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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:03 PM Original message |
I need advice from people wiser than I am. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
1. Sure...I'll help you verbally deck the bitch |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:06 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Ok. I'm going to edit the original post. |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:55 PM Response to Reply #4 |
38. My only suggestion |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #38 |
63. I'm not going to call her...but I know that I will run into her... |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 03:00 PM Response to Reply #63 |
68. That is what I was thinking |
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LastKnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
2. sure, hit us. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. Please see the update |
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DemBones DemBones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
3. Sure, tell us. The cast sounds interesting. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. Please see the edit update. |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
5. Is this the kid |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. Yes. It's the same kid. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
6. let's hear it |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. Please read the edit to the OP |
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achtung_circus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
7. We're all ears. nt |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. Please read the OP edit. |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
8. i'm ready to get pissed off on your behalf |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:31 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. I'm so pissed... |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
9. Full of shit here, but I'll make sympathetic noises |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:31 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. Sympathetic noises are appreciated. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 05:41 PM Response to Reply #16 |
77. There, there, dear Maddy |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:37 PM Response to Original message |
17. oh shit. your poor kid. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:39 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Well, I at least want to call the grandmother who loves us... |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:43 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. i would call the grandmother then |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Yes, that's the tone I want to take when I call. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. Well... after reading nsma's post below... I've changed my mind. |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:55 PM Response to Reply #23 |
39. you sound like a really great mom |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:59 PM Response to Reply #39 |
46. Thanks, progmom. |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
19. Maddy- |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:44 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. My eyes are welling with tears. |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. You're something else- |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
20. How well do you know the husband? |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:43 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I know him well, but I don't want to be perceived as intruding in their... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:45 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. You should.... I would... call the grandmother. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:50 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. I don't want to call the grandmother to tattle... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. Yeah, I get that. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:56 PM Response to Reply #35 |
41. Ok, I've absorbed the advice I've been given in this thread... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
24. OK, you're probably not going to like this BUT |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Even though this advice is the opposite of mine... |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:02 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. yeah but it would be a quiet discussion, not a confrontation |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:48 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. You are a one-of-a-kind person, NSMA. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:50 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. And that's a good compromise. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:05 PM Response to Reply #30 |
50. I really love you and your kid |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:53 PM Response to Reply #50 |
65. We love you, too, Teena. |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:50 PM Response to Reply #24 |
33. GREAT answer. n/t |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #24 |
36. I agree with you 100% |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:59 PM Response to Reply #36 |
45. Dealing with breaking attachments is part of life |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. My kid knows that I have good friends on DU. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. Don't block it on the kid's phone |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:16 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. i agree |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Ok, I unblocked it. I just chatted with him about what you said. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:23 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. OK, cool..as long as it comes from him |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:50 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. My son did text the mother yesterday... |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
34. "I want to call and talk to her" |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:52 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. I'm not going to call the old biddy who was sitting in the chair... |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. gotcha now and also as I was reading the previous posts |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
40. Maddy, walk away from the situation. If the subject comes up with the |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Thank you so much for this post. |
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sam sarrha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
44. LET IT GO..... let it all go away... dont get involved any more,.. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:04 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. I'm letting it go. |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
51. Maddy; |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:23 PM Response to Reply #51 |
58. Thank you, kesha. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
53. Oh boy, I'm sorry your son...and you...have to deal with this. |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. What's amazing is that my kid seems to have recovered from... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:33 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Actually it is because of this relationship, and the one with the |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:45 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Salin, I appreciate this advice. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:58 PM Response to Reply #62 |
67. Sounds like your son may have just had a very |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
55. I sense that I am missing something |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:37 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. She indeed did say that me buying him "gifts" was pressuring him. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. Two things leap out at me |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 03:06 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. Salin, that is what hurts so much. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 03:18 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. take more time away from it... |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
69. We went through something very similar |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 03:09 PM Response to Reply #69 |
71. Thanks for telling me about your experience. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
73. I am not sure what the problem is |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 04:37 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. You said that you are not comfortable with your mom or the friend's mom... |
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DemBones DemBones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. PLUS, you want to let the good grandmother know |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. Well, over the past several months... |
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LibraLiz1973 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-25-05 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
78. I feel for you |
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