Am I attractive?

[Longgrain]

And how important is attraction?

Especially if you've only seen someone in photos.

[mr_hat]

1. I think your forearms are a little beefy. Also,

red's not your color.

[Longgrain]

3. Funniest post I've read in a LONG time...

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

If you think the forearms are beefy, you should see my legs...

As for red, I've been thinking of shedding the red dress in favor of something more comfortable.

[elshiva]

2. You are attractive!

[Longgrain]

14. As are you, even tho I don't think I've ever seen you.

[elshiva]

16. Thanks!

Never seen me because there are no web cam pics of me. Don't have the technology...

[CaliforniaPeggy]

4. My dear Longgrain!

Of course you're attractive! What else did you expect from me, after all? You have a thoughtful, sensitive face...But what comes through from your posts is what a good person you are. And that is more important than physical good looks. The soul is what is important. I believe that you have a good soul.

For someone who is looking for a partner, attraction is important, but you don't need photos for that. It is possible to fall in love with words on a page.

I don't know; does this answer your question?

:blush:

[Longgrain]

5. I sure hope so, Damn I sure hope so...

All the hope I have in the world is in my words...

[CaliforniaPeggy]

6. I don't think you need to worry...

She's out there...and she's looking too. All you have to do is talk to her, listen to her and let your shyness drift away. Your words will work; I'm sure of it.

[Longgrain]

11. Thank you...

I'm always the shy, quiet man, sitting the dark corner, calmly sketching her portrait....UNTIL, another man comes along.

He whispers in her ear.

They agree to something.

She laughs, and leaves under his arm.

I sadly pack up my drawing things, tuck my sketch pad under my arm, and leave the bar.

I spend the rest of the night walking the streets.

She never sees the image I sketched of her...:-(

[all.of.me]

25. "It is possible to fall in love with words on a page."

so true, peggy! i have an online friend who is crazy about me! he loves me! and he has very little idea what i look like, but he does not care. it amazes me that this can happen. (i DO know what he looks like, as he sends me photos and movies he makes of funny stuff he does.)

[Bok_Tukalo]

7. All your crush are belong to us

Stay away from my rubarb.

[Sugar Smack]

13. BWAHAHAHA!

You are very funny! Mister!

:P

All your crush are belong to us.

[Bok_Tukalo]

15. Uh oh

I sometimes forget this is public.

[Sugar Smack]

19. SORRY-

Still laughing-

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[tainted_chimp]

8. I think so.

:evilgrin:

[Longgrain]

17. Thank you, most people don't.

:-(

[Sugar Smack]

9. Are you attractive.. let's see..

GGGROOOOOOOOWL, snarl, faint chewing noises.. ruff, ruff, snarl again, GROWL, faint smile, "am I attractive?" hehehehe. hahahahahaha!..."Am I attractive"? Let's see.. I'm looking at my attractiveness chart.



:wow: :loveya:

[Longgrain]

12. Sugah. As far as my attraction charts are concerned...

You're way off needle ya self.

[bridgit]

10. no opinion...

[fluffernutter]

18. do you mean how important is attractiveness?

i think looks are the first thing that attracts people or begins shallow crushes, but i think that other qualities a person posesses are more important in the long run.

p.s. nice vanity thread, you still got it!

[bridgit]

20. naw, is him pretty? and if so how much, reckon?

:shrug:

[Longgrain]

21. Ah Come on Fluff, ya know that's what the Lounge is for...

Just look around.

Both you and I have fallen into the spell of attraction, and have lived to tell about it...

Here's to us...:toast:

[Wcross]

22. Attractive to whom?

How important? I have never thought to myself "that person seems repulsive, I must get to know them better!"

[datasuspect]

23. why would you worry about such a thing?

if your soul is beautiful, you are beautiful.

although i couldn't see the pic, so i don't know what you look like.

[Longgrain]

24. I guess that's why I'm still single

no one marries a soul.

[datasuspect]

26. are you sure about that?

give it time . . .

try auditing a class at your local college. at night (to avoid the bulk of the daytime children).

that is sometimes a good way to meet interesting people.

[all.of.me]

27. oh that's not true!

it's the souls that connect, not what one looks like.

you're an attractive man, longgrain, with a gentle soul. relationships happen when people feel safe together, when they can completely be themselves with no judgment from the other person. that takes time to build, but you'll know it when you find it, believe me.

[datasuspect]

28. what you said!

i agree!

[all.of.me]

32. it's wonderful!

do you have it, that safety and trust? god, it's awesome!

[Longgrain]

30. I wish I knew someone who fit you're criteria..

I'm not very interesting in RL, and seriously, not very attractive...

Time for another drink me thinks.

[all.of.me]

31. what are YOUR criteria?

keep in mind, too, that we attract what we think. think of yourself as worthless and you'll attract people that think the same thing. think of yourself as a wonderful, warm, loving, gentle, honest, creative, worthwhile guy, and some wonderful, warm, loving, gentle, honest, creative, worthwhile woman will come along. change your thoughts about yourself!

every day, tell yourself OUT LOUD (that is very important!) that you are VERY interesting and VERY attractive. tell yourself that you are a wonderful, warm, loving, gentle, honest, creative, worthwhile guy. it will change how you see yourself. i am not kidding!

[Misunderestimator]

29. So not true...