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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 12:43 AM
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Ten years married as of today,
and fifteen years together, for Mrs R. and me.

And still, after all these years, I remind myself every single day what a fortunate son of a bitch I am to have found her.

May you all find your true other half as well.

Redstone
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 12:45 AM
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1. Congratulations to both of you!!
May you always feel so fortunate!!


:hug:
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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 12:45 AM
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2. Congratulations to you both.
Hats off & many more spring anniversaries of the same.
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 12:46 AM
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3. Congrats to you both
I'm lucky, too; especially after reading that other thread tonight..
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K8-EEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 12:50 AM
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4. Congrats!
My hub and I just celebrated 19 years May 11. I feel the same as you...LUCKY LUCKY LUCKY!!

Hey how did we, being the horrid heathen lib-ruls that we are, get these "family values?" Maybe we don't listen to Rush enough...he's on #4!
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 12:56 AM
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5. A toast to the Redstones!
:toast:

May you have many more wonderful anniversaries together.

:toast:


A true other half. What a wonderful thing.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 01:01 AM
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6. My dear Redstone!
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU BOTH! Your children are so fortunate to be growing up in such a healthy family...

I am lucky as well; I found my true other half nearly 40 years ago...It is an incredible and wonderful thing. It is liberating in all the best senses of the word.

I wish all the best to you both for many more years to come!

:applause: :woohoo: :toast:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 01:21 AM
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8. Funny you mention the "healthy family;"
we have a neighbor down the street who repeatedly mentions the fact that, when he's driving to work in the morning, he frequently notices us having breakfast as a family (our house has many large windows visible from the street), and envies our togetherness as a family.

Not that I want to be the envy of anyone, but I consider that a compliment and an affirmation that we're doing something right.

Thank you again for your always kind words,

Redstone
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 01:01 AM
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7. Happy anniversary
I wish you both many more happy years together.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 01:24 AM
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9. Thank you, my dear; it means something special
to hear it from you.

Redstone
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Carla in Ca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:19 AM
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10. A very happy anniversary to you both
My husband and I just celebrated our 24th...we know exactly how you feel.
We wish you many, many more!:hi:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:20 AM
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11. one day I hope to be able to say the same thing
Well, not the exact same thing. You know what I mean.
Congrats! :hug:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:01 PM
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36. Hey, your "other half" doesn't have to be an
"opposite half," if you know what I mean and I thnk you do.

You'll do well. Trust me.

Redstone
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:23 AM
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12. Congratulations, my Friend. I wish you many more of the same.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:23 AM
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13. Three days ago
I passed what would have been my second wedding anniversary, had I not called the thing off.

I'm very glad I did it, and I am in hell because I did it.

Ah, dichotomy.

Congrats, you lucky son of a bitch. I am resigned to solitude. Maybe I'll build an ice fortress. :)

Robert Randolph.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:39 AM
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28. Wait. I was a member of DU then...
I don't remember you being engaged. I remember you taking a woman out for a very expensive dinner. Was that your former fiance?

Sorry about your loss.

You're a handsome, intelligent guy and some other woman will make you very happy, if you'll open your heart to the prospects.

:hug:
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 10:00 AM
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32. Hey...
Edited on Sat May-28-05 10:01 AM by VelmaD
:hug:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:10 PM
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41. When you get tothe point where you don't remember
Edited on Sat May-28-05 04:18 PM by Redstone
when the anniversary would have been, you'll be ready to go on to the next thing. If you don't mind an opinion.

Or, more likely, you're gonna get whomped upside the head by a woman you never even saw coming - in an unlikely circumstance such as the one when Mrs R. and I first met - you're just cruising along, utterly oblivious, and WHAMMO! She's there, and you're toast.

But happy toast.

Check in with me in a couple of years and tell me if I was wrong.

Hey, I finally got the CD on order. But I still say you can't makes those sounds with a pedal steel, even though he's doing it. Can't be done. That guy's some kind of Martian or something. Thanks for turning me on to him.

On edit: Three words of advice, if you don't mind hearing it: Black-haired waitresses. Always favored them until I met Mrs R. Hard to go wrong with a good one.

Redstone
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:17 PM
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43. William, a marriage and partnership can be the most joyful thing...
in the world, or it can tear your heart out. Let's hope you avoided the latter.
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Vektor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:23 AM
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14. Happy Anniversary, Redstone!
I'm approaching my fourth anniversary. I feel like I am the luckiest woman alive to have found my honey, too!
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BeTheChange Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:43 AM
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15. One month on Monday...
Congrats to you... As a newlywed, I like to hear as much advice from successful couples as possible..

What would be your most important piece of advice?

Or, you can just share all of it.. if you are willing :)
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:11 AM
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18. Can't guarantee this will work for you,
but if I could distill it into one word, it would be:

Listen.

Maybe more later, if I'm feeling philosophical tonight. Whatever is that we've managed to do right, it sure has worked.

We have indeed given the parts of the wedding vows about "better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness or health," a damned good workout without the marriage cracking.

Congrats on your new marriage. Enjoy!

Redstone
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fleabert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 02:46 AM
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16. congrats, tell her I think she's a lucky woman!
she better appreciate you!
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:03 PM
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39. She does appreciate me. More important, she
puts up with me. And what are the odds of me finding someone who would do that?

Thanks for the good words.

Redstone
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jarab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 03:06 AM
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17. Congratulations, Redstone !
...O...
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Lannes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:11 AM
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19. Congratulations
Hope you are doing something special!
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:12 AM
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20. Happy Aniversary!
She's lucky as well ya know! :D :toast:
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:13 AM
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21. Awww....congrats!
And best wishes for many more years together. :D
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:19 AM
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22. Nice goin', 'Stone!
10 for us in August:pals:
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intrepid_wanderer Donating Member (559 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:23 AM
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23. Most excellent
CONGRATULATIONS!!

Here's to 40 more happy years!

:bounce:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:22 PM
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44. Hey, 40 more years would be great! We'd be 92 then,
and we could celebrate by, I don't know...a little extra oatmeal, maybe?

Nah. Not us. We'll celebrate with an extra Margarita and a drive to Neptune in the convertible Rocket Car of the Future.

Thanks for the congrats.

Redstone
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:27 AM
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24. Congratualtions! I just celebrated the 9th anniversary, after
13 years total together.

I think it's wonderful and I echo your sentiment that everyone should find such contentment.

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Mrs_Beastman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:33 AM
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25. Congrats
Here is to ten more happy years:toast:
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:35 AM
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26. I look forward to the day when I can make this same post.
Congrats, Redstone. :toast:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:26 PM
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45. Let's shoot for seventeen concurrent conversations some day,
the one whose fingers wear out first loses!

You got yourself a pretty good situation going in the Red-Hot Romance department as well, from what I understand, and I'm glad you do.

Hang on to it. Ain't nothing better, not even a bacon cheeseburger.

Redstone
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:30 PM
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46. I dunno... not even a bacon cheeseburger?
I know what I've got. And I plan on hanging on. :)
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 11:55 PM
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53. Even with lettuce and tomatoes, and curly fries on the side.
Now, a cheesesteak hoagie, on the other hand...

Redstone
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cassandra uprising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:36 AM
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27. Wow that's great!
Let's see how many conversations we can how going at once!

:)

Seriously, Congratulations. Any pearls of wisdom to bestow?
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:49 AM
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29. Congrats, Red! She sounds like a lucky woman.
good for the both of you. :grouphug:
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Meshuga Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:56 AM
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30. Congrats and many more years to come!!!
:toast:
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:57 AM
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31. Happy Anniversary!
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 10:10 AM
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33. Happy Anniversary!
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 10:11 AM
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34. Congrats!
May you two enjoy many more wonderful years together! :)
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CornField Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 10:23 AM
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35. Happy Anniversary!
Congratulations to you both, Redstone.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:02 PM
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37. Congrats!
:)
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deadparrot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:03 PM
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38. Happy anniversary!
Best wishes. :)
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:04 PM
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40. Happy Anniversary, Mr and Mrs Redstone!
Congratulations and here's to many more happy years. :toast:
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mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:16 PM
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42. Congrats to both of you!
and here's to many more years of hapiness together. :party: :toast:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 04:51 PM
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47. Congratulations, Redstone.
You are indeed a lucky man. :)

To many more years: :toast: !
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VOX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 05:18 PM
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48. Bravo, Mr. and Mrs. Redstone!!!
Glad you found one another, and that your journey together is richer than ever!

All good wishes -- :toast:
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 05:31 PM
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49. Congrats, man.
:woohoo:

:toast:
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TBreeze Donating Member (393 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:08 PM
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50. Happy Anniversary!
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:09 PM
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51. Congratulations.
I hope I'm as fortunate as you someday.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:41 PM
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52. Congratulations!
I know you realize how fortunate you are to have found Mrs. R, a woman who knows and understands you so well. (And I assume, vice versa as well). I hope to find myself in such a relationship someday, and believe me I'm holding out for what I want. Happy Anniversary to the two of you. :hi:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-29-05 12:09 AM
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54. Damn, how cool is this?
I post an anniversary announcement, and get congratulatory messages from quite a few people, which is nice enough...

But the best part is that a significant number of them are from folks I''ve had very little interaction with; they're sending good words not because they know me, but just because they're happy to see a fellow DUer hit a pleasant milestone.

What a great crowd of people we have here. I like this place. I like it a lot.

Thanks, all. You guys are OK.

Redstone
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-29-05 12:11 AM
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55. That's the best part of being here, I think..
Deep down, despite our differences, we're all (hopefully) friends..
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-29-05 12:44 AM
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56. A good crowd. I've had some pretty vicious arguments
Edited on Sun May-29-05 12:44 AM by Redstone
with particular people about specific subjects, but they almost always are willing to find common ground on another subject about which we both DO agree.

As friends so, so I believe that friends they are, as you say.

Redstone
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