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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:00 AM
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Why it is so hard for a man to just be friends with a woman?
why are they always trying to take advantage of me when what I so desperately need is strictly platonic companionship? why?!?! WHY?!?!?! :cry:
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mermaid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:01 AM
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1. Because
most men are selfish assholes who think only of their own needs.

Here's a :hug: girlfriend...seems like you need one!
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:04 AM
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3. did you even read my post? women will never stop trying things with me
when what I really want is a friendship :cry:
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Zuni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:15 AM
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19. man, the friend zone is hard to get into
most girls just want sex, sex, sex. They have one track minds
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:19 AM
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23. i hear you Zuni; it's not fair
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:06 AM
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6. Ouch
That doesn't leave much room for us men that aren't selfish assholes.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:19 AM
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22. Matter of perspective.
Men are under pressure both from biology and society to be in non-platonic relationships with women. Men feel like they are not really men if they do not have sexual relations with women. It is hard to ignore millions of years of evolution just because we now have the veneer of civilization.
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:02 AM
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2. .
Edited on Wed Jun-08-05 08:06 AM by Prag
.
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Kathleen04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:06 AM
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4. Sheesh
This question has been coming up more the last couple days....must be something in the drinking water... :shrug:

Not to devalue your concerns or anything, it just seems to be an issue with alot of people as of late..
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:11 AM
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10. l'm sorry that my timing isn't better
:eyes:
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Jessica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:06 AM
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5. So ...
you're telling me there's a chance ... :P
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:11 AM
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11. do you have a pulse?
:shrug:
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Jessica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:13 AM
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15. Not too choosy, huh?
:bounce:
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:14 AM
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17. i thought that WAS being choosy
:shrug:
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HereSince1628 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:07 AM
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7. Because
which gender in your post is THEY? It's one of those ambiguous antecedent problems unhelped by the information in your profile.
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:11 AM
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12. those lecherous women are THEY!
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HereSince1628 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:17 AM
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20. I thought that might be true...
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:09 AM
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8. lemme just smack you around a bit.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:09 AM
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9. Apparently, you need to make more lesbian friends.
:shrug: :D
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:12 AM
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13. what are you doing tonight?
:shrug: :7
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:13 AM
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14. Whatever it is... I promise not to take advantage of you.
:)
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:19 AM
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21. now THAT's a woman
:silly:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:14 AM
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16. Because...
Sometimes when a woman grows to like a man, it's difficult to not want to sleep with him. If he's as good looking as you, it's even worse.
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StopTheMorans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-08-05 08:14 AM
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18. SNAP!
:silly:
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