore rant again?
Some people do the job because they love it (like me), some people do it because it's easy money, some do it because they have no other options.

I think one in ten is a bit small - the one thing you can count on is that people lie on sex surveys. So I think it's a little higher than that. But even so... so what? I've paid for sex, I've been paid for sex. Yeah?

Not everyone has the time to put into meeting the person of their dreams. Some are handicapped in some way and not viewed as viable sex partners. Some people's desires are not being met by their SO. Should they live a life with no erotic connection to another human being? No.

The scary thing about that article is not the prostitution, but the attitude toward STDs.

Khash.
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 04:23 PM
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29. Your going to pay for it regardless.
What can I say???
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-01-05 04:43 PM
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30. Well, if those Brit guys would bathe more frequently...
Redstone
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