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movie_girl99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 11:58 AM
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who here met their SO online
Edited on Tue Mar-01-05 11:58 AM by movie_girl99
this post is based on a conversation i had with a fellow DUer who met his wife online. I met my husband online almost 6 years ago. We will celebrate our 5th anniversary next week on the 10th.
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ewagner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 11:59 AM
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1. When I met my
SO....

there was no such thing as "online".
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RubyDuby in GA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:00 PM
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2. I met a guy online
Dated for 5 years before accepting that it was never going to work. I know it happens for people all the time, but just not for me. :shrug:

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trotsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:00 PM
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3. Right here.
Our 10th anniversary is this month. Yes, this was before the world wide web.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:01 PM
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4. I did
We met last May...sealed the deal in July and she will be moving here soon.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:02 PM
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13. you met here right?
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:02 PM
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29. Yep
Right here.... best place in this country to meet someone :)
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:08 PM
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31. i thought so
i stated that once before in a thread, and i was toLd that was wrong.

i aLso thought tony and paddy met here, and was toLd that was wrong too. i don't know what to beLieve now. :P
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:11 PM
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33. Well, you really NEVER know what to believe... :)
but we definitely met here. I think Tony and Paddy were together
before joining DU... but not sure.
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:02 PM
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5. Me!
We've been together almost 7 years, longer than either of my marriages.

Love them Internets!
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:05 PM
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6. met my bf online
in May it will be a year that we are together :)
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:04 PM
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14. Yea!
I'm so happy for you!:hi:
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:42 PM
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26. thanks
and believe me, I am very happy about that too
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:57 PM
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27. You're back!
I spent the morning trying to learn about investing for a college fund and now my brain hurts!:hurts:

My daughter says hi! (hhhhhhhhjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj hhiiiiiiiii)
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ffm172 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:06 PM
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30. yeah, I showed up
nothing on TV :)

tell your daughter :hi:

did you figure something out?
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:11 PM
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7. I've met a few people right here on DU who
I wouldn't mind linking up with in real life, but they always end up either married, under age, or reside on the opposite side of the country...:-(
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:57 PM
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19. Word...
:-(
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:08 PM
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22. Too many people unfortunately
:(
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:20 PM
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25. Yeah, DU is full of wonderful women.
Some guys, too, but who cares about them? ;-)
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:44 PM
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38. I don't know, a couple of them asked me where I lived
and if I was willing to travel.

I don't know if they were serious tho...
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:02 PM
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44. I met and married a woman from the opposite side of the country
after online proceeded to long phone calls and then visits. The irony is that her brother lived a mile away from me, on my side of the country.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:13 PM
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8. I did, on Yahoo.
We met in a chat room 4 years ago. I never suspected that I would meet my soulmate online, but sho'nuff, it happened.
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movie_girl99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:55 PM
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18. same here..in movie chat n/t
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Goldom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:30 PM
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9. I did-
will be 3 years next month. Though maybe 5 that we've known each other total. And yes, we live at opposite ends of the country. It is still worth it.
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MGKrebs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:57 PM
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10. I did.
Apple used to have an online community called eWorld. Ms. Krebs hosted a couple of rooms- one on food, one on jazz, and another was a game in which we tried to guess the meaning of obscure words.

It's been 9 years now. :-)
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gardenista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:04 PM
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20. Krebs?! It's Mogo! I don't know if you remember me, but I hosted a
garden chat and was a big fan of Silly Sentences. Xelph and I have been married for 7 years. : )

Nice to see an eWorld "face".

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MGKrebs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 10:02 AM
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56. Heh!
We met in Boston, right?
You remember JazzyCCC/Casper? That's Ms. Krebs!

Good to see you!
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gardenista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-02-05 09:04 PM
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57. Yes, I remember!
It's so nice to hear about you and "Casper", and that you're still together. There were some great people on eWorld, kinda like DU.

Xelph remembers you and says hi to you both.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 12:59 PM
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11. Sort of, but not really.
We met in person at a DU function in Bloomington IN. Prior to that, we'd never had any contact here. I'm not sure if that counts or not.
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trackfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:02 PM
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12. I did - it will be 10 years in November. n/t
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scarlet_owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:36 PM
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15. I met my husband on Yahoo personals.
I think meeting someone online is much more accepted today then it was back when I met Jim. We've been married for four years and are very happy.
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movie_girl99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:18 PM
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23. i agree
i was afraid to tell my family and friends that didnt know. Not that i was ashamed but people were so crappy about it. I kept hearing that i was going to cut up and put in a fridge or something.
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Joe Power Donating Member (778 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:43 PM
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16. I'm marrying her...
...on the 19th. :hi:
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Technowitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 01:47 PM
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17. *raises her hand*
Met my spouse on a mailing list.

Then came phone calls.

Then a visit as I was moving from the east coast to the west.

Moved in together within six months.

We married 18 months later.
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Debbi801 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:04 PM
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21. Me. We "met" over 8 yrs ago and have been married for 5 1/2.
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 02:19 PM
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24. I have never met an SO.
I did meet my insignificant other online, though.
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movie_girl99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:53 PM
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39. that's what an SO is n/t
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:10 PM
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49. Insignificant?
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:01 PM
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28. I met my special man online.
Edited on Tue Mar-01-05 03:08 PM by terrya
At the Advocate IE message board. 5 years ago.

He is more than I ever dared hope for.

I hope that I've given him the love and happiness that he's given me.
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lazarus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:10 PM
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32. Me
Haele and I met over on Usenet. We had the first DU wedding, webcast and all!
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:14 PM
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34. No Way!! You had a webcast of the wedding or are you joking?
:hi:
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lazarus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:57 PM
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53. Yes ma'am
San Diego County has a set up when you get married at the old courthouse downtown. For a small fee, you can have it webcast.

Apparently, we hit their server harder than anybody else before. :-)
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 06:16 PM
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55. That is Soooooo coooool!
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Ariana Celeste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:25 PM
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35. I did! Living with him now-
Edited on Tue Mar-01-05 03:26 PM by Ariana Celeste
we met in a religious debate chat room a few years ago, but were just friends, until a year and a half ago- we decided to hook up, and I moved out here to Indiana, from Washington State on January 15th, 2004.

I was so scared when I flew in!!! But, he and I hit it off just like we expected, and we are now talking about marraige.

We already consider eachother hubby and wife, and even wear the rings- just haven't gone through the legal measures yet. :loveya:

On edit- Happy Anniversary! Very cool!
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Glenda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:29 PM
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36. Me
He brought me to DU, but he doesn't hang out in the lounge. Much.

I should be a good girl anyway!!

O8)
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mr blur Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:30 PM
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37. I met my wife online
We've been together ever since and married for over five years.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:54 PM
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40. yuppers
http://www.democraticsingles.net

I got tired of dating conservatives on campus, or guys who wanted to get married right now :think:

I got lucky and met Justin through the afore mentioned website, and we've been together for almost three unbelievable months! :D
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:56 PM
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41. Lucky guy...
I wish you two the best of luck! :toast:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:58 PM
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43. thanks longgrain!
After dealing with a shitty relationship, meeting this guy was like breathing pure oxygen.
Plus he introduced me to the awesomeness that is the marijuana.
Dood, did you ask that chick out yet?!
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:04 PM
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47. Not yet, I have a hard time meeting up with her
since we work in two separate department and have different days off...but we are still talking and she does have my E-mail, which I should check now that I mention it...
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:09 PM
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48. excellent
Just work your groove thang ! :beer:
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 03:58 PM
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42. 11, 10, 6
Met online eleven years ago, got together ten years ago, married six years ago.
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Cyndee_Lou_Who Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:02 PM
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45. Me...
I am in a relationship now that started online ... on DU as a matter of fact! So far... :loveya:

Actually - met my last one online, too - THAT turned out to be a nightmare that still plagues me. He registered on DU in December, stalked me, hacked into my DU Mail and 2 email accounts... and jeebus knows what else! argh!!

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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:12 PM
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51. I think I know who it is...
I saw that picture posting thread...

Show off!
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Cyndee_Lou_Who Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:25 PM
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52. You = pot...... Me = kettle
pssssshhhhh.... show off!??!

Distance can be overcome, LG... don't let it get in your way.
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tonywwk589 Donating Member (5 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:03 PM
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46. I met my mate oncam
in May or June of 2000, and moved from San Francisco to Providence later that year. We've been happily together since.
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 04:10 PM
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50. On Match.com, ten years ago.
We've been together ever since.
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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-01-05 05:00 PM
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54. Mrs. V. and I just celebrated the 5th anniversary of her proposal of
Edited on Tue Mar-01-05 05:01 PM by Bertha Venation
marriage. We met on line.

edited to quell any suspense: I said yes. :loveya:
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