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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:43 PM Original message |
I think I upset my co-worker---now I am know as a "child-hater" |
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matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
1. tell her *I* think her kids are stupid |
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hvn_nbr_2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:42 PM Response to Reply #1 |
65. Tell her I think her mother's kids are stupid. n/t |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
2. Sounds like she's making a hostile workplace for you. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
3. Well, if her kids are stupid it's only because... |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
4. Put up a "Chuckie" poster, that'll scare 'em! |
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benburch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:45 PM Original message |
File a formal greivance for harassment |
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Psst_Im_Not_Here (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
5. I'd have to say |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
6. Practice this response..repeat it early and often |
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Blue in a Red State (639 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:37 PM Response to Reply #6 |
26. I prefer |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #26 |
41. a variant of that one: Now isn't that something. |
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Blue in a Red State (639 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:06 PM Response to Reply #41 |
52. That's even better! n/t |
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ronnykmarshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #6 |
32. You must be thinking of the same joke I am. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:16 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. You KNOW I am :) |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
8. Just as a general tip. |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:59 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. Yep. Religion, politics, and children. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:21 PM Response to Reply #15 |
36. Precisely--that's what DU is for! nt |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:41 PM Response to Reply #8 |
27. Right.. don't say anything if you can't say something good. |
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maxsolomon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
9. fuck em. you are right |
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Demit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
10. SHE sounds like the kindergartener. Just smile & say nothing. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
11. Point blank ask her why she chooses to lie about what you actually said |
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Gyre (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
12. I've got a kindergartener |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
13. Oh, Give. Me. A. Break. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
16. Thinking a kindergarten graduation ceremony is stupid is NOT |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:34 PM Response to Reply #16 |
24. Yeah, I should have thought about it |
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tjwash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:17 PM Response to Reply #16 |
35. Do what I do. |
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vduhr (481 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
17. I would go to her supervisor |
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tjwash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
18. Don't do anything, just pity her. She obviously has every ounce of her... |
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cestpaspossible (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
19. File a formal greivance with her boss. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #19 |
39. For goodness sake. The poster is not in kindergarten to go |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:50 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. I love your response. |
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cestpaspossible (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:22 PM Response to Reply #39 |
61. So you think malicious lies about a coworker are A-OK? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 11:00 PM Response to Reply #61 |
70. Malicious lies? Management to be concerned? |
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cestpaspossible (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-28-05 11:02 AM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Yeah malicious lies - this has nothing to do with 'disagreeing' |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
20. how nice |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
21. That'll happen right here on DU |
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GalleryGod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
22. Sounds like a Proctologist's DREAM to me! |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
23. Please, don't have lunch with her again. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
25. I say embrace it.. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
28. If it weren't for kindergarten graduations, helf of FreeRepublik |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
29. If it weren't for kindergarten graduations, helf of FreeRepublik |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
30. In "The Incredibles", Mr. Incredible makes that point. And he likes kids! |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
31. Tell her you don't think kids should be allowed in restaurants. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
33. She is "shaming" you. Don't let her. |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:54 PM Response to Reply #33 |
45. Yeah, she's done it before |
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cestpaspossible (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:24 PM Response to Reply #33 |
63. Exactly - it's not acceptable workplace behavior |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
37. Talk to HR about it |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:49 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Human resources? Aren't you taking it to the extreme? |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:02 PM Response to Reply #42 |
49. It's better to be proactive than reactive |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:14 PM Response to Reply #49 |
56. Like a secret police or what? |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:15 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. To be fair, we were not in the office |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:17 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Your co-worker seems like a person without the sense of humor. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:38 PM Response to Reply #58 |
64. Rene, I must have misunderstood |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 07:13 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. From your OP, though, it sounds like she continued it at the office. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
38. I must hate kids too then |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. I feel the same way |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
44. I thought it was really stupid when my son had a 4th grade |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
46. People do a lot of things I don't get |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:02 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Hey, now it's very cute to have a portrait of your kitty or doggy |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:12 PM Response to Reply #50 |
55. Well, I have to say that my cousins who actually do this |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:02 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. maybe but |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:15 PM Response to Reply #51 |
57. Probably not |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
47. Call her on her lies about you, |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
48. I think the Kindergarten and preschool graduations are kind of cute. |
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tjwash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
53. Graduations in general are stupid and a waste of time. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
54. Graduation for Kindergarten is stupid - so are kids, especially her niece |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
59. At least they aren't having a prom |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 06:22 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. That is so dumb!!! |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
66. kicking for me! |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
68. sometimes best thing is to just ignore it all. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
69. If somebody else enjoys something, it's always a good |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-28-05 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
72. Try apologizing. You hurt her feelings and she's acting out. |
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