Married, Single, Boyfriend, Girlfriend?

[Shell Beau]

What is your status?

[Misunderestimator]

1. Um... none of the above...

How about serious relationship, unable to get married?

Or just serious relationship even. :hi:

[Shell Beau]

3. Oops didn't mean to leave that one off!

[Misunderestimator]

7. Tanks

:patriot:

[Shell Beau]

9. But of course!

:hi:

[sundog]

57. tanks? with big wheels?

:eyes:

[Misunderestimator]

59. pffft

:eyes:

[Shell Beau]

60. I caught that but I didn't want to correct you b/c I knew what you meant!

:7

[Misunderestimator]

63. I meant it the way I spelled it.... sheesh

:eyes: tanks... I guess it doesn't translate well. :D

[Shell Beau]

65. Hence the patriot smilie!!

Sometimes it takes me a while! :silly:

[Misunderestimator]

68. Nah... that was unrelated...

I can see that I should try babytalk ("tanks") anymore... :)

[Shell Beau]

69. Well someone else said "tanks" below instead of

thanks. I am missing out some clique thingy? :silly:

[Misunderestimator]

70. No, just my thing.... apparently I'm missing something too...

:silly:

[Shell Beau]

71. Looks like you are missing the "h" as is fudge stripe cookays! Ha!!

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=105&topic_id=3638858&mesg_id=3639502

:crazy: :silly:

[Misunderestimator]

72. See? Fudge stripe cookays speaks my language.... Tanks!

[sundog]

64. i couldn't resist

:eyes:

[SCDem]

2. I'm both

in the process of getting a divorce - takes a year where I live - and single and loving it!

[Shell Beau]

4. I ran out of options!! But glad you are happy!

[no name no slogan]

16. Me too!

fighting over the stuff as we speak. Was together for ten years, married for nine. But I am REALLY enjoying being single again! :hi:

[SCDem]

30. Hi there

Together for 5 and married for 2 1/2. I think after the light goes on in your head about all the crap that you've been living through there is no turning it off. And that's a good thing!

Enjoy being single :)

[SarahB]

61. I hear you on the light.

I tend to be a person who puts a lot into someone I love (and gives them a lot of chances), but if they ultimately treat me bad enough for long enough, once that light clicks on there's no going back. Good thing too. :thumbsup:

[arwalden]

5. Am I Married? I Consider Myself Married, But I'm Not Legally Married...

... I can't get legally married in Maryland. I don't know how to respond to the poll.

[Shell Beau]

10. Well there is a serious relationship option or

hell just say you are married if that is how you feel about your relationship. Screw the stupid law!

[arwalden]

22. Yeah!!

Screw the laws! Thanks! :-)

[ceile]

6. Serious relationship....

now, where's that G**D*** ring!!

[Shell Beau]

11. Sometimes it takes time.

My hubby and I were highschool sweethearts and started dating when I was 15. We got married when I was 23. I know that is still young, but after 8 years together, it was about time.

[ceile]

37. I'm really in no hurry....

He's the one with a timetable and he's only 33. I find it odd...

[Shell Beau]

66. Well good luck!

[Trigger Hippie]

8. Single and loving it.

I'm no fan of dating or relationships.

[Shell Beau]

13. Maybe one day? Or not, whatever makes you happy!

[Trigger Hippie]

20. Who knows?

I'm not ruling anything out. But one thing I've learned is to never have any expectations about anything. I think, unlike some people who feel they're entitled to a relationship, a relationship is "definitely" in my future. :)

[MissMillie]

12. How is it possible that I have been left to linger on the vine this long?

I mean really.....

[Shell Beau]

14. You just got ripe for the picking.

;)

[no name no slogan]

15. In the middle of a divorce

she initiated it. However, I have been on a few dates in the last couple months with a few very intelligent, beautiful women! Starting to dig this single life again!!! :D

[Shell Beau]

18. Good for you! Be happy and get out there and have fun!

[Sugar Smack]

19. I wish you well, dearest.

You're a very handsome guy, and you seem to have made a LOT of friends and admirers on that kitty thread.

[Trigger Hippie]

23. Yes, have fun,

:hug:

[no name no slogan]

24. You are so sweet!

Thanks for the encouraging words! I have not been this optimistic about my life in a decade. Every cloud has a silver lining, indeed! :bounce:

[Sugar Smack]

27. Well, consider me an admirer

because the underlying thread was a real tribute to your tenacity, sensitivity, and affection. If you go back and read it, I'll bet you see 10 or so new women crushing at your heels.

[no name no slogan]

29. now I'm blushing!

:blush: :blush: :blush:
My ex- was very emotionally abusive in many respects-- I could never live up to her standards, so I beat myself up and really began to feel like a loser. I'm not used to all the positive words. You are a saint. Thank you, you've made my day!
:loveya:

[fudge stripe cookays]

33. Sugar Smack

is a helluva gal. And YOU are a helluva guy!

There. A little more for your happy day fund!
FSC :hi: NNNS!

[no name no slogan]

39. Hey FSC!!!

How's things? :hi: Good to hear from you!
Garsh, any more positive strokes today and I'll explode! :D

[Sugar Smack]

49. Isn't she great?

She just made my day. FSC is fun and sweet, and I'm told she knows how to throw a party by people who should know.

[no name no slogan]

51. Oh, she does!

Speaking from personal experience here, she's one of the funnest people I've ever met! She was in town for the MN DU June Meetup and made it very memorable! :D

[Sugar Smack]

67. Here-

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=105&topic_id=3628071

a gift to you from us. (and you, of course)

[no name no slogan]

76. Thanks!

bookmarked :D

[In_The_Wind]

47. there's a lot to be said for freedom

it's great to hear that you're getting out and doing things again:thumbsup:

[GOPisEvil]

17. Single and mostly loving it.

I get attacks of the lonelies from time to time.

[MissMillie]

21. I could cure that....

*wink*

[GOPisEvil]

25. Hey now!

;)

[LeftPeopleFinishFirst]

26. SINGLE (and not enjoying it)

hello boys :bounce:

[eyepaddle]

35. I'm much too far away to help in person, but I can give you

a DU :hug:

:)

[no name no slogan]

40. You're lucky I'm such an old fart

I'd tumble fer ya! :hi:

[gmoney]

87. You? At college?

One "hello boys" there, and you'll have them eating out of your hand...

[flamingyouth]

28. Very serious relationship.

[Parrcrow]

31. Insanely happy and married

1 month today!:hug:

[fudge stripe cookays]

36. Congrats, hon!

Me too!

Reprehensor and I are 5 years on Friday! (but 1 year cyberly together before that)

FSC

[no name no slogan]

50. Congrats!!!!

Wow, five years! That's GREAT! :hi:

[fudge stripe cookays]

55. Tanks!

:hi: Feels pretty great.

FSC

[Shell Beau]

38. Congrats to you!

[flamingyouth]

41. Congrats!

:hug:

[no name no slogan]

46. Many many happy returns!

Being a newlywed ROCKS!!! :hi:

[u4ic]

32. Recently out of a long term relationship

just moved out, so I haven't had much time to enjoy my 'singlehood' yet. It was amicable, and we still talk every day.

[swag]

34. Yes, No, Yes, Yes.

[Lady Effingbroke]

42. single and apathetic,

or just plain 'ol pathetic, depending on the day.

[bicentennial_baby]

43. it's complicated...

let's just say, i've got people. :D

[Shell Beau]

54. Sounds interesting!

:7

[bicentennial_baby]

56. oh, it is...

it most definitely is, in a good way. :toast:

[SarahB]

44. Single with a boyfriend.

Mutually exclusive with heavy duty serious potential. We both went through a divorce within the last year, but we both had some other experiences as well. Enough to know what we want and what we don't want. Everything fell into place enough within the last couple of months that I guess you'd say we both stopped looking elsewhere. So yep, I'm very much off the market with no plans on returning in the foreseeable future. After a lot of pain and confusion in the relationship arena within the past few years, he feels like my karma. I've never been with anyone who wanted exactly what I wanted with such an open, beautiful heart.

[Shell Beau]

48. Good for you! I can't imagine who you are in a relationship

with! ;-)

[SarahB]

52. And he's enthusiastic and demonstrative too!

Refreshing beyond refreshing in my life! It's nice to be with someone who is so happy to be with me in return and appreciates the love I have to offer (and gives it in return). :bounce:

I'm probably more wary and slow than he is on some level, but I've been pretty hurt before. Still though, it's clear now that I want NO ONE else. I want to say that.

[Shell Beau]

53. And from what I have seen, he feels the same way!

I wish the two of you luck and happiness!

[Pale Blue Dot]

78. Boy, I sure hope you're talking about me!

Because I'm absolutely crazy about you. I'm done looking. I want no one else, too.

:loveya:

[SarahB]

81. Of course, silly.

Nothing like a little morning sap to start off the day, huh? (Wow, you were flowing last night, sweet cheeks. When I go to your place, I'm going to find a shrine, aren't I? :scared:)

Of course, you know I'm quite content with your worship. :evilgrin:

[Pale Blue Dot]

82. So the shrine is a bad thing?

And I spent all that time trying to get a lock of your hair....

Good morning, my Liege. :loveya:

[SarahB]

83. Good morning.

I have to go to sleep soon, but not before a nice cup of decaf and a few moments of stalking you back. :D

[Pale Blue Dot]

84. Go to bed!

You're going to need to be well-rested later.... :evilgrin::loveya:

[scarlet_owl]

45. Happily married for nearly five years.

[Lisa0825]

58. Single, sometimes enjoying it, other times not...

it depends on the type of people I'm meeting at any given time. I seem to go through times when I have a lot of fun and meet some really interesting people, and other times when I think being the crazy cat lady sounds like a better idea! :rofl:

[Shell Beau]

62. I am happily married!

:loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya: :loveya:

[Up2Late]

73. You don't really have a category that fits for me...

I'm Single, but I wouldn't say "Loving it."

More like "not actively pursuing any relationships and not dwelling on it."

[Shell Beau]

86. Well I ran out of options on the poll! Sorry!

[BikeWriter]

74. Seriously divorced!

[ChaoticSilly]

75. Been single for about a year now

and loving every minute of it. After my last relationship, I don't think I ever want another. I'm just not cut out for it - besides any woman desprate enough to interested in me should probably seek therapy.
:silly:

[Shredr]

77. Domestic Partnered

As "married" as this country will let us be.

Oh, and happy!

[bigwillq]

79. Boyfriend of 4 years

It's our anniversary today! 4 years ago today 7/13/2001 we became a "couple"

[maddezmom]

80. married and happy for 16 yrs

but my hubby is always traveling. :D

[BreweryYardRat]

85. How about sorta-have a girlfriend?

It's not a serious relationship or even a semi-serious one, though. Might get there at some point, but not any time soon.

[Z_I_Peevey]

88. Freshly divorced and still a little stunned.

[greeneyedpookie]

89. Married for almost

a year. Celebrate our first year on the 24th this month. In September we will be together for 2 years. Met on the Yahoo Personal sight and I tell everyone that it was the best $24 I spent to e-mail my now hubby back!

GEP

:bounce: