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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:24 AM Original message |
Poll question: At what age did you lose a parent? |
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DeposeTheBoyKing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
1. I was a month short of 21 when I lost Dad |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
2. I talked to a friend this morning whose ex is dying of cancer |
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forgethell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
3. I'm 56 |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
4. Lost my Dad at 19 |
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indepat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
5. Mom is 91, Dad will be 93 Wednesday |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #5 |
18. congrats |
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outraged2 (306 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
6. I was four |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:57 AM Response to Reply #6 |
11. My dad's plane struck a mountain.... |
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outraged2 (306 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:14 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. That's odd |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 01:23 PM Response to Reply #14 |
28. It was an RB-36. |
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ronnykmarshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:41 AM Response to Original message |
7. I lost my dad when I was 41 in 2002. |
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dog_lovin_dem (237 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
8. I was 23 when my dad died |
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Freebird12004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:57 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Welcome to DU dog_lovin_dem |
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Freebird12004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
9. Dad passed away when I was 24 |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
12. I was 41 when my Dad died in 1989. Mom is going on 86 and was |
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prozacnation (367 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
13. I was 23 |
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guinivere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
15. My mom died in '72 |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
16. My parents both died relatively young |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
17. I was 23 when my mom died, early 40's when my dad died. |
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baldguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
19. My mom died last October. |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 09:36 AM Response to Reply #19 |
71. sorry to hear it |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
20. Mom died of cancer at 49, dad is 88 and hates Bush with a passion. |
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Ernesto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
21. Before I was born |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 12:33 AM Response to Reply #21 |
58. That must've been rough... |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
22. My mother was 33, I was 11. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:41 PM Response to Reply #22 |
39. I'm so sorry, Bertha... |
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Lauri16 (509 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
23. Re: "At what age did you lose a parent?" |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
24. My mother was killed in a car accident when I was 8... |
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hippiechick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
25. Lost my mom when I was 19; my dad when I was 28. |
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Moosepoop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
26. Lost our Mom to pancreatic cancer in 1987. |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
27. Dad died when I was 23, but I didn't find out till I was 28. |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
29. I was 32 when my dad died, that was 2001 but my mom just |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
30. I was almost 38 when my father died |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
31. 33, this past January. (Hence my advocacy for a grief group on DU) |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:39 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. Its a huge event in anyones life |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:41 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. I know that feeling well :^( |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:42 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Hang in there, you will get through it |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:44 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. Maybe. Or maybe I will keep overeating until I explode. *blah* |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:56 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Lean into it. It sounds counter-intuitive, but grieving is |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 07:37 PM Response to Reply #37 |
46. Yeah. I am waiting for the new normal. :^( |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:24 PM Response to Reply #32 |
50. Agreed; which reminds me of a book I once read... |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:28 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Its huge at any age |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
36. Hmmm, I think it was before I turned thirty. |
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Spirochete (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
38. Mom and dad both went in 2000 |
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THUNDER HANDS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
40. both my parents are still alive |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:56 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. I grew up with someone whose parents both died while she was in |
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HeeBGBz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
41. Both my parents died about 3 years ago |
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easttexaslefty (740 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:58 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. My dad died in 96 |
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lumberingbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
43. My Dad was 40 when he died, I was 20 |
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djeseru (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
45. 21 when my dad died... |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
47. Age 28 |
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HamstersFromHell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
48. Mom when I was 39, dad when I was 45 |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
49. My dad died at 32 in a car accident. I was 11. Mom a widow 28 with 4 kids |
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madison2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-20-05 11:57 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. wow that must have been tough for her |
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mordarlar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 12:28 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. Eh, we all made it. ; ) |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 12:07 AM Response to Original message |
53. Had to choose "other" - lost a dad when I was 9, another father |
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Caria (241 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
54. Our mother was a young widow too |
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samplegirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
55. Lost my father when i was 38 |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
56. i'm 49 |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
59. I was 33 when I lost my mom. |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
60. 17 and 22 |
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njdemocrat106 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:36 AM Response to Original message |
61. I lost my dad last year |
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ffm172 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:36 AM Response to Original message |
62. was 26 when my dad died way too young at the age of 55 |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:44 AM Response to Original message |
63. my dad shot himself 3 days before my 27th birthday |
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ffm172 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:47 AM Response to Reply #63 |
64. ouch |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:51 AM Response to Reply #64 |
66. lots of suicides in my family |
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ffm172 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:55 AM Response to Reply #66 |
67. I am so sorry |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 03:19 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. alcholism really sucks |
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Historic NY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 02:47 AM Response to Original message |
65. Lost both my parents before I was 13yrs old.... |
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Bombtrack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 03:31 AM Original message |
Nobody I ever loved has died yet |
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Bombtrack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 03:31 AM Response to Original message |
69. Nobody I ever loved has died yet |
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Binka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 04:57 AM Response to Original message |
70. Mom Died In 1995 I Was 36 She Was 65 |
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lavenderdiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 09:59 AM Response to Original message |
72. I was 37 when I lost my parents... |
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TOhioLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
73. Both within the same time period... |
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bikebloke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
74. Estranged from "mother" since 15 |
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Lindsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-21-05 10:42 AM Response to Reply #74 |
75. My dad died in a car wreck when I was 12... |
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