In high school or college, were you the heartbreaker or heartbreakee?

[Shell Beau]

I dated my hubby most of that time, but as for all the other guys I dated, I hate to say that I broke all of their hearts! :( Oh well, I could have been the one getting broken up with!

[ZombieNixon]

1. Always the heartbreakee!

I'm too nice to just dump a girl. I always have to let her down gently. As a result, she was always the one doing the breaking-up.

[GrpCaptMandrake]

2. In H/S, neither

I was the "friend."

Ack! Kaff! God was that awful!

Thus, in college, I was the rake, the rogue, the devil-may-care.

Now I'm the Daddy.

[Shell Beau]

3. It all works out!

:)

[GrpCaptMandrake]

12. "Ain't It Funny How It All Works Out . .

"I guess we are the people
Our parents warned us about."

J. Buffett, former free spirit, turned corporatist sell-out

[RandomKoolzip]

4. I was a dork with a huge record collection.

So naturally I fell into the latter category.

[last_texas_dem]

36. Hey, I was a dork with a huge record collection, too!

I only had one girlfriend in high school and we didn't break up until college, and I was the heartbreakee in that one.

I've since withdrawn from that whole game until an undetermined future date.

[Cannikin]

5. I was in the closet.....so I was kind of neutral

[Shell Beau]

6. What age did you come out?

[Cannikin]

8. I think I was 19 when the closet doors came off the hinges

[Shell Beau]

9. Ha ha ha!! Love the pic!

[WCGreen]

7. Both, about even.....

[HEAVYHEART]

10. Heartbreakee

I was a dork and nobody liked me, so my heart was broken ALOT. Then I had a drastic make-over, in and out, etc. I was hot after the make-over and became a slut. I broke alot of hearts, sadly. I've sort of grown up, lol, and I'm in love for the first time. Been with my bf for 5 years and I'm truly in love for the first time in my life..

[VelmaD]

11. Always the heartbreakee...

and still am. *sigh*

[Shell Beau]

13. Aw,

:hug:

[billyskank]

14. So have you never had your heart broken?

Speaking as a terminal heartbreakee... :(

[Shell Beau]

16. I've had some heartaches before, sure, who hasn't?

:)

[Patiod]

15. Both

The cool fraternity boys I chased broke my heart, but I had a little fan club of nerds who followed me around, hoping I'd decide that me being 6" taller didn't matter.

Ended up with a giant weightlifter nerd.

[Fox Mulder]

17. Neither.

I never dated in high school.

Hell, I never had my first real girlfriend until after my freshman year in college a few years back. :mad:

[halobeam]

18. I was the heartbreaker, but that was then....

sometimes I wish it had been the other way around. I might've been better at coping with heartbreak as an adult.

Who knows.

[Shell Beau]

19. I don't think it is ever easy coping with heartbreak!

:hug:

[RetroLounge]

20. Alas, I was both...

but only remember being heartbroken.

RL

[tigereye]

21. I used to dump em the minute I thought they were interested

in someone else!

so I guess both and neither! Then I grew up and got a spine.

[youthere]

22. Heartbreakee...every damn time.

:cry:

[ghostsofgiants]

23. I tend to be neither

x(

[El Fuego]

24. Both

I was the heartbreaker many times, but when I finally got my heart broke, it was MAJOR.

[MissMillie]

25. I'm always the one who gets their heart broken

Probably why I so rarely give anyone a chance anymore.

[JimmyJazz]

26. I didn't date. I was pretty much of a non-entity in high school.

I know that seems hard to believe since I'm so loud and obnoxious now, but it's true.

[no name no slogan]

27. Heartbreakee

in fact, I've only broken it off with one person in my entire life. I didn't date much in HS, but I was always the one left holding the flowers standing in the rain as my date drove off with another guy.

[Shell Beau]

28. Aw, but look at you now!

That little hot red head!!!! ;)

[no name no slogan]

30. I am very lucky

and my plane leaves in 4 1/2 hours!!!! (but who's counting?) :silly:

[Shell Beau]

31. I remember the only 9 hours post!! Have fun!!

:)

[no name no slogan]

34. Thanks!

We'll have four whole days together. And I can hardly wait!

[Shell Beau]

38. Are y'all an "official" couple or more casual?

[no name no slogan]

41. We're "official"

we call ourselves boyfriend/girlfriend, "significant other" or whatever the terminology is these days. And we're both quite happy!

[jane_pippin]

29. Heartbreakee, always. It SUCKED. Plus,

I still see one of them all the time, and I'm still sort of friends with another one who just informed me he's dating some chick I went to high school with--"haha, isn't that a coincidence". :puke:

(I'm not bitter, but I did need to vent for a sec. Thanks.)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

32. both

[SarahB]

33. I have almost always been the heartbreaker.

Ultimately, usually it was me, BUT there were times. :(

[GreenPartyVoter]

35. I kept breaking hubby's heart, but he got me a time or two as well

Glad that is all over with. Being married is SO much better than high school dating. *g*

[Shell Beau]

37. I hear ya! My hubby and I would break up with each

other occasionally over silly things!! I am glad we grew up!

[GreenPartyVoter]

39. Not that we don't still have stupid fights over stuff. just that we ride

it out. *g*

[Shell Beau]

40. Yep!! My hubby and I don't fight about anything major!

As a matter of fact, we don't really fight at all, but when we do, it is over the silliest thing in the world!

[William Bloode]

42. In high school i was a god.

No kidding. I was not in the popular clique per sey, i was known as the big bad ass rebel. Being very tall, with long dark hair and ice blue eyes did not hurt either ;) Anyway i also had the bad boy image down pat as well. Along with that image i had constructed this whole "love is for suckers" attitude. This attitude allowed me to dump the ladies and move on at will.

I managed to avoid any heartache in high school. After high school though, out in the real world i got my old heart torn to shreds a time or two. After which i had a much wiser view on relationships. This new found appreciation of romance and all things romantic allowed me to cultivate a wonderful healthy marriage of which i have been a loving member for 12yrs now.

[GrpCaptMandrake]

44. Ha-ha

He said "loving member." :spray:

[LibDemAlways]

43. Always on the receiving end of heartbreak.

Complete non-entity in high school. Forever having a crush on some unattainable "popular" type who didn't even know I existed.