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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:25 PM
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How different are you in "real life" from on DU?
Edited on Wed Mar-30-05 11:39 PM by JanMichael
Believe it or not I'm the same "nice" godless commie in RL as I am here , there's little that I wouldn't say in RL than I would here.

Then again I do filter in professional situations, not all but some.

But on the balance what you see here is what you get there.

Period.

I hardly ever call people out in an aggressive way here, just like in RL.

But when I do I mean it:-)

Are you a reflection of your "real life" persona, an accurate reflection, online?

BIG PS: I've always been open and clear about my opinions but to be frank: The last few years have really opened up my outright personal conflict impulses.
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On Par Donating Member (912 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:27 PM
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1. I'm Just As Sarcastic To Republicans In Person...
...as I am here.
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:33 PM
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2. I'm pretty similar here....
I speak up less often here and am less of a leader than I am in real life. I think I get my fill of that, and come here to relax and learn, mostly. I'm non-confrontational, I really dislike conflict, so I stay away from a lot of it around here.
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Dirk39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:34 PM
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3. You're not!
Hello from Germany,
'till this very day, I was convinced, you're from France and I did always add an "e" and steal an "a" like in "Jean-Michel".
I thought you would be just another european godless commie as I am:-)
Now I did click on your profile and was shocked.

Filtering is not just o.k., it makes us human. Not to become a prostitute and not to become a stalinist is a hard thing to do, but you try.

I'm nicer in RL than here, 'cause people don't frighten me in real live. I get away with everything.



Dirk
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:37 PM
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11. Hah! Thank you, I am truly flattered! I am however a born & bred American.
A godless commie American but an American all the same.

I did however spend some 5 years in post 1989 Poland so maybe that's the Euro flavor?
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salinen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:34 PM
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4. In "real life"
I wear a cape with the letters SL for "Super Liberal". Soon I will fly to Washington and drop a semi trailer truck on Tom Delay's head.
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Not_Giving_Up Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:37 PM
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8. Can I videotape that?
PLEASE?????????
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CubsFan1982 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:35 PM
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5. I say and do a lot of things I would NEVER do in the real world.
For instance, I've never called anyone a douchebag to their face. :D
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:37 PM
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7. Not even an 8th grader?
:D
Oh well for me, I am way more shy, and I cant flirt worth a shit.
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CubsFan1982 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:45 PM
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28. Hmm...
I don't think 'douchebag' was a common insult when I was in 8th grade. I think we were still using 'dillweed' as the preferred vituperative at that point. :P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:46 PM
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29. ha dillweed
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:36 PM
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6. I think I'm pretty much the same- I thought I had more of a temper
in real life, but it sure seems to be showing itself here lately, too.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:37 PM
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10. So you're ultra silly IRL
greatttttt :D, I got a temper too, and its easy to hide here but it will surface sometimes.
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imenja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:37 PM
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9. definitely less argumentative
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:39 PM
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15. That's a relief
Are you coming on Saturday?
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imenja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:43 PM
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19. where is it going to be?
no one would put up with me if I argued as much as I do online. I'm always contrary, but it comes off differently in person, far less acerbic.
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immoderate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:44 PM
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23. but are you coming Saturday?
--IMM
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imenja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:45 PM
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26. I'll try, You're going?
are you bringing ice cream?
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immoderate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:49 PM
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34. Raging and I started it.
You can get ice cream there. I didn't know you were from around here.

--IMM
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:44 PM
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24. Here's the link - it should be fun
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imenja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:48 PM
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33. excuse me but
the address you provided doesn't match the one on the map
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:52 PM
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37. It doesn't?
Well, I have to blame IMModerate. He's the one that gathered that info. I just cut and paste it. I'll PM him.
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immoderate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:54 PM
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40. I'm here, I pasted the address, I think.
How far away could it be?

--IMM
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:55 PM
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41. IMM to the rescue
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imenja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:55 PM
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42. people might go to the wrong place
google map: 408 S Andrews Ave
Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301

IMMs description: 10 S New River Dr E, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301

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immoderate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:58 PM
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47. I think they are the same.
I know the place is on River Walk. I'll check it as much as I can. don't go 'way.

--IMM
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immoderate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-31-05 12:01 AM
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48. They are the same place.
10 S River is the Maxwell Room, their Banquet Hall. It's the side entrance.

No Problem. Check "A" or "C" on the map.

--IMM
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:39 PM
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12. I don't think I'm really as nice as you guys think I am.
:hi:
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:39 PM
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13. More talkative.
Much more.
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:39 PM
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14. I'm pretty much the same but with one exception
I don't go around copycatting people in real life.
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WI_DEM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:40 PM
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16. In real life I'm much different than my "Wi_Dem character"
I'm 6'4, 200 lbs and have a dimple in my chin--and am I buff.
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Amaya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:40 PM
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17. I'm much more opinionated in person
Maybe even a little bitchy ;)
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:56 PM
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45. That's dangerous
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Kathy in Cambridge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-31-05 12:02 AM
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50. You're not bitchy!
:hi:

I like most DUers I;ve met-seems to be a trend!


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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:42 PM
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18. Ok
Way more quiet, not as hyper active, oh and I don't flirt at all in real life.
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immoderate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:43 PM
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20. Not creative enough for another personality.
What you see is what I got.

--IMM
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:43 PM
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21. I'm the same in RL for the most part
I do have a little bit of a temper with those who piss me off.

:shrug:
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:45 PM
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27. C'mon man lol, you knwo that us aspies dont know how to
Edited on Wed Mar-30-05 11:45 PM by JohnKleeb
get girls like Rev :D. i also have a temper but only with those who psh it.
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:46 PM
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30. Yeah well that too
thanks for reminding me

:P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:50 PM
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35. Sure thing lol but I have a found away to talk to pretty girls
and even do stuff with them :).
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:52 PM
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38. Care to share with the class ?
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:58 PM
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46. Eh just hang out and talk you know
Nothing special.
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-31-05 12:02 AM
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49. Oh I know that
it's a problem of finding something interesting to say outside the realm of the usual: classes, movies, etc in my case
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-31-05 12:02 AM
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52. Yep my problem exactly
:(
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:43 PM
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22. Not one bit different.
Redstone
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:45 PM
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25. I'm far more reserved.
Simple as that.
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:46 PM
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31. The same I guess...Friendly, chatty,slow to anger
Interested in what others have to say...but...
Don't get me started on art...
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DeepGreen Donating Member (572 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:47 PM
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32. Actually,, in real life I am a hologram
:)
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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:52 PM
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36. I'm not much different
However in real life when I talk I use my voice instead of type.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:53 PM
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39. I never share "emotions" in real life.
People think I'm a rock.
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:55 PM
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43. I guess you mean how I am with other Dem's in real life.
The things is in real life they don't usually provoke me. We can discuss things and not reduce ourselves to throwing chairs, pulling hair and name calling when we don't agree. Here if I know it's going to turn into an episode of the Springer Show I usually avoid the topic. When I don't opt-out I usually make some smartass comment that is pretty much in character for me anyway.



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Kathy in Cambridge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-30-05 11:56 PM
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44. What you see is what you get


I'm still pretty blunt, but have social skills...
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-31-05 12:02 AM
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51. quieter
nt
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