I could really use a hug or a kind word.

[Left Is Write]

They're going to put my baby under at the hospital tomorrow.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x4242738

[GOPisEvil]

1. Sure, have a hug.

:hug: Everything will be just fine, I'm sure. I went under at age 3, and came through just fine. :hug:

[Lavender Brown]

2. I can see why you would be stressed.

I'm sure your little guy will be fine. :hug:

[Tafiti]

3. Here you go.

:hug:

Hope everything goes well, I'm sure he'll be fine. And, I'd say you might be stress eating a little, but that's perfectly normal, and I'd hardly say you're over-doing it. :)

[WindRavenX]

4. get a teddy bear or something

That way you can squeeze it whenever you get stressed. I do this around finals, and it really helps calm me down.

:hug: to you and your kiddo- he'll be fine!

[flvegan]

5. Well, here you go...

Even at 3, I'm sure your baby will be just fine. That doesn't really help, cuz what do I know, right?

However, if you thought anything bad would come of this, you'd put the kybosh on this procedure mucho pronto, right?

So, what is the surgery? Is it some exotic, odd, one in a million procedures, or is it a "common" type of thing? How many of these has this (I assume dentist) performed?

Besides, I'm sure that the person performing the procedure KNOWS you'll kick his/her ass if they muck up your little one.

It'll all be okay. But, here's a hug anyway, because, well...just because.
:hug: :hug: :hug:

[DainBramaged]

6. I would bring something that smells like your baby

and when it becomes difficult, hold it so you know who belongs in it. Today's outfit, the blanket, their hat. Keep it close and everything will be ok.

[nini]

7. Here you go.... I know how you feel

my son went under at 5 and it was scary though minor.


:hug: Sending good vibes.

[Radio_Lady]

17. Big hugs, Left is Write. I've never heard of oral surgery at this age.

Just curious about what they will be doing. We've had some DU exchanges before this but can't recall the details... sorry.

I know how you feel. My son had small tubes placed in his ear drums when he was about two years old -- one of the first children to have this procedure done in 1971. A French doctor working at the Massachusetts Eye and Ear infirmary was introducing the procedure here in the US. My son needed the drainage that so he could hear better, have less ear infections and learn to talk. The procedure took just a few minutes and he was back in my arms. I took him home and never forgot the wide-eyed look he gave me when I spoke to him or turned on the TV set. He looked as if he was hearing for the very first time.

Same child also had to have the ureter in his penis widened. I think the procedure is called a meatotomy or something like that. That was done when he was 4 years old -- overnight in the hospital.

He's now 37 years old, married, with two sons of his own, and, of course, he doesn't remember either procedure. How time flies.

Your little boy will be fine. How lucky you are that you can get him the dental care he needs.

Let us know how things go.

In peace,

Radio_Lady

[nini]

18. that's the procedure my son had in '82

though minor it was scary having him have to go under.

I agree this young guy will be fine, but we know it's not that easy to not worry.

[Left Is Write]

25. He will be having at least one extraction, possibly two.

He will be getting two or three crowns, and the dentist will also fill several cavities.

The trouble started when he fell onto his wooden toy box and knocked out most of a front tooth some months back. That tooth became infected, and some significant decay was discovered in his four top front teeth. Another tooth broke part way also; that's the one that is questionable as to whether he'll have an extraction or another crown.

I've felt guilty for months that his dental issues are somehow my fault, though the dentist assured me it's no one's fault. He'll have a silver smile for a while, until his permanent teeth come in.

On top of nerves over the anesthesia, I feel awful for my little guy.

I really appreciate the hugs from everyone. It does help.

[Radio_Lady]

26. Here's our family's story -- about broken tooth troubles.

My stepgrandson was about eight years old when his mother took him sledding in a Boston park.

To make a long story short, he careened his sled right into an upright pole which was partially covered with tires, but some metal exposed.

Luckily, he didn't have any facial damage and he didn't snap his neck and die!

But he broke off BOTH PERMANENT CENTRAL INCISORS, as well as three or four other teeth which could not be saved. Essentially, he was toothless in the front of his mouth at age eight.

He's been wearing different removable appliances to replace his teeth. He's 16 now and approaching the age when dentists will try some implants to anchor artificial teeth.

When it happened, we were totally shocked at the accident. His mother blamed herself, and so did his father (they were either divorcing or already divorced at the time). But I told them, "It's only teeth -- you were lucky it wasn't worse. He could have died."

He's a great kid and very upbeat. Not the best student, however -- I think he wants to be an actor or get involved with movie production. Everybody has something to overcome in this life. That's what life is all about -- these challenges.

In peace,

Radio_Lady

[DeposeTheBoyKing]

8. Everything will be all right. Your baby is in good hands.

:hug: :pals:

[southlandshari]

9. Oh sweetie....

Here - have them all. And I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!!!

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[crispini]

10. ((( hug )))

I'm sure it'll be ok.

[Wapsie B]

11. Hugs and a trainload of good karma

headed your way. :hug:

[yvr girl]

12. I'm sure your baby is going to be just fine

And look on the bright side, he's too young to remember the discomfort of recovery for too long.

[johnnie]

13. Awww

Here ya go :hug:

It will be ok. :)

[alarimer]

14. I feel for you

You just reminded me that my nephew (who is 7) is having his gall baldder out tomorrow. I am sure everything will be fine, both for your kid and my nephew.

[Texasgal]

15. Awww...

I understand.

Things will be fine and you are an exceptional Mother for caring the way that you do.

Keep us posted!

[soleft]

16. My son was in the hospital when he was 18 months old

he'll be 16 in two weeks, so it was a long time ago, but I can still remember how stressful it was. Hope all goes well and he's bouncing on your lap soon!

[Misunderestimator]

19. Absolutely....

:hug:

[Clintmax]

20. HUGS to you, Left!

:hug::hug::hug:
Everything is going to be JUST fine!

[GaYellowDawg]

21. ALL the best to your child and you!!

Whatever you'd like - good wishes or vibes or prayers - I send it your way!!

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[MadAsHellNewYorker]

22. awww

Hugs LiW :hug:

youll get through it!

[Omphaloskepsis]

23. I wouldn't worry about it..

I was put under a general anesthetic when I was three and also at the age of four. And I also had some really serious work done on me both times. I had a hernia at 3 and a tumor removed from my larynx at 4.

:hug: I'm sure things will be fine.. But, I do understand your stress. Best wishes.

[WCGreen]

24. For what it's worth....

I have been under several times......

And I came out all right....

[khashka]

27. If you need a hug, baby

You've got one. It's a distressful situation.

Khash

[CaliforniaPeggy]

28. My dear Left Is Write......

Biggo hugs to a brave and lovely mom: you......

I'm sure he'll be fine...but of course you can't avoid worrying...

Let us know how it all works out, OK?


:grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug:

[eyepaddle]

29. You've got it LiW aka "space age housewife"

:hug:

I had oral surgery when I was 18. (They shortened my lower jaw) It didn't look too good after I came out (my face was kinda swollen) but there was very little pain. In all honesty that surgery was VERY worth it.

Here's one for the little guy too :hug:

[LeftyMom]

30. A hug you get then!

:hug: I'd be scared out of my mind too, even if it was a minor thing. He'll be okay.

[Reciprocity]

31. Here you go sweetie and a big sloppy kiss on the cheek. ((( hug )))

[RFKHumphreyObama]

32. My parents had to undergo this many times with me

Thoughts, prayers, best wishes and positive vibes to both you and your baby :hug: :hug: :loveya:

[TheProphetess]

33. Many good vibes are coming your way

May your son be safe and heal very quickly.
:hug:

[donheld]

34. I wish you all the best

:hug:

[progmom]

35. oh....

:hug:

You will be in my thoughts.

[NMMNG]

36. Big hugs for you LIW

:grouphug:


And here's one for the little one . I hope all goes well with the procedure.

[newyawker99]

37. .....

:hug:

[KitchenWitch]

38. Aw man!

I am sending well wishes to your baby and your family!

:hug:

[DanCa]

39. Hugs -

I dont want to push religion but if it's okay may i say a prayer?
I am sending lots of white light and positive energy your way regardless. Peace to you this morning. :hug:

[Mutley]

40. He'll be okay.

:hug:

Try not to stress too much. You will be his first thought when he wakes up.

[Debbi801]

41. You and your little guy are in my thoughts today...

:hug: :pals: :hug:

Debbi

[MissMillie]

42. It will be fine

I promise. The doctors will do their best to make a good outcome, and your little one will be just fine.

:hug: But I know that it can be very stressful--relinquishing control for even just a little bit.

[Shell Beau]

43. Aww, I know it must be agony and stressful for you!!

I just know all will be okay!! :hug:

[billyskank]

44. As you ask

so shall you receive. :hug:

[In_The_Wind]

45. My good wishes are with you Left Is Write ...

:hug:

[anarch]

46. hugs and positive vibes...

I went through a (sort of, not quite really, but sort of) similar situation recently involving surgery and a loved one, and I know how scary it is...just hang in there, it'll be OK. Here's to a speedy recovery!

:hug:

[LaraMN]

47. Ohhhh, BTDT!

My little guy has to have surgery every so often to have his very small ear canals cleared. The first time I had to send him in (last year, when he was around 1 1/2,) I was SO scared. I wasn't worried about the surgery, but the whole idea of him being anesthetized terrified me. I had to wait alone in the parent's area, but luckily there was a couple with a daughter in surgery waiting there as well. I had a good chat with them and it helped pass the time. It will be OK! Hang in there. BIG hugs to you, sweetie! It'll be over before you know it.:pals:

[Beausoir]

48. OH! I know how worried you must be.

I've been there before. It really gets the heart rate up.

He'll be fine. Just breathe deep. He'll be fine.

[Taverner]

49. Awwww hugs Liw

Everything will be OK

:hug:

[Beware the Beast Man]

50. Of course!

:hug:

I'm sure he'll do great!

[RedCloud]

51. Cheer up! All will be fine.

The healthier your child is in general, the healthier they will be during surgery.

My Little Cloud went in for an inguinal when he was but 2. It was the first time he was away from me. I fought back the rain clouds when he said, "Bye daddy."

Not only did I worry for hours, but when he got out, he was so under. Then he got up and despite the doctor saying he could not walk for hours, Little Cloud stood up, buckled at the knees and proudly, yet hobbled, walked down the hall way in miraculous recovery time. Again I fought back the rain clouds, this time of amazement.

Little people teach us that they can be strong.

[VelmaD]

52. It will be fine

Let us know how it goes. :hug:

[RandomKoolzip]

53. Holy cow....that's awful.

I'm so sorry for you. Here ya go:

:hug:

[Reciprocity]

54. How are you doing today hun?

[Left Is Write]

56. Here is an update post...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x4248612

I still don't feel like myself, which I think is odd. I feel like my reaction is way out of proportion to the actual experience.

I finally got a good look at my son's mouth...that empty row where his four top front teeth were looks so strange. He seems to be okay for now (two yogurts, one fudgesicle, and a glass of milk later), but he will probably be sore when his medication wears off. My husband took tomorrow off also, and we plan to spend a quiet day with the kids.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

67. Oh my gosh...I'm so sorry I missed this yesterday!

What a nerve-wracking experience for all of you!

I hope he continues to recover without incident, and that his adult teeth come through well.

:hug::hug::hug:

[Zomby Woof]

55. You got it

:hug: My best for the little one.

And for you too.

[Left Is Write]

57. Thank you all very much for your kindness.

The generosity of spirit here never fails to touch me, and for that I'm thankful.

[RetroLounge]

58. Here's a hug for you...

We went thru this with both kids, once for oral surgury, and once for ear tubes. I was worried sick, and all turned out just fine.

:hug:

RL

[tallahasseedem]

59. Hugs!

My son is three as well. I can only imagine how freaked out you must be. You and your son will be in my thoughts. Let us know how everything went.

:hug:

[tallahasseedem]

60. Whoops!

I didn't see your post! I am so glad everything went okay. If you dont mind me asking why it was that they had to remove his teeth? (sorry, the former Dental Hygienist in me cant help but ask)

[Left Is Write]

63. To put it bluntly, they were rotting.

That sounds so ugly, and it hurts me even to say it. You could see the decay eating away at them. It all started when he fell on his wooden toybox a few months ago and snapped off one of his front teeth up to the gum. It subsequently got infected, and apparently the infection sped up the decay in his teeth.

Lucky genetics gave him super soft teeth.

Fortunately for him, his bottom teeth are much healthier. We are hopeful that the permanent teeth coming in will be a good fresh start for him.

I have been wracked with guilt, though our dentist (a pediatric specialist) has assured me that this was not the result of anything we did or did not do.

[tallahasseedem]

64. Dont feel guilty!

I had super soft teeth when I was little as well. My daughter has already had two little cavities and I scrub those suckers all the time! Genetics can be a b****! Give the little one lots of tlc, and if anyone asks about what happened tell them he is an avid hockey player and took a puck to the mouth! :D

[ignatius 2]

61. Hugs to you and your son. Best wishes to you both and I am sure

everything will be just fine. Take deep breaths and think peace and love..that usually calms me.

[YellowRubberDuckie]

62. How about a smile?

BULLY FACE!!!
This always makes me squishy. :pals:

[no name no slogan]

65. Here you go

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
have five :)

[Penndems]

66. Mega-hugs to you Left . . .

I'll keep you, your family and the little one in my thoughts and prayers.

O8) :hug: