Should I go to a Frat party or Not?

[aljones]

okay, this is a difficult decision for me! One of my long time friends is a DJ and is going to be DJing at this party. Plus his little brother, also a good friend of mine's band is playing there. Easy decision you would think. but i have told myself over and over again to stay about from the DJ. Why? We always end up doing things that people who are just friends should not! he and his friends are always around when me and my friends go out! there is no staying away from him. even though i do try! when he is not around i miss him.

what to do?! i need help i think!

smile ally

[DS1]

1. seems like you like the guy if you miss him

go and be merry, you're only young once

[aljones]

3. We always have a good time!!

We are too much alike not to have fun!! We are both very smart and educated people who care about the world around us!! We are just headed in different directions! there is no real hope for us!!

[iamjoy]

2. Be Careful

Watch any beverage you drink being poured, and don't leave it unattended.

And just in case, bring protection!

[aljones]

4. thanks!!

I don't really drink anymore so I am sure that won't be much of a risk factor!

smile ally

[iamjoy]

10. Watch Your Soda or Water, Too

I mean, so no one can slip anything in it.

[aljones]

11. your great thanks!!

smile ally

[LostInAnomie]

5. Hell, why not...

I'm just assuming that you mean sex. Just say that you are on the rag and you shouldn't have a problem.

If you like the guy this will help out because it might peak his interest because it will delay his gratification, and force him to ask you out if he wants to get anywhere. If you can keep his interest peaked without actually submitting to natural urges the chances are better for a real relationship.

[aljones]

7. Thanks!!

that is a great idea!! i have actually done that before with him!! We just end up talking for hours instead having sex. but it never really goes anywhere!! it just makes me sit for days and replay our conversation in my head!!


smile ally

[I_like_chicken]

6. Stay away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You obviously still harbor feelings for him, while he obviously does not. So unless you like getting used for sex, then your only going to continue to get yourself hurt.

[aljones]

8. I feel just like that sometimes!!

But he really is a good friend of mine!!

I just think that we are both confused!!

but you may very well be right!!

thanks

smile ally

[I_like_chicken]

13. i think you're just trying to come up with excuses

i think you really like him, and you're afraid to tell him for fear of rejection. so if you're gonna sleep with him again, make sure you tell him how you feel, and make sure he feels that way too, otherwise you're just gonna get hurt. and if you dont have the ball to tell him, then practice with one of your friends or think of something else, i dont know. but under dont sleep with him again under any circumstance until you know he likes you. and if you ask, and he says he doesnt, dont worry about it, at least you'll be able to get over him and begin looking for someone else.

[peacebuzzard]

9. you might find a frog to kiss, why not?

what else do you have to do this late at night?

[aljones]

12. oh, its not tonight!!

It is on monday!!
Last big bash kinda thing!! biggest party of the year and all that crap!!

my girls are real excited!!

smile ally

[the Kelly Gang]

14. will it be like a Lynddie England style frat party ?