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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:47 PM
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Ladies, would you marry a gay guy?
Edited on Sun Apr-03-05 06:48 PM by HypnoToad
Inquiring minds want to know!

Under any circumstances? Or is it an outright 'no'?

(Noting how the "Ex-Gay" cult seems to group G's and L's together instead of a G and a S (straight) or a L + S, I've to wonder what true hetero women would think of marrying a gay guy, or ex-gay guy...)
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Dookus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:48 PM
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1. If it was good enough for Momma, it's good enough for me
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:48 PM
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2. YUCK!! What does Michael Jackson have to do with this?!
:wow:
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DulceDecorum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:49 PM
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3. But was it good for Poppa?
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mahatmakanejeeves Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:51 PM
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4. Liza, is that you?
BTW, there is no such thing as an "ex-gay" guy. That's RW nonsense.
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Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:53 PM
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5. I see you're ready to help me with my "Prince Albert pickup lines" poll :P
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:54 PM
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6. Prince Albert... wasn't that a cigar company a thousand years ago?
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Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 07:00 PM
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14. Snuff I think. "Do you have Prince Albert in a can?" "Yes." "Well, you'd
better let him out!" -Old practical joke
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Bzzzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:57 PM
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7. The real question is...
why would a gay guy marry you?
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:58 PM
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10. They wouldn't.
Been 33 years now.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:57 PM
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8. Would you give up men for me?
This is hypothetical anyway since I am married. I certainly wouldn't want what happened to one of my high school teachers to happen to me: He was gay and eventually his lover moved in with them. Ex gay? Homo leaning bi who happened to fall in love with me? Honestly, I would be afraid that he would eventually want to be with guys again. Perhaps dating several years and having a great relationship would convinve me otherwise though.
One of my female friends married a gay guy who had previously only had relationships with men before we started dating her. She seemed to be attracted to gay guys, but she had her heart broken when they told her that they wouldn't "convert" for her, before she met her husband who had been dating one of her gay guy friends at the time. They've been married 4 years.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:59 PM
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13. Ah.
Well, I've been without men... I'd rather have somebody as a companion and I get along better with women anyway, in terms of discussion.

Doesn't matter, really... I don't see that happening either. :D
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:58 PM
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9. Yes.
nt
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:58 PM
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11. I Did Knowingly Marry A Gay Guy & Lived With He & His Partner For Years
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patricia92243 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 06:58 PM
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12. Is money involved?
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 07:02 PM
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15. Sure.. why not?
LOL! I love gay men... they just don't love me in that way. :silly:
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 07:15 PM
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16. I'd consider it.
If he was younger than me, good looking, we were the best of friends, he would be my escort to things I wanted to do, wouldn't share my bed, AND he was LOADED! So, hell, why not?

Marriage for companionship is valid, too.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 07:15 PM
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17. does this have anything to do w/ citizenship?
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-03-05 07:17 PM
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18. i have loved gay guys before
but not in the marrying way ... i lived with one in college and we did a lot of kissing once, but that's as far as that went (he was a great kisser, btw). we were just very VERY close, but not in a romantic way, nor in a brother/sister way ... it is really hard to describe. it's definitely a complicated type of love.
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