If you're attached

[Deja Q]

(dating, married, partnered, single)

If you and your SO click when together, but the other seems distant on the phone and in e-mails, would you be worried?

(I'm leaning toward Naah, everybody's different.)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

1. i am warm and effusive generally

but a really bad phone person...

[SW FL Dem]

2. Married 18 years

Phone conversations are limited to the basics, email too. The rest of life is good.

[Rabrrrrrr]

3. Everyone's experience is different

An online poll will not answer the question you are really asking, which is a question that you can only ask your SO. And which you SHOULD ask your SO.

But let me say that I empathize with the anxiety you are going through. It's an annoyingly difficult situation to be in.

[supernova]

4. Not attached but

really bad at phone chit chat. Beyond the basics, I'm not a "must keep in constant touch" througout the day person.

I just don't have the talking gene. But I make a special effort to communicate when spending face2face time.

[NightTrain]

5. If my S.O. and I ever actually meet, I'll be happy to answer your question

:eyes:

[neoteric lefty]

6. I would think I would be worried

if I didn't feel distant to my SO when we talk on the phone (shes out of town for 3 months). I would usually rather be next to her.

[mkultra]

7. i hate talking on the phone

so if my wife calls me at work, there really needs to be a reason

[Rowdyboy]

8. My guy is really formal on the phone...

He'll relax but it takes a while. He also writes e-mails like personal letters. His grammer, punctuation and syntax is correct (he teaches English and Spanish)

[AlienGirl]

9. I suck on the phone myself

So I wouldn't be too worried.

Tucker

[rucky]

10. They're just cheating on you. that's all. n/t