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coloradodem2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:43 AM
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What was the largest age difference there was between you...
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 01:29 AM by coloradodem2005
...and someone who showed interest in you?

For me, I have had a few women approximately 20 years older than me hit on me.

On edit: they were kinda hot. :evilgrin:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:44 AM
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1. Erm.... how old is Radical Activist?
:evilgrin:


HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:47 AM
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5. 29 I think
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:48 AM
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9. Ok so 10.
LMFAO! He's going to kill me later. :D

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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:27 AM
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94. i'm 29 too
:P
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:50 AM
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12. you punk!
LOL
I'm 27.

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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:50 AM
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15. BWHAHAHAHAHA!
Old man! :P
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:56 AM
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30. Come here!
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 12:56 AM by Radical Activist
:spank:
Uncle RA is NOT an old man!
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:57 AM
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34. Please RA make her wear the plaid skirt uniform as a punishment
:D
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:58 AM
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37. hehehehehe
good idea
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:59 AM
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38. Thanks
If you wanna get her to confess her sins, a priest's uniform always does the trick.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:04 AM
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42. Ack! Damn perverts
:P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:05 AM
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45. I think I'll take that as I like you Kleeb
:shrug:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:06 AM
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48. I like you Kleeb
:P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:07 AM
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49. I was hoping for a kiss
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:10 AM
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54. Opps, silly me!
:*
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:10 AM
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55. Thank ya
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:11 AM
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57. you're very welcome
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:11 AM
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58. Wowie wasnt expecting another
:*
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:16 AM
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61. You were too!
:P























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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:17 AM
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62. Jesus girl
:*, I think the lip sore from my braces is going away :D.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:11 AM
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56. You write that like
its some kind of new revelation that we didn't all know already. :shrug:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:15 AM
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60. LOL!
:P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:50 AM
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16. Oh 27
I thought she called people punks, eh.
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:44 AM
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2. Eleven years -- Younger than me.
It was marvelous. While it lasted.
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:44 AM
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3. i had a um..
how do you say, hook up, with a woman 10 years older than me a week and a half ago
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:47 AM
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4. Dont feel embarassed heh
I had a guy in one of my classes say he was dancing and shit with a 36 year old lol.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:48 AM
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8. dancing and shit with a 36 year old?
My God.
Was she even able to stand without using her walker?
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:49 AM
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11. I know
Our teacher who is a little younger than you was really teasing him for it. He's a good shit though, he was surprised as anyone to know that Ive tried pot.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:53 AM
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20. Sometimes you make me feel reeeeeeally old, Kleeb.
I still have a few years until 36, but geez....
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:54 AM
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24. Youre not old
You're younger than my favorite cousin on my dad's side and it sure dont feel like she's old.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:56 AM
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29. Thanks.
I'm younger than your favorite cousin...on your dad's side.

I guess I can take solace in that.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:57 AM
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36. She's really cool
She dated this English dude who worked in a recording studio.
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:54 AM
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25. haha progmom you are so cool
and i mean that :)
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:55 AM
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27. Thanks, Mark.
I truly feel the same about you!
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:03 AM
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41. LOL
:)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:04 AM
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43. We all wondered what he was doing
Everyone was like dude thats old enough to be your mom.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:07 AM
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50. Hey now, progmom! Careful there...
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 01:08 AM by CaliforniaPeggy
I TRUST you're kidding...I'm 61 and don't use any freakin' walkers!!!
(lol...)
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:27 PM
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112. You gotta know I'm kidding
I'm 33.
:)
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 03:59 PM
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123. I figured you were...
Good grief; I've got daughters your age! Here's to your long, happy and very healthy life!

:D

:hi:
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Mrs.Matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:24 PM
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111. Tee Hee
I am six years older than Matcom, but I am the one that gets carded for drinks! Hmmm, as a matter of fact the boyo has a b-day pretty soon!
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:27 PM
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113. I love being carded.
:hi:

How old will boyo be? And when?
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Mrs.Matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:33 PM
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115. His birthday
Is March 27th and he will be 36, so you can do the math and see how OLD I am :-)
Are you still coming up in April??
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:51 PM
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117. I won't miss it!
I can't wait to meet you both!
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Mrs.Matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:53 PM
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119. Us too!n/t
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:14 PM
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125. Don't it make ya feel gooooooood???
That's hapopened to me as well, though not since I hit 43 (sniff, sniff).

Is there a state where the drinking age is 32???
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:39 PM
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131. Robbing the cradle, eh?
S'aright, my wife is older than I am, too!

In fact, she's six months to the day older than me. We're quite opposite in many ways, too: I'm a slob, she's a neatnik; she's outgoing, I'm a bit introverted; she's gorgeous, I'm quite average; she's charming, I'm an @$$h0l3, etc.

:dunce:
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:57 AM
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35. haha oh im not embarrassed
just dont want to seem like im bragging or anything
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CubsFan1982 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 02:22 AM
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66. Robbin' the rest home, you nasty boy!
:P
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:47 AM
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6. Huh? girls taking an interest in me, surely you jest
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:47 AM
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7. I dated a guy who was 10 years older than me once. n/t
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:48 AM
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10. I briefly dated a guy 12 years older than me
...until I realized he was closer to my Mom's age than mine. :scared:
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:50 AM
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13. Thats just creepy and whats even more creepy is that
your old enough to be my sister, well kinda creepy, my dad is 53.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:52 AM
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19. She could be my sister too!
:o

I want her to be my sister! x(
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:53 AM
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21. Call me a freak but Ive always had the suspicion I do have brothers
and sisters out there that I dont know about. C'mon, my dad was sigle for all of the 70's, and my total opposite when it comes to girls.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:54 AM
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22. and I want to be yours!
:)

I never had a sister. You wanna be my sis?
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:55 AM
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28. I never had a sister either
Yes I want to be your sis! :7
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:56 AM
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32. You guys can always become pretend sisters
Ive had a couple.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:04 PM
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121. Yay!
Should we have some kind of sister commitment online ceremony?
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:50 AM
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14. sixty nine years
Only women in my family have ever cared about me. Dad's mom is 69 years older than I am.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:51 AM
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17. I dated my psych professor for about 6 weeks once.
I was 18 and he was 41. Got an A in that class (come on, I was going to get the A anyways. I've always been good in social science).
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jdj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:56 AM
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33. it's so skeevy how these prof's hit on women.
I had journalism professor date (bed) three of my friends serially.

is that why men become professors...it makes one wonder.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:00 AM
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39. You assume it was the professor making the advances?
A lot of young college women are attracted to one of their older professors.
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Reverend_Smitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:06 AM
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47. I've got the hots for one of my profs...
but I'd never act on it. I just admire him from a far...all the girls in my class do.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:08 AM
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51. And actually
that does make me want to become a college professor. lol

But I hope that by 40 I will have settled down with someone and won't be chasing women half my age.
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Reverend_Smitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:14 AM
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59. Yeah he's settled down...
with wife and kids. He's not the kind of guy that would chase around the girls. Too many rumors would fly around our tiny major for something like that to happen. But he does throw bitchin end of the year parties...a good time is had by all! Those who are too drunk to drive, crash on the couch
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:20 AM
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68. Maybe.
He was fired later on over another student. I was enchanted w/ him-he was English and very handsome. I had never had a man show me as much attention as he did and I felt very flattered. He took me out to the theatre and introduced me to wine and gourmet cooking. I look back and I know that I needed someone like him at the time (it was a huge ego boost) but yet I am angered that my child will meet someone like him in the future.
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Freebird12004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:24 AM
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69. or at least a B+
Hi Ya!!! xmas74
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:28 AM
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71. Hi.
I already knew the subject matter before we hooked up-the class was actually Human Sexuality (and I'm not even kidding-I slept w/ my sex ed teacher).
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Freebird12004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:33 AM
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73. They didn't teach that back in the stone age.
Sex Ed classes :silly:... that wasn't even discussed in polite company.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:39 AM
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75. But this was a college level course
You had to have your 100 and 200 level courses completed before you could take the class (I took my early courses while still in high school). It was a very interesting course, even if I didn't have an additional involvement in the class. I was very young and naive when I started that class and I learned all kinds of things that I never would have known about otherwise. It really opened my eyes.
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Freebird12004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:50 AM
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76. I dated my college Karate teacher.
I never intended to be so strong and I didn't know at the time that most of my life, I would live alone. My step-daughter once gave me an incredible complement, she said that I was the strongest person that she had ever met and she wasn't talking about physical strength.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:56 AM
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78. I learned that someone could find me desirable
and that there was such a thing as seduction (one boyfriend in high school and things didn't go that well). He was a positive influence on me. I think that I knew in the back of my mind that it would never work out but he introduced me to so many different ideas (and I'm not talking about sex). He made me become more well-read, introduced me to a different type of lifestyle away from the lower middle class one that I had been reared in. He helped me to realize that I could be witty, outrageous, pretty and smart all at once. He made me realize that I didn't always have to be a "good girl". It was a lesson that I really needed.
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Freebird12004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 06:11 AM
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90. That's a beautiful lesson.
A few months ago a gentleman told me that he thinks I'm beautiful. I laughed and thanked him, we both knew that he was referring to the beauty that in within. When I was younger, I was beautiful and I never realized it because I wasn't vain, I rarely looked in a mirror. I saw the beauty of my youth only after left side of my face became severely paralyzed on 12/26, three years ago. It has become almost un-noticeable now except for a crooked smile. BTW, I don't let that lopsided grin stop me from smiling!
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:52 AM
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18. My ex-girlfriend was....
23 years older than me.

Her son was 7 years younger than me.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:54 AM
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23. 30 years.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:54 AM
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26. Probably 12 years. Both older and younger.
Although with some women I wasn't sure about their age.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:56 AM
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31. Playa
:P
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:06 AM
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46. Just imagine how young
the girl who was 12 years younger had to be. She was trying to nab me pretty hard core, which made me very uncomfortable since she was so young. :scared:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:08 AM
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52. mmhmm
:scared:
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Dookus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:00 AM
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40. 40 years
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Nadienne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:05 AM
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44. When I was 21,
a man about 25 years older than me tried to hook up with me. He took me to a fancy, expensive Italian restaurant, and then we watched a movie at his house. Nothing more than that. He kept suggesting, hinting... I kept pretending naivety. Which didn't do much more than make his hints a little less covert. Since then I've learned to say "No, I'm not interested" quite firmly.
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Hatalles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:10 AM
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53. When I was 19 years old...
It was a 36-year old co-worker who had 4 kids (the eldest was 16). I was already thinking about leaving the job and her "love letter" freaked me out even more. I quit the next day.
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CubsFan1982 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:20 AM
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63. I had someone 15 years older hit on me a couple times.
Didn't believe I was only 18 at the time, so I whipped out the ol' driver's license and they backed off in a hurry!
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norml Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:23 AM
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64. About 30 years older, to about 30 years younger.
For a spread of about 60 years. Convention? What's that?
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 02:18 AM
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65. I was 20 and my husband 26 when we got married..n/t
..
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Dave Reynolds Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 02:29 AM
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67. I was a lad of 22,
she was a very well-kept 47.

It was....educational.
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imenja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:28 AM
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70. 21 years younger
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:31 AM
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72. I was 17, she was 36...
And she looked like obscure 70's B actress Jo Ann Harris; zowza!
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:37 AM
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74. I was 22, he was 42
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 04:37 AM by ffm172
my first bf was 20 years older than I. But he didn't look his age and it was ok with me. Now I am down to 5 years :)
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:07 AM
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81. Isn't that fun?
I've done the over 20 year mark too. Callie's father is about 10 years older than me.
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:10 AM
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83. I told you we have a lot in common
that just shows it again.
Why do you think we get along so well ... lol
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:13 AM
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84. I know it!
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:51 AM
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77. I wouldn't know
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:06 AM
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80. I believe that I am five years older than you.
I'm 30.
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:13 AM
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85. You're right. I'm 25.
I forgot about my DU girlfriend. I apologize.

:)
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:15 AM
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86. you have two of them
I am 30 also :)
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:25 AM
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87. Alrighty then. Cool.
:)
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:28 AM
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88. It's ok.
Do you feel better now that you can compare an age difference w/ the rest of the boys?
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:33 AM
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89. Yes.
Thank you.

:)
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 06:24 AM
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92. You're welcome.
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RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:05 AM
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79. The oldest I can remember was when I was 25
and I dated a guy who was 53. I had a long-term relationship with a guy who was 5 years younger.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:09 AM
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82. 17 years
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 06:14 AM
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91. Uh, I'm trying to recall how old I was. The girl was 19...
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:09 AM
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93. Thus far...
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 07:10 AM by SarahBelle
9 years older or 9 years younger. Actually, I had a bit of a flirtation (well, more than a bit, but nothing happened) with a man about 22 years older than myself several months ago. People are people, not numbers. Chemistry transcends that stuff. I'm extremely lucky in a lot of respects. I'm 33, but according to most people, I look significantly younger, so I can be with someone younger and not raise an eyebrow, yet I have plenty of life experience and can easily feel comfortable with people in their 40's or 50's. Therefore, I don't have to limit myself in either respect. :evilgrin:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:30 AM
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95. a 25 year old HOT Latino janitor at work just adores me
I will be 48 this month! :D
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:34 AM
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96. 1 year younger, 9 years older
And several in the 6-7 years older range... Nothing exceptional here.
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steve2470 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:35 AM
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97. had a girlfriend once who was 9 years older
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 07:35 AM by steve2470
A woman 13 years older recently wanted to get to know me. On the younger side, 20 years.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:41 AM
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98. how oLd is ronny?
:P

as for actuaLLy having a physicaL reLationship - i'm reminded of when i was an immature, 18 yo at a raging party with my new coworkers - i had just started working there that week.

towards the end of the night i ended hooking up with a coworker 10 years my eLder. anyhow, i wasn't very good in bed since i was drawing on Limited experience and sometime into my butchery i was grabbed by the hair, yanked away and asked, "how oLd are you?"
when i repLied, 18, she waiLed, "why!! why do i aLways do this!?"

anyhow, that ended that. it didn't reaLLy hit me at the time, but that's f'n hiLarious that my "performance" gave away my age. :P
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 07:44 AM
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99. Age ain't nothin' but a number.
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:57 PM
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120. you got that right!
:toast:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 01:09 PM
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122. So is an IQ.
:hi:

RL
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:17 AM
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100. 14 years.
He's 32. A really nice guy with a great job, but just couldn't do it. I tend to date in the 24-29 range. Call me weird and I hurt you! :D
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:18 AM
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102. weirdo
:loveya:
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:19 AM
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103. Oh, just you wait!
Major, MAJOR punishment for you! :D
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:17 AM
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101. I'm a geezer magnet.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:20 AM
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104. I have an ex that was 9 years my senior.
I was 26, she was 35. What some say about women in their mid-30's was, in this case, very, very true.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:48 AM
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106. Why?
What do they say? :shrug:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:16 PM
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108. Something about sexual prime...
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:38 PM
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130. Ah...
no further comment
O8)
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:47 AM
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105. My husband - 14 years older than me eom
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SCDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 10:01 AM
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107. My ex-husband was 29 1/2 years older than me
trying to lower the age difference if there is a next time

But I always end up attracted to older men
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:20 PM
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109. 16 years. On THREE seperate occassions..
When I was 22, I had a 38-y-o.
When I was 30, I had a 46-y-o
When I was 40, I had a 56-y-o.
Was good while it lasted, all 3 times...
Older women are WONDERFUL!
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foxy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:22 PM
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110. I do believe it was 67 years difference.
I was 18 and an 85 years old kept trying to pick me up.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:32 PM
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114. Probably about 18 years
the kid was younger too

I dunno..... when it comes to guys that young, all I can think about is how I'd feel if my son brought home somebody my age.....
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:39 PM
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116. 18 years older
Lasted a year, and was the best relationship I've had so far.

Haven't dated anyone younger... yet. But as far as interested... someone 10 years younger. :o
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 12:52 PM
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118. My second wife was 14 years younger than me.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:11 PM
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124. My hubby is 12 years younger than me, and we are celebrating 9 years in
April. We dated for 4 years before we married, too.
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:18 PM
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126. I had a surgeon in his 50s hit on me (I was in my late 20s)
He was kinda good-looking, but it really freaked me out. I went out to dinner with him once. He asked me, "Should we be lovers?" I was just coming off a nasty breakup and didn't know what to say, but the relationship did not proceed; I indicated lack of interest in pursuing that option.
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Love Bug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:19 PM
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127. I used to date a guy 15 years my junior I was 44, he was 29
It was fun while it lasted! Younger men have lots of "energy." :evilgrin:
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Mean Streets Donating Member (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:22 PM
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128. Not sure how old she was exactly...
But when I was 18 and doing a lot of landscaping work in the summers, I worked in an old lady's yard who seemd awfull flirty with me. She was pretty hot too. Early 50's I'd guess. I imagine she was just smokin' when whe was younger.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:34 PM
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129. A man in his 60s was interested in me when I was in my 30s
He was the keynote speaker at a writer's conference I went to. We ended up talking much of the day and he stayed in touch. Because of the age difference, I thought he was just taking an interest in a young writer; I had no clue that he wanted to go out with me. :shrug:

And recently, I've had a f*buddy who is 15 years younger than me. He's the one who made the first move.
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:40 PM
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132. Five years younger. I was 25, she was 20
Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 04:41 PM by no name no slogan
Needless to say, it didn't work out.

However, my wife is exactly 6 months older than me, to the day.
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fudge stripe cookays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:42 PM
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133. About 30 years.
When I started working at a brand new federal job when I first moved to Dallas in '94, there was an old French guy down the hall who took me to lunch.

He was practically ancient, but it was just nice to meet a coworker. I was about 28, he had to have been at least late 50s or early 60s. It was just one lunch, although he wanted there to be more. I just couldn't see what we would talk about. Too much of a cultural and age difference.

FSC
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 04:47 PM
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134. the person was 17 yrs older than me
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Shredr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 05:00 PM
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135. My partner and I are 14 years apart.
I'm the older one... he's the more mature one.
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 06:02 PM
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136. 25 years younger ...
and I'm old enough to really know better, and didn't act on it.

Biggest relationship difference: girlfriend 9 years younger.

When I was 16 I had a brief relationship with a 21-year old college girl, and that seemed like a huge age difference!
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 06:36 PM
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137. Probably about 60, why do all the old guys think that I am hot?
Whenever I am out in public, all the 50+ men seem to be staring at me, drooling over me, even when there are beautiful women around. I even had this happen to me at a strip club (I am not a dancer and I wasn't naked either).
On the other side of things, I've had underage boys hit on me recently too.
I am 27.
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WMliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-16-05 09:51 PM
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138. Decades...
:scared:
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