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Wow. So a little glass of wine for me now at the end of a delightful evening... :eyes:
Some of you might remember my dear friend who's in the middle of a particularly nasty divorce -- several years of abuse wound up in a fight where she went to jail, since she didn't have a mark on her.
At any rate, there's an existing restraining order at the moment between the pair, and a 16 year old daughter (hers from a previous fellow) to add to the mix. When last we left our heroes, she had been over at my house in the afternoon watching Fear Factor when he saw her car and decided to stop in, daughter in tow (she seems to have sided with him in everything) to delivery a little profanity to my friend on my front porch, having come to his own sordid conclusions about my relationship with her.
That ended without incident, other than the violation of the restraining order that I told her to report, and it looks like she didn't.
Fast forward to tonight, about a week later. Seven of us crammed into a car for a night out and about, up to another friend's house in the hills -- long windy road in the woods, pretty out of the way. We pull up to the house, beer in hand, ready for a lovely evening.
Ten minutes later, the ex pulls into the driveway, right next to my friend's car. No way he didn't see it was there. This time he's got the daughter and one of the daughter's friends with him. Plops down, opens a beer, and starts watching television with a surly look.
Sooo... I grab my friend and one of her girlfriends and we leave. My friend is shaking, begs to be taken back down to town to the nearest bar, and I oblige. The three of us have a cocktail (I opt for soda), calm down somewhat. Homeward, suggests Robb.
BUT... in addition to people who don't have a ride back down, who I was fully prepared under the circumstances to abandon up there (they'd understand, I'm sure), my friend's puppy was still at the house in the hills. So after a quick phone call confirms the ex is still at the house, I suggest we grab a cop to come up with us. No, insists my friend, I don't want to do that to the couple that own the house.
So we drive up with the plan, send in my friend's girlfriend for the puppy and whoever wants a ride, and get off the hill quickly.
All of which went off well until the ex decided to come out and visit with us. By this point I was driving, being the only one not freaking out, to say nothing of my singular sobriety. So as I sit in the car, windows almost all the way up and doors locked, down trots the ex with the daughter right behind him.
"Hey!" he offers, surly look.
I nod.
"What's going on?" he says, sidling up to the car. Meanwhile the straggling friends are making their way into the car, moving (to my estimation) very slowly. I was ready to leave.
"I'm the sober guy," I say, staring at him as evenly as I can.
"Yeah," he says, "you look pretty sober."
At which point he rears back and punches my window.
It didn't break (he's punched out a window when she was in the driver's seat before), and I'm more than a little proud to say I didn't flinch at all. I don't think I even blinked. But it goes without saying I was moments from having to get out of the car, which doubtless would've meant jail time for someone, definitely my friend and probably me.
But the daughter puts herself between him and the car, pushing him back to his truck as finally the rest of my little crew gets in and close their doors.
Aaaaand I drive us off.
My friend demands a little more bar time, I oblige, let her get good and drunk, drive her home, get her inside onto her bed, lock her doors and check the house to make sure it's good and tight, take her car back to my neighborhood, park it down the block, and walk home.
Which brings us up to the point where I'm having wine and typing this out as I plan what I should do next. I don't like being threatened, and I definitely don't like being put in a situation where I'd have to get in a fight with some guy. My feeling is it's time for me to bring in law enforcement from my direction on this fellow -- my relationship with the town Marshall is rock-solid, and I know he'll advise me well. But I thought heck, it's a good story, maybe someone here has a little advice.
Back to my wine, thanks for reading. :)
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