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Jack_Dawson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:04 PM Original message |
Poll question: Should I tell my gf... |
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neuvocat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. Just let it wait for now. |
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pagerbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. Why are you telling DU about your fling? |
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SheepyMcSheepster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. did this fling happen while you were committed to your gf? |
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LastKnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:07 PM Original message |
being truthful is best. but if she cant take it right now... wait. nt |
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Fenris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
4. A few factors |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
5. I hate to sound devious, BUT... |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
6. To what end? Don't saddle her with it to ease your guilt. |
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Jack_Dawson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:09 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Good point... |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:12 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. You took the words right off of my keyboard. |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:04 PM Response to Reply #13 |
31. bunnyj, it makes me feel good |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:29 PM Response to Reply #31 |
43. That's high praise, coming from one such as youself, trof! |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:02 PM Response to Reply #6 |
29. BINGO! |
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Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. It doesn't have to be right away |
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Commendatori (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
9. Fine, you screwed up, but |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:11 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I second that. Learn from it and take it to your grave. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
10. If you were emotionally involved I would say yes. |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
12. Don't tell at this time |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
14. Don't tell. |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
15. That is what deathbeds are for. n/t |
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smada (311 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
16. I thought you were going to say |
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WinterStorm (790 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
17. I would dump a mans ass if I found out |
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TX-RAT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:44 PM Response to Original message |
18. It happened once and I'll never see her again |
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Raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
19. If I was your gf, I would want to know |
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liontamer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
20. absolutely not |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
21. One question |
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newsguyatl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
22. you cheated on her recently? |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
23. YES YOU SHOULD. |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
24. Tell the damn truth. |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
25. Your GF is an adult. She deserves to know, and to act on the information. |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:50 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. I can't say I agree with that completely. |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:09 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. You speak wisely, l_v. |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:25 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. You would think I would be a hard-liner too.... |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:45 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. Your stakes were undeniably higher. So glad that you've moved... |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
26. If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. |
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Jack_Dawson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
39. That is a great story - seriously |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:25 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. Thanks. Like they say, "it is what it is." eom |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
28. I can't believe some of the answers I'm seeing here. |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:05 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. I was married for quite a long time to man who liked his 'flings' |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:10 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. No. There is a difference between a one time mistake and habitual cheats. |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:07 PM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Bingo. I don't THINK my partner of 15 years has ever cheated, but... |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:27 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. There ya go. |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:33 PM Response to Reply #28 |
44. "Just bury it" --This lets the straying partner off the hook too easily... |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:54 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. OK, we agree to disagree. |
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MissAnnThrope (192 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 07:18 PM Response to Reply #28 |
53. Bingo! |
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Screaming Lord Byron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
30. If you think you can pull it off successfully, yes. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
32. "Go forth, and sin no more..." |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
36. Bury it |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
38. follow your god damn heart man! |
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achtung_circus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
45. Tell her |
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elfrangel (661 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
47. Sweet Guilt???? |
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niceperson (76 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
48. don't make her suffer |
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Tredge (152 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
50. Truth Will Out |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 07:10 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Naw, Tredge. |
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Donkeyboy75 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-16-04 07:09 PM Response to Original message |
51. Don't tell her. |
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